Maybe because you want her? No one will fight your own battles rickishi, not even her. Your fear of failure maybe makes her thinking you are not interested enough. I wont say anything on this subject anymore. If you want something with her YOU HAVE TO LET GO OF THAT FEAR. For her, and for you. You are guy, she is a girl. You hunt girls, not opposite.
"If you want it - you can do it. Dont let anybody tell you that you cant. You dont have to hurl - JUST GO FOR IT!"