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phoneman June 3rd, 2019 03:39

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Originally Posted by koko123 (Post 227422)
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Annwilliam3147 July 15th, 2019 07:51

my second post
 
Its not embarrasment...its an unbelievsble feeling.
once my gf held my hand in a theatre...well i was unable to break out of her grip...then i had to kiss her on hand to let me go...one of my best kisses

f92kghg8s July 28th, 2019 14:38

It's embarrassing, but I would also be highly turned on by it. Makes me feel super wimpy and inferior to her... which often results in arousal.

On occasion, I have seen a woman lifting more weight than me in the gym. If she looks fit, I will definitely get aroused by it. I honestly don't even think I could workout with her without getting an embarrassing b*n*r.

Cumulus August 2nd, 2019 00:25

That wouldn't bother me in the least- it would actually make it easy for me to tell her about my fetish of being lifted and carried by women!

bindas12 August 4th, 2019 06:25

I've never been embarrassed about it.

thomas112233 August 10th, 2019 15:59

If a girl beats me in an atlethic context, for example uses more weight in the gym if feel embarrassed but that is what turns me on. I also feel that way when I'm around taller women.

sportsfan007 August 17th, 2019 23:07

strong girlfriend
 
To the guys who have a strong G.F whether she is tall or not, be secure in your feelings if she beats u in a contest or easily lifts you.

She has chosen to be with you and has shown interest. You would certainly have the same towards her. if u have a fetish for lift and or carry ask her to try on you, she might enjoy doing it with you. Pls make sure not to ask every time u r together let her mention it to you, that will make her feel good and in charge this way she's not turned off and appreciates when she shows her power to you.

You could ask to armwrestle her as a change be sure u have a chance of holding your own or she might lose interest.

I wish I had a strong girlfriend tall or not, I have a lifting fetish and would appreciate her using all her strength she has.


Sportsfan007

coalguy_143 August 23rd, 2019 02:55

This happened with me only once n this was when I was in my teens n was carried by my younger cousin. Now I would be more than happy than being embarrassed if a gal is stronger than me.

Back then, we had a weight diff of 10-15 kgs ns she was almost a feet shorter 5 yrs younger than me. Initially she would struggle giving me pbs, bt then 1 day she started doing it comfortably without any issues n I was shocked at that, n since I was skinny at 40 kgs, n she 30 kgs, when she managed to lift me in cradle it left me really embarrassed tht a gal 5 yrs younger n lighter than me is able to lift me in cradle lift too!!

jonn006 September 1st, 2019 05:07

It was not an embarrassment but an unbelievable feeling. Some girls are stronger than boys.
It happened to me during my college days. I am about 170 lbs and even some of the boys cannot be able to lift me. So one day the students in our class are having a lifting competition. Some of the girls also joined in it. One of the girls who is about 150 lbs lift me up. She even managed to lift the biggest boy in class who is nearly 195 lbs. What is more impressive is that most of the boys are not even able to lift the big boy,even though i lift him it was very hard. She overpowers all of the boys and i realize that some girls are stronger than the boys.
I was embarrassed at that time before the girls and dont know what to say. Thinking about it now it was not an embarrassment but a beautiful feeling and it was one of the most beautiful moments in my life.

linkerb October 17th, 2019 03:02

Well i wouldn't be too embarrased mostly because i am pretty weak, and i actually have a friend that practices karate and is stronger than me

bapmus April 7th, 2020 23:11

i also could not be embarrassed by strong girls , becaus i like it .
but once we play with boxing machine (dragon punch or something like that) and one girl did more than me ...not strong girl nothing special about her , but she did more . the second time again i did less , but didnt wait agin to her turn ' i just run to other fun machines there.
i guess its not really measure anything ' and probably not calibrate anyway

luff(arungen) April 9th, 2020 16:25

i've only ever been embarrassed once. I was pretty young and i've never been really tall (I'm average I'd say) but back then i was a little shorter than my peers. I got into an argument with a girl in my grade and surprisingly she started to physically fight me. I had no idea how to fight and got beat up easily in front of one of her friends.

A few days after this, I had my mother enroll me in martial arts classes because I vowed to myself that I would never let anyone - girl nor boy - beat me up again. I think that me knowing that I can beat up most people, definitely any woman that can carry me or is stronger than me, has made me never feel embarrassed again.

piggybackrides April 10th, 2020 04:22

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Originally Posted by luff(arungen) (Post 239200)
i've only ever been embarrassed once. I was pretty young and i've never been really tall (I'm average I'd say) but back then i was a little shorter than my peers. I got into an argument with a girl in my grade and surprisingly she started to physically fight me. I had no idea how to fight and got beat up easily in front of one of her friends.

A few days after this, I had my mother enroll me in martial arts classes because I vowed to myself that I would never let anyone - girl nor boy - beat me up again. I think that me knowing that I can beat up most people, definitely any woman that can carry me or is stronger than me, has made me never feel embarrassed again.

I have a similar feeling on the subject. I never got beat up by a girl but just knowing how to actually fight makes me not feel embarrassed when a girl is stronger than me, because like you said I would still be able to take them in a fight (unless it's Amanda Nunes or someone like that of course).

lovetall May 5th, 2020 11:00

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Originally Posted by piggybackrides (Post 239222)
I have a similar feeling on the subject. I never got beat up by a girl but just knowing how to actually fight makes me not feel embarrassed when a girl is stronger than me, because like you said I would still be able to take them in a fight (unless it's Amanda Nunes or someone like that of course).

I wonder if the guy in this clip (real life clip) was embarrassed when this amazon decided to fight him. She must be 6ft4 plus and very hot and clearly stronger than him.
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...cab2cc9b6987#1

phoneman May 6th, 2020 00:25

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Originally Posted by lovetall (Post 240304)
I wonder if the guy in this clip (real life clip) was embarrassed when this amazon decided to fight him. She must be 6ft4 plus and very hot and clearly stronger than him.
https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...cab2cc9b6987#1

Just asking, but where did you get all of that info from this clip? She is very tall. OK. Something happens in the first few seconds of the clip. Then there is yelling.

lovetall May 6th, 2020 05:55

You can see that she gets him in a headlock and yanks him up. He clearly had no choice and was only saved by the intervention of her friends.

Jimmiharris May 24th, 2022 21:38

not at all

onlin5 June 25th, 2022 18:06

Dont need to be embarrassed

LilMatty June 28th, 2022 23:02

No! Being 4'2 and 70 lbs, everyone is pretty much stronger than me. Lol

johnp July 15th, 2022 19:39

A few weeks ago I decided to buy bark chippings for the flower beds in my garden. I went to the garden centre and saw they had very large bags on special offer. I paid for 3 bags and got a flat trolley to take them back to my truck. I tried to lift one from the stack and found it was extremely heavy so I pulled it down on to the trolley. I decided to take one at a time and went back to my truck. I bent down to pick it up and found there was no way I would be able to lift it on my own.
While I pondered my options (get help or ask for a refund), a fit looking lady wearing a garden centre outfit approached me and said it looked like I needed a hand. I gladly accepted and bent down take one side of the bag, expecting her take the other side. She said she would manage herself and lifted the bag on to the truck. I thanked her and she started to walk away. I was embarrassed to tell her I had 2 more bags to collect. She said it was no problem. She took the trolley, collected the other bags and loaded them on to my truck.
As I thanked her again she said that this batch of chippings were soaking wet making the bags very heavy and she had to help several other customers load them in to their vehicles.

standtall August 14th, 2022 02:17

Stronger girls
 
A friend of mine is bigger and more robust than me and most other guys I know. I guess she gets it from her dad who is one of the biggest guys I've ever met. I'm 5'10" and reasonably well built but she is just undeniably bigger and stronger than me and most people though she is attractive and well proportioned. She's a nice person to boot and comes across as feminine, she's just one big, strong girl.

As this is just the way it is and doesn't change the person she is (or the fact she is good looking) there's no embarrassment at all there for me or I imagine other guys. It's just the way it is and it's not as if it plays a part of who she is or her relationships. I still respect her and look up to her (literally ;) ).

letoavon October 8th, 2022 17:24

I remember getting a bit beaten up by a smaller but older gymnast girl ,a bit embarrassing but also fun .

Linc99 January 8th, 2023 01:03

Haven't had any experiences with women but going to the gym consistently for the last 4-5 months has been very humbling for me. It's helped me a lot with getting over the fear/embarrassment of feeling weak/inadequate. It's been a very slow process but have already noticed big differences. For example I would struggle with carrying 10kg rice bags, 20kg cement bags but now it's a stroll.

I remember being at the gym and struggling to do 20kg T-bar rows now I can do 80kg. Think a lot of men don't realise how strong we are capable of being.

camel222 January 8th, 2023 17:13

Recently I did a 69 to my wife, holding for couple of seconds. Then she did the same in return till its over.

raul2626 January 9th, 2023 20:36

Arm wrestling, much smaller woman wins
 
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRg6cwK4/

In the comments of this tiktok video,
Heated discussions went, is she stronger? OR/AND better technique? Did she cheated?
It looks like it is legitimate to use leg under the table. Many men are saying she cheated, but to me she has better technique AND possibly also stronger (or at least can competitively match up the strength of a man so much bigger). If she was same size and/or same muscle mass, she will surely play with this man like a toy.

Thewadzee January 11th, 2023 14:05

she might be pretty strong but probably isnt even close to as strong as him. the whole point of that video was that she used technique to win not overpower him. i dont mean to be rude im just saying. great video tho

raul2626 January 12th, 2023 09:01

Thanks for your response. Yeah he is very likely stronger, I mean given their body size and arm muscle mass differences, it seems obvious and I agree with that. But what I wanted to really discuss was, hypothetically, if these two people have same/similar body size and muscle mass, and they have rematch, both sides don’t use any allowed and disallowed techniques, what would be the result? My argument, not just strong woman fantasy, is that she will surely win. In this video, she used the two major techniques, grip bending and leg using. I am not really sure these are understood to be allowed in professional arm wrestling matches to certain degrees. But regardless of the legitimacy, the man did not used (or were not trained enough to use such techniques yet) any techniques she used, so the man still have the disadvantage in the technique perspective. But if a random men similar to her body size, have a match with this man, numerous men would not able to win even if they used the same techniques she used in the video. I wanted to acknowledge her strength as well, in addition to her applied technique, which in the comments many toxic masculinity-washed dudes are ignoring and just keep whining only about her leg usage.

piggybackrides January 12th, 2023 20:44

She's certainly strong but arm wrestling technique plays a huge factor. I remember on a morning show Michael Strahan (Hall of fame 250 pound NFL player) lost to a 10 year old girl who knew proper technique.

To your point about if random men her size had a match with the guy in the video, several of them would lose, I think this is accurate. You could use the strongest women in the world, let's say an Olympic gold medal weight lifter as an example. If we compare her to men around the world of the same weight, she's be so much stronger than a lot of them. However, the strongest man of her weight class would still be much stronger than her.

piggybackrides April 24th, 2023 04:13

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Originally Posted by johnp (Post 269568)
A few weeks ago I decided to buy bark chippings for the flower beds in my garden. I went to the garden centre and saw they had very large bags on special offer. I paid for 3 bags and got a flat trolley to take them back to my truck. I tried to lift one from the stack and found it was extremely heavy so I pulled it down on to the trolley. I decided to take one at a time and went back to my truck. I bent down to pick it up and found there was no way I would be able to lift it on my own.
While I pondered my options (get help or ask for a refund), a fit looking lady wearing a garden centre outfit approached me and said it looked like I needed a hand. I gladly accepted and bent down take one side of the bag, expecting her take the other side. She said she would manage herself and lifted the bag on to the truck. I thanked her and she started to walk away. I was embarrassed to tell her I had 2 more bags to collect. She said it was no problem. She took the trolley, collected the other bags and loaded them on to my truck.
As I thanked her again she said that this batch of chippings were soaking wet making the bags very heavy and she had to help several other customers load them in to their vehicles.

This might be the best one I've read. Do you have a guess on what her approximate height, weight and age are, and how those compare to your stats? I feel like it's unusual for women to just outwardly display their strength around men, especially if they're flat out stronger so wondering if perhaps you're older or on the smaller side which is why she didn't want your help with picking it up

Afffenmann April 24th, 2023 20:27

Two years ago me and a couple of friends had an open air party with a generator to power the music PA. At some point the generator was out of gas and we had to refill it. To restart it, you had to pull on a cord with quite some force. I tried a couple of times with all my strength, but for some reason it did not start. Then two or three other guys tried as well for many times - also without success. After a while we kinda gave up thinking there must be some other problem. Maybe we flooded the engine? Then a girl asked if she could try. She wasn't muscular or big, just pretty average in body type and kinda pretty. I said, sure give it a go!
So she grabbed the cord and pulled it forcefully just once. The generator immediately started on her first try. It was both unexpected and impressive, since we all had failed miserably.
Everybody cheered, since the music could go on. Nobody was embarrassed. I don't really think she was actually stronger than all the guys, even though her pull definitely was quite powerful. It's even possible that it was just pure luck. However, she did make it work after several bigger guys were unable to do it. It was pretty cool in that moment.

2019xsf May 20th, 2023 17:56

My ex gf was stronger than me . She lift weight in gym 3x a week. She was 5'6 and solid 200 pounds . I am cyclist at 6'1" and 170 pounds . once I was at her gym and she pushed a loaded sled to the max! 400 pounds over 30 feet out and back. and she says to me to you .... I made 2 feet and that's it. It really got me very excited.

Mtb_rider May 21st, 2023 20:15

Not at all !!!!

jonsky May 28th, 2023 14:51

Its OK if she is friendly person!

RosesAreBlue May 29th, 2023 03:03

Somewhat but it would be fun

theSittingTroll July 14th, 2023 22:42

I had an experience EXACTLY like this today! I tried the scavanger hunt thing, and the girl (lets call her E) who did the lift was SUPER into powerlifting and crossfit. She seemed to be really into the idea of getting PURE STRENGTH in all major lifts, since her dream is to become a firefighter. Her older sister was also there, but she immediately said that "my sister will do this EASILY". E the young powerlifter was around 175cm tall, REALLY bulky in a powerlifter way. She said that she can easily squat 120kg for 10 reps. She didnt reveal her own weight, but it could be somewhere around 95-105 from all the muscle mass and ofc excess bulk. Very hard to tell. The most impressive thing about this lift was that our COMBINED weight must have been around 190kg or perhaps 200, since I weight 85kg. And she actually WENT SUPER DEEP IN HER 10 SQUATS, much deeper than needed and deeper than what they recommend in all fitness instruction videos. She went so deep that she almost touched the ground, and came back up as if it was NOTHING.
When I tried to squat her, I did one normal squat (not deep) and actually failed on the 2nd one. And yes, this was in a public place with two busy caffees nearby. Probably 30-50 witnessed this event. I was embarrased but also super attracted at the same time.... It was there, right in my face, a girl who was MUCH STRONGER and BULKIER than me God it was amazing. I give all credit to 169qw for the scavenger hunt idea.

After squatting me, she asked me how many pullups I do? I answered truthfully by saying "right now, around 8-9 while I weigh 88kg". To this she replied with a voice that was trying to comfort me and said "thats good, you beat me in pullups since I do 6...." .... But I am 99% certain that she is stronger than me when it comes to pullups, since she could be anywhere between 90-100kg the way how bulky she was... So in the end, me doing "3 more pullups than her doesnt necessarily mean I am stronger....:wub:"

Blarmy July 20th, 2023 15:59

Ive not had the pleasure of discovering someone stronger than me, but I would gladly take some suggestions on where to find them besides the gym lol

Nolookman February 12th, 2024 15:54

My girlfriend had been trying to get me to go with her to the gym for years but I always refused just on the principle of not having enough time. One day she finally convinced me, up until this point I thought I was stronger than her only because I could beat her in arm wrestling still. (Not anymore) when I arrived she looked so ripped already because she was 30 minutes in.

We started out with the lat pull down machine, she told me to go first, I think on purpose. I put the weight at 100 thinking I was showing off for ten reps. After I was done I felt all my pride slip away when I had seen her change the weight to 140. That was how the rest of my day went as she outlifted me in everything. I believe she even lifted me over her head later that day too lol.

Still have the picture of how her back looked at only 20 years old outlifting me

Lucky Luke February 26th, 2024 15:56

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Originally Posted by thestrongerthebetter (Post 77202)
A few years ago I went out with a girl who played rugby to quite a high level. I always knew she was quite strong, but one day at a party she wrapped one arm round a guy's waist and the other arm around another guy's waist and lifted them both up....

She could quite easily get me into a fireman's lift and then do squats with me. At the time I was 80kg. I once went to the gym with her and challenged her to do seated leg presses: she put the pin straight in the bottom of the stack of weights and lifted the stack up without too much effort!

I blame this lass for my love of strong women.

I'm not a weakling myself- I'm a rugby player too (second row- for those not familiar with the game, that's the powerhouse of the scrum).

I did challenge her to an armwrestle a few times- I always won, but I can't help thinking that she *might* have let me win just to save me the embarrassment :)

I did used to love f***ing her whilst grabbing her biceps though. Used to get me off in no time at all!

I actually have a very similar story. Wonder if we even dated the same girl (did she go to Leicester Uni back in the day?!). Her "party trick" was to wrap one arm round a guy on one side and another guy on the other side and lift them both up at once. Never saw her doing leg presses in the gym but it wouldn't surprise me if she just lifted the whole stack.... Easily.

Lucky Luke February 26th, 2024 16:55

So I've never been embarrassed to discover that a girl was stronger than me. I've been surprised, because I'm a decent build. I am an ex rower, and I'm very practical- quite used to doing lots of physical stuff around the house, in the garden etc. I don't think twice about lifting something like a 25kg bag of cement (although I'd struggle with 2 at a time these days).

So, back in my rowing days I was at a party with the rest of the rowing crew back at my parents house. I got up to get some more drinks, and when I got back a girl called Tracy was sitting in my chair. I said in a kind of jokey way "oi, I was sitting there!" to which she smirked and said "yeah well I'm sitting here now!", taunting me too do something about it. So I grabbed her hands and tried to lift her off the chair. With my hands in hers, she did a mercy fight manoeuvre.... And fuck me, I didn't stand a chance. Now I know us rowers have pretty b strong forearms, so I can hold my own. But against her: she was quite something. I said, "fuck me, you're strong!" To which she answered, "yes I know!".

And what surprised me more than her strength was how turned on I was by her strength.

Jump forward a few years and I was dating an ex rugby player girl (see my reply above). That was fun.

cccs February 27th, 2024 14:50

Both excited and embarassed in public, especially when I stay next to a taller girl. In private just excited and curious to taste her strength

frosty March 11th, 2024 11:44

My ex girlfirend was nearly as strong as me (in few cases even stronger). She was working as waitress (pretty tough job in my country as she had to lift heavy all the time). I remember one time when i visited her on season work that her biceps was poping out and was really really hard. I teased her that i'm still stronger (in reality i was knowing that she had her biceps grew bigger than mine by 1-2 cm for sure. She chellenged me to armwrestling and i gave myself into it and i lost with both arms. Then we did some wrestling and i barely could defend myself. She was just tooo strong for me

mostazarock March 13th, 2024 02:37

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Originally Posted by frosty (Post 291463)
My ex girlfirend was nearly as strong as me (in few cases even stronger). She was working as waitress (pretty tough job in my country as she had to lift heavy all the time). I remember one time when i visited her on season work that her biceps was poping out and was really really hard. I teased her that i'm still stronger (in reality i was knowing that she had her biceps grew bigger than mine by 1-2 cm for sure. She chellenged me to armwrestling and i gave myself into it and i lost with both arms. Then we did some wrestling and i barely could defend myself. She was just tooo strong for me

strong waitress.... lucky bastard imagine her carrying you with her uniform


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