When I was around 20 there was this younger, but very strong girl (around 17) who I used to wrestle with after a couple of drinks. The goal was not to pin the other person down, but to lift the other person up (usually ots or front lift). It was quite competitive - i guess the tally was about equal, but at times I would just let her win, cause i enjoyed being lifted and carried around (at times she would "parade" me around, while she performed an ots). Too bad we never got together