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![]() ![]() I wasn't sure I wanted to discuss my experiences but hell, why not. If it helps anyone out there or just provides a bit of insite into how to ask a girlfriend/wife to try loft and carry then that's great. I'm lucky enough to be with a young lady who really enjoys lift and carry. I introduced her to it nearly a year ago after we first met as she was really interested in what I enjoyed and she wanted to share her fetishes too. I've had mixed experiences with introducing lift and carry to my ex-partners (some good, some not so good) but she really got into it. I guess it helps that these days most people are much more open-minded when it comes to fetishes etc.than they used to be. As my particular fave lifts are overhead lifts they are even harder to find someone willing to try, let alone actually do it. When I was 18 I dated a pole dancer for over 4 years. Yes I did-this is not a BS story. Absolutely crazy girl but hot. Back then I weighed around 140 lbs and she was a similar weight and very fit from the work she did and the practice we got. ![]() It took me a full 3 years to get up the courage to talk to her about it. I introduced it first as me being interested in athletic girls and girls flexing etc which was true. When she reacted well to that we moved on to l and c. She wasn't as much into that but did try it. One night when we both were drunk she did even try to do an overhead lift. Not an overhead press type lift but just supporting my weight (after I was stood on a set of drawers). She actually held me above her head for a few seconds and I won't lie it was an amazing experience (even after dropping me on said drawers quickly after.😂 ![]() That relationship came and went and I dated a few girls after that that I either didn't tell or weren't bothered. My last girlfriend did manage to do a few lifts including holding my weight bench press style (again after a few drinks 😂 ![]() Coming back to my current and amazing lady she has done almost every kind of lift with me to date except an over head lift, which she is keen to work up to. She has done cradles, body slams, shoulder carries, 69 lifts and many more. She actually loves doing it as part of foreplay and I do it to her. We basically make a game of it. I weigh around 155-160lbs these days so it won't be as easy to lift me overhead but it's a real turn on her trying. She is a good 20lbs+ lighter than me but toned and pretty fit. It's so good to find a partner that wants to try l and c. Its not her fetish but she does enjoy it Finding a lady who loves l and c as a fetish must be amazing but I guess very rare. I'm more than happy though and can't wait to try new lifts with my girl. Good luck to you all in finding the same. ![]() Hopefully you can share some of your experiences too. |
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![]() Great experiences you have had, am especially jealous of the cradles! An ex of mine was very strong and able to carry me in a variety of ways, including cradle which I loved. My current partner who is pictured below is very toned and enjoys working out but has not carried me nor have we had any strength challenges other than what I mentioned previously - hopefully one day ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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By the looks of her she is quite capable so long as you aren't too large a fellow
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Just my experience but I've found as long as you can make it fun for them then women can really enjoy it. Like I said before I'm lucky as I finally found a woman who not only can lift me but is really adventurous as well. She can cradle me no problem, as well as most other lifts. I introduced lift and carry initially as I loved to lift women and be dominant but sometimes I like to give up the dominance and have my lady show how strong she is-if she can lift me then she could easily lift other women was in my head (my personal preference) but she really liked my honesty and the idea she could be in control at times. Now she even suggests us going to bed and using l and c to get me going. I don't want to ever say this is the way to do it for everyone but it worked for me more than once and in your case your lady looks stunning and very capable of l and c. If it was me I'd just pick her up in a cradle (if that's your thing) one day when you are having a play around (or a drink in my case ![]() ![]() Enjoy the result, tell her you're impressed and gradually build it into your foreplay. As long she is having fun it will work make it all the more normal to her. ![]() Like winning the lottery I suspect.haha Last edited by CageDemon; December 27th, 2019 at 03:12. |
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As mentioned previously she enjoys showing it off when we play wrestle and the time she flipped me over her shoulder was amazing. She let me feel her abs and biceps once again yesterday in bed which certainly put a smile on my face ![]() |
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How bout current gf?? Would love to see their bodies! |
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My lady/soon to be fiance is awesome and loves l and c but as you can probably guess isn't keen to have it videod(yet ![]() ![]() I have said before that I don't care a bit whether anyone believes me in what I've said. The facts are that my pole dancer ex did do the overhead lift/hold but only for a few seconds-which was awesome. My lady now is demonstrably stronger but is still getting used to l and c and loves it. If anyone on here would like to tell me the easiest /cheapest ways to blur faces/anything else ![]() ---But I'd expect the same from you all in return. Only fair guys and gals. ![]() Last edited by CageDemon; January 2nd, 2020 at 00:18. |
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