Honestly?
I guess a lot has to do with the different things people get out of the fetish?
I find a lot of the L&C content, especially the pornhub type stuff, a little dull and boring because they're constantly finding the skinniest guys possible to star in them.
I just don't see why it's any big deal if a reasonably fit lady in her 20's or 30's is able to pick up one of those guys and hold him upside down or in her arms for a little while? It's not even a challenge if the guy is that thin!
Personally, I would be fine losing 15-20lbs. that I gradually gained over the last few years. But I wouldn't be motivated to go to any real lengths to lose it just because of the idea it might make L&C a little easier. If I reached a point where I needed to buy a size bigger in clothes -- that's probably what would be much more of a motivator for me. That has a real financial impact as well as the inconvenience of having to get a lot of new stuff.
But no ... I'd say most of the women I knew who I could talk about L&C things with told me they were easily carrying people who weigh at least 10-20lbs. more than my heaviest. One told me she used to carry around her 225lb. boyfriend "all the time", and another had an older, taller sister with a thick build who weighed about 235lbs. and she picked her up easily. I even had a next-door neighbor with a 15-16 year old daughter (black girl who weighed about 135) who would regularly put her older male cousin up on her shoulders, boosting him up from a deep squat, and walk around the yard with him. Her mom told me the cousin weighed 220.
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