Lapsitting Fetish
 

While lift and carry is not possible for most girls. What do you guys think about lapsitting? To me it feels the best and most romantic sitting on a girls lap.

I think, lapsitting is a nice light version of l&c. Many women have no problems doing it and it‘s a bit More common than l&c. I did that with two Exes of mine and they both enjoyed it. If you are in a relationship you can easily incorporated and as far as my experience goes only very traditional girls would refuse to do it. It can also be a great introduction to l&c to your partner so she might get a better understanding of it. So all in all yes, Lapsitting is great!

I love it lapsitting is better for women and I been lucky at strip clubs over the years. I knew a lot of women at the club didn't mind letting me to it in a private dance or vip room but it gets too expensive. I was wondering if you ask at Hooters for a picture on their lap or too weird and I don't know a lot of women and I always wanted to sit on a cheerleaders or secretary's lap.

That's funny. Years ago, I sad on a Hooter's girl's lap. I used a version of the scavenger's hunt trick people post about here sometimes. I wouldn't feel comfortable using that kind of subterfuge now, but when I was younger, I didn't see a problem with it. I used to have several photos of me sitting on her lap, but they're long gone.

Lapsitting is my main fetish, with L&C only being secondary. I've also had some lapsitting experiences at strip clubs and some with escorts.

My life really changed about five years into my marriage, when I worked up the courage to tell my wife I wanted to sit on her lap. I felt so stupid afterwards for having waited that long. She's a very open-minded woman, and she just said, "You can sit on my lap any time you want."

How and when did you all become interested in lapsitting? I've been obsessed with it since I was 5. So good to know there are other men out there who feel the same way.

Yes I’ve gotten into lapsitting with my wife. I’m 5’9 170 and she is 5’2 190lbs. She has thicker thighs and a big butt. Much bigger than mine. She also has big DD’s. It’s best in the summer when her legs are tan and really smooth. It first started when we were on the boat on the lake and she was sitting and there wasn’t room for me to sit. So since she’s heavier she offered me her thigh. She spread her legs and I sat on her inner thigh. It felt so amazing and I was instantly hard. We were with family and friends but she could tell I was really loving it. We definitely experimented with a lot of her being the more dominant one.

Thanks for sharing! It's fascinating how you discovered it once you were an adult. Was it easy to explain the feeling to your wife? I still haven't "confessed" my desire to my partner. I worry that she will think I'm not "manly" if I do so. :(. I'd love to hear from others as well. How have women reacted when they learned about this desire of yours?

We’ve never really talked about it. It’s just something we’ve discovered together. She just knows what gets me going now and doesn’t care. She’s into squats and deadlifts so she is definitely strong. Over the past few years she’s passed me in weight which I actually really like.

Lapsitting is the best form of lift and carry. It feels great to sit on your woman's lap; your feet dangling in the air, straddling her strong yet soft thighs while she makes strokes your thing. While you sit on her lap, you appreciate the back of her neck; her shoulder muscles; her upper arms. She can also finger your ass making you squirm on her lap. You can either sit front-facing or sideways; both have advantages and disadvantages. If you are sideways; you can see her face and how confident she feels cradling you in her lap. Eventually, the friction is too much to bear and you cum sitting on your beloved. That is the most wonderful experience you can feel - feeling helpless ejaculating; your cum spluttering on her stomach or breasts or her thighs. She would smile when that happens feeling on top of the world while you cling on to her like a weak baby.

So happy for you that you have such a natural relationship in this regard.