Have you ever talked about your fetish to a loved one?

[bringhimhigh]

My girlfriend has no idea I want to be lifted. I have a pretty strong hand fetish and leather fetish and we do things with those. It seems less embarassing to me. I wish I had more confidence but for now it is what it is.

[ramygenad]

My girlfriend has no idea I want to be lifted. I have a pretty strong hand fetish and leather fetish and we do things with those. It seems less embarassing to me. I wish I had more confidence but for now it is what it is.

I talked with my gf about my fetish and her reaction was like "ewww are u gay?" And then she said she can't live with someone like me

[pin381]

And my girlfriend gladly supported this idea))

[Ddpdrop]

I talked with my gf about my fetish and her reaction was like "ewww are u gay?" And then she said she can't live with someone like me

yeah, unfortunately it is better to keep quiet on something like this. Nobody wants to hear about it. I wish women would see things differently.

[pin381]

I talked with my gf about my fetish and her reaction was like "ewww are u gay?" And then she said she can't live with someone like me

It’s strange, but here there’s a fetish for LC and gay??? Sorry...

[zebra]

yeah, unfortunately it is better to keep quiet on something like this. Nobody wants to hear about it. I wish women would see things differently.

I told a guy friend. He promised to keep it a secret, but he told our other friends for laughs.

[Ddpdrop]

I told a guy friend. He promised to keep it a secret, but he told our other friends for laughs.

Yep. Exactly that. If you open up to anyone, there is a very high chance they will use it against you. I think a lot of people will be willing to exploit you so they can take any attention off their own funny or odd fetishes. Your "friend" probably enjoys something ten times weirder or worse than what you (we) do.


I hate to be a negative Nancy, but it reminds me of that old song by Nick Cave - "people just ain't no good"

[zebra]

Yep. Exactly that. If you open up to anyone, there is a very high chance they will use it against you. I think a lot of people will be willing to exploit you so they can take any attention off their own funny or odd fetishes. Your "friend" probably enjoys something ten times weirder or worse than what you (we) do.


I hate to be a negative Nancy, but it reminds me of that old song by Nick Cave - "people just ain't no good"

He just shared the story for cheap laughs. "You'll never guess what turns Zebra on!" He also knew about my thing for larger girls and smaller girls too. In fact, he was friends with such a pair, and they agreed to a photo shoot (at his behest) that fell through the cracks.

[Ddpdrop]

He just shared the story for cheap laughs. "You'll never guess what turns Zebra on!" He also knew about my thing for larger girls and smaller girls too. In fact, he was friends with such a pair, and they agreed to a photo shoot (at his behest) that fell through the cracks.


I hope you aren't friends with him anymore. I know exactly where you are coming from - my own brother did something similar to me a few times, thank god it wasn't about L&C.

It is not so nice but, I think most people would sell their own grandmother into slavery if they could make a few quid off it. It is almost always better to keep quiet and never let something like this out.

[Mark G]

I told a guy friend. He promised to keep it a secret, but he told our other friends for laughs.

Similar thing happened with me. I also told a guy friend and he thought it hilarious. He started carrying me around the room telling me to imagine he was a woman! We had been out to a party and had quite a lot to drink.

[zebra]

I hope you aren't friends with him anymore. I know exactly where you are coming from - my own brother did something similar to me a few times, thank god it wasn't about L&C.

It is not so nice but, I think most people would sell their own grandmother into slavery if they could make a few quid off it. It is almost always better to keep quiet and never let something like this out.

He admitted that he did it, so it was forgiven. My friends and I always made fun of each other, so it was no big deal. It was embarrassing to a certain extent. That was as far as it went because I knew that they just thought it was funny, and they never thought that it was a "clutch my pearls" kind of thing.

[zebra]

Similar thing happened with me. I also told a guy friend and he thought it hilarious. He started carrying me around the room telling me to imagine he was a woman! We had been out to a party and had quite a lot to drink.

Fortunately, he never lifted me. I doubt that he would have done that if he was drunk.

[Mark G]

Fortunately, he never lifted me. I doubt that he would have done that if he was drunk.

My friend was laughing for the rest of the night about it. I was staying round his flat after the party. He was carrying me around for about half an hour! Thank God there was nobody else there.

[Ddpdrop]

He admitted that he did it, so it was forgiven. My friends and I always made fun of each other, so it was no big deal. It was embarrassing to a certain extent. That was as far as it went because I knew that they just thought it was funny, and they never thought that it was a "clutch my pearls" kind of thing.

I gotcha :) I would be mortified - for me, i take things a bit harder, but glad you guys ended up staying friends!

[zebra]

I gotcha :) I would be mortified - for me, i take things a bit harder, but glad you guys ended up staying friends!

He had a foot fetish, and he was into female bodybuilders. We all had our quirks, so no one could throw stones.

[Mark G]

He had a foot fetish, and he was into female bodybuilders. We all had our quirks, so no one could throw stones.

Good and accurate post. All sorts of quirks - the friend of mine whom I was talking about got a turn on from comparing his muscles with everyone,believe it or not. Lol.

[zebra]

Good and accurate post. All sorts of quirks - the friend of mine whom I was talking about got a turn on from comparing his muscles with everyone,believe it or not. Lol.

There are quite a few guys like your friend. They often limit the muscle comparisons to female bodybuilders or ordinary women, though. I like it when larger women compare themselves to smaller women. That's my main niche, and F/F lifting is just a part of it, but I can add spanking, tickling, wrestling, etc. (as part of the F/F larger/smaller niche), and it keeps things from getting too repetitive (some guys, for instance, post a zillion pictures of fat women dressed as clowns).

[Mark G]

There are quite a few guys like your friend. They often limit the muscle comparisons to female bodybuilders or ordinary women, though. I like it when larger women compare themselves to smaller women. That's my main niche, and F/F lifting is just a part of it, but I can add spanking, tickling, wrestling, etc. (as part of the F/F larger/smaller niche), and it keeps things from getting too repetitive (some guys, for instance, post a zillion pictures of fat women dressed as clowns).

Psychologists would have a fine time trying to analyse all these fetishes,would n't they? Lol.

This particular friend of mine is one of these types who are almost what I'd describe as pretty looking but muscular and he gets off on that a lot.

[zebra]

Psychologists would have a fine time trying to analyse all these fetishes,would n't they? Lol.

This particular friend of mine is one of these types who are almost what I'd describe as pretty looking but muscular and he gets off on that a lot.

I don't get too deep or too heavy with it. I like F/F large/small scenarios in the same way that I like our local pizza; it is what it is. If I had to find the spark that started my fire of fascination, it would be a TV movie in which a larger older women threatened to carry a younger smaller woman, against her will, to a shower to clean her. I was in kindergarten at the time!

[Mark G]

I don't get too deep or too heavy with it. I like F/F large/small scenarios in the same way that I like our local pizza; it is what it is. If I had to find the spark that started my fire of fascination, it would be a TV movie in which a larger older women threatened to carry a younger smaller woman, against her will, to a shower to clean her. I was in kindergarten at the time!

Was that Whoopi Goldberg and Winnona Ryder? I recall Whoopi carrying Winnona into the shower or dropping her into a bathtub.

[zebra]

Was that Whoopi Goldberg and Winnona Ryder? I recall Whoopi carrying Winnona into the shower or dropping her into a bathtub.

No, it was an old movie with an older businesswoman and a younger hippy. You're not the first person to mention Girl Interrupted, in which Goldberg carries a naked(?) Ryder to a washtub, plops her in, and diligently scrubs her with soap. Needless to say, I love that scene. I made up a lot of scenes with Winona in my imagination!

[Mark G]

No, it was an old movie with an older businesswoman and a younger hippy. You're not the first person to mention Girl Interrupted, in which Goldberg carries a naked(?) Ryder to a washtub, plops her in, and diligently scrubs her with soap. Needless to say, I love that scene. I made up a lot of scenes with Winona in my imagination!

That's a really good film. I wished I could take Winnona's place. Lol.

[zebra]

That's a really good film. I wished I could take Winnona's place. Lol.

That makes one of us. I wish that I could take Whoopi's place in that scene.

[Mark G]

That makes one of us. I wish that I could take Whoopi's place in that scene.

I always enjoy watching how effortlessly Whoopi carries Winnona - like she weighs absolutely nothing. Whoopi must have been pretty fit back then.

[zebra]

I always enjoy watching how effortlessly Whoopi carries Winnona - like she weighs absolutely nothing. Whoopi must have been pretty fit back then.

That could be. I think that Winona was extremely light too. I sometimes pictured her in scenarios with female athletes and female entertainers, who were much bigger than her. I wrote a fantasy magazine article on it way back in the past.

[Mark G]

That could be. I think that Winona was extremely light too. I sometimes pictured her in scenarios with female athletes and female entertainers, who were much bigger than her. I wrote a fantasy magazine article on it way back in the past.

I like imagining that Winnona is being carried by JLO.

[zebra]

I like imagining that Winnona is being carried by JLO.

That'll work. I was thinking about someone like Cheryl Haworth or Becca Swanson.

[Mark G]

That'll work. I was thinking about someone like Cheryl Haworth or Becca Swanson.

That would be good.

Or how about Demi Moore or a young Kathleen Turner?

[zebra]

That would be good.

Or how about Demi Moore or a young Kathleen Turner?

Why not? Of course, those pairings wouldn't fit my larger/smaller thing, but I wouldn't complain. Along the same lines as your second choice, there's a great scene in "Monster" where Charlize Theron (as Aileen Wuornos) lifts and carries Christina Ricci in a front straddle in a motel room. They're lovers.

[Mark G]

Why not? Of course, those pairings wouldn't fit my larger/smaller thing, but I wouldn't complain. Along the same lines as your second choice, there's a great scene in "Monster" where Charlize Theron (as Aileen Wuornos) lifts and carries Christina Ricci in a front straddle in a motel room. They're lovers.

I'll look for that. How about Brook Shields and Winnona? Brook is nearly six feet tall,I think.

[zebra]

I'll look for that. How about Brook Shields and Winnona? Brook is nearly six feet tall,I think.

It's wild that you say that! I think that I used them in a faux L&C Magazine article that I wrote way back in the past. Brooke lifts and carries her in a variety of ways. I wrote a story about Avril Lavigne facing Venus Williams in "American Gladiators" too.

[Mark G]

It's wild that you say that! I think that I used them in a faux L&C Magazine article that I wrote way back in the past. Brooke lifts and carries her in a variety of ways. I wrote a story about Avril Lavigne facing Venus Williams in "American Gladiators" too.

Avril Lavigne v Venus Williams is a delightful fantasy.

I have always had a fantasy about Brooke carrying me. I'm sure she'd be big and strong enough to.

How about Alicea Keys v Pink in Gladiators?

[zebra]

Avril Lavigne v Venus Williams is a delightful fantasy.

I have always had a fantasy about Brooke carrying me. I'm sure she'd be big and strong enough to.

How about Alicea Keys v Pink in Gladiators?

That's okay. I might pit her against Christina Aguilera or Ariana Grande instead of Pink, though.

[Mark G]

That's okay. I might pit her against Christina Aguilera or Ariana Grande instead of Pink, though.

I like Pink - I saw a gig of hers on TV when she carried a guy across stage. He looked about the same weight as me so I envied him. Lol!

How about Dua Lipa v Winnona?

[zebra]

I like Pink - I saw a gig of hers on TV when she carried a guy across stage. He looked about the same weight as me so I envied him. Lol!

How about Dua Lipa v Winnona?

I wouldn't mind it. I'm mostly just into larger chicks lifting smaller chicks, though, so pairings like that would be preferable.

[Mark G]

I wouldn't mind it. I'm mostly just into larger chicks lifting smaller chicks, though, so pairings like that would be preferable.

In that case Winonna v Martina Navratilova or Gwendoline Christie would be perfect.

[zebra]

In that case Winonna v Martina Navratilova or Gwendoline Christie would be perfect.

That would be great. There's a photo of Gwendoline Christie lifting the much smaller Jenna Ortega in a front straddle during filming of "Wednesday Addams". You should see clips of interviews of Gwendoline and Jenna. Ortega seems like she has a huge girl crush on the amazon.

[Mark G]

That would be great. There's a photo of Gwendoline Christie lifting the much smaller Jenna Ortega in a front straddle during filming of "Wednesday Addams". You should see clips of interviews of Gwendoline and Jenna. Ortega seems like she has a huge girl crush on the amazon.

I'll look for that photo. Gwendoline is gorgeous. Predictably I'd love her to carry me!

Did you like Kathleen Turner when she was younger?

[zebra]

I'll look for that photo. Gwendoline is gorgeous. Predictably I'd love her to carry me!

Did you like Kathleen Turner when she was younger?

Yeah, she would be a great lifter. As for the casting of "Wednesday Addams", I sometimes wonder if the show runners are fans of pairing larger women with smaller women because there are other petite women in the cast.

[Mark G]

Yeah, she would be a great lifter. As for the casting of "Wednesday Addams", I sometimes wonder if the show runners are fans of pairing larger women with smaller women because there are other petite women in the cast.

Good point.

Yes,Katheen woud definitely be an excellent lifter. I especially imagine being piggybacked by her.

How about a pairing of Kathleen and Jodie Foster?

[zebra]

Good point.

Yes,Katheen woud definitely be an excellent lifter. I especially imagine being piggybacked by her.

How about a pairing of Kathleen and Jodie Foster?

That would be good. I'd like to see it in scenes from the '80s, though.

[Mark G]

That would be good. I'd like to see it in scenes from the '80s, though.

Me too. Charlize Theron and Ariana Grande would be another good match up.

[zebra]

Me too. Charlize Theron and Ariana Grande would be another good match up.

Why not? I read that Ariana Grande likes to be lifted, so maybe women carry her around in private.

[Mark G]

Why not? I read that Ariana Grande likes to be lifted, so maybe women carry her around in private.

I have this fantasy of Dua Lipa carrying Ariana then carrying me afterwards.

[zebra]

I have this fantasy of Dua Lipa carrying Ariana then carrying me afterwards.

You never know. Maybe Dua Lipa carries Ariana Grande around her house when they visit each other, and the latter looks like she would be easy to carry these days.

[Mark G]

You never know. Maybe Dua Lipa carries Ariana Grande around her house when they visit each other, and the latter looks like she would be easy to carry these days.

That would be a beautiful sight.

Have you ever thought of Sigourney Weaver as a lifter?

[zebra]

That would be a beautiful sight.

Have you ever thought of Sigourney Weaver as a lifter?

Sure. Geena Davis is a second one in that category.

[Mark G]

Sure. Geena Davis is a second one in that category.

Definitely. Tall and quite strongly built. And how about Kellie McGillis? Tom Cruise's co-star in Top Gun.

[zebra]

Definitely. Tall and quite strongly built. And how about Kellie McGillis? Tom Cruise's co-star in Top Gun.

Of course. Maybe there's a lost '80s movie where she carries Molly Ringwald and Ally Sheedy (a shelved sequel to "The Breakfast Club").

[Mark G]

Of course. Maybe there's a lost '80s movie where she carries Molly Ringwald and Ally Sheedy (a shelved sequel to "The Breakfast Club").

That would be lovely to see!!!


Another whom I've always fantasised about being carried by is Angela Bassett. She looks really strong and athletic.

[zebra]

That would be lovely to see!!!


Another whom I've always fantasised about being carried by is Angela Bassett. She looks really strong and athletic.

She's only 5'3 to 5'4. I'd rather see her as a lift-ee than a lift-er. Hard pass on short women lifting tall women. Without fail, when I say that I like to see larger women lift and carry smaller women, at least one person has to say "I like the reverse".

[Mark G]

She's only 5'3 to 5'4. I'd rather see her as a lift-ee than a lift-er. Hard pass on short women lifting tall women. Without fail, when I say that I like to see larger women lift and carry smaller women, at least one person has to say "I like the reverse".

I always thought that Angela was taller than that. Beyonce would be a good lifter,I think. Even though she's not that tall.

[zebra]

I always thought that Angela was taller than that. Beyonce would be a good lifter,I think. Even though she's not that tall.

Yeah, she seems taller if you haven't seen her around other people. Beyonce might lift chicks at her Illuminati gatherings.

[Mark G]

Yeah, she seems taller if you haven't seen her around other people. Beyonce might lift chicks at her Illuminati gatherings.

That would be nice to see! I did see a pic a while ago of Beyonce carrying her personal trainer over her shoulder (I was very jealous. Lol!) but i can't find it anywhere.

How about Rihanna? She's pretty tall.

[zebra]

That would be nice to see! I did see a pic a while ago of Beyonce carrying her personal trainer over her shoulder (I was very jealous. Lol!) but i can't find it anywhere.

How about Rihanna? She's pretty tall.

She's too slender for my taste. My L&C tastes are quite specific, which can save both cash and time since I skip stuff that's not appealing to me, and most of that stuff is not A&P, which is my main preference. I even like some F/M material if it's in that category. I draw the line at giants lifting midgets, though.

[utiug]

That would be nice to see! I did see a pic a while ago of Beyonce carrying her personal trainer over her shoulder (I was very jealous. Lol!) but i can't find it anywhere.

How about Rihanna? She's pretty tall.

Are you talking about this:
https://x.com/BeyLegion/status/772434546239373312 ?

[Mark G]

She's too slender for my taste. My L&C tastes are quite specific, which can save both cash and time since I skip stuff that's not appealing to me, and most of that stuff is not A&P, which is my main preference. I even like some F/M material if it's in that category. I draw the line at giants lifting midgets, though.

I see what you mean.

Have you seen a model called Ashley Graham? Very tall and powerfully built.

[Mark G]

Are you talking about this:
https://x.com/BeyLegion/status/772434546239373312 ?


Oh yes!!! Well done on finding that. I could n't. I envy that guy.

[zebra]

I see what you mean.

Have you seen a model called Ashley Graham? Very tall and powerfully built.

I have. There's a clip of her lifting a barbell and a woman at the same time, so she would be an ideal lifter in a lifting tape.

[utiug]

I see what you mean.

Have you seen a model called Ashley Graham? Very tall and powerfully built.

Yeah, she's nice
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/ashley-graham-is-breaking-gender-barriers-and-promoting-body-positivity-in-v-magazine-195641075.html

[lapsitting2020]

Recently got married. told my wife about my lapsitting and lift and carry fantasies. she is so excited to hold me in her lap and carry me. Can't believe i turned so lucky. She is a traditional Punjabi girl and very nurturing.

[Mark G]

Recently got married. told my wife about my lapsitting and lift and carry fantasies. she is so excited to hold me in her lap and carry me. Can't believe i turned so lucky. She is a traditional Punjabi girl and very nurturing.

Sounds lovely. How tall and heavy is your wife? I worked with a Punjabi girl once and she was very strong.

[Mark G]

I have. There's a clip of her lifting a barbell and a woman at the same time, so she would be an ideal lifter in a lifting tape.

I'll look for that clip,Zebra.

How many other tall and strong celebs can you recommend for lifting?

[zebra]

I'll look for that clip,Zebra.

How many other tall and strong celebs can you recommend for lifting?

That's a very long list. Just look at athletes and entertainers who are larger than ordinary women.

[Mark G]

That's a very long list. Just look at athletes and entertainers who are larger than ordinary women.

True. I'll do so

[zebra]

True. I'll do so

I paired them with much smaller female celebrities. You wonder if the show runner of "Wednesday Addams" likes this kind of thing.

[Mark G]

I paired them with much smaller female celebrities. You wonder if the show runner of "Wednesday Addams" likes this kind of thing.

Definitely.