Is L&C your most preferred or only fetish?

Wig4 · March 21st, 2011, 08:23

Absolutely my "only fetish". (according to poll) There really is nothing else.
Just don't like the word 'fetish' (Americanised wrong use of a word they clearly didn't understand from the origin..... )
Anyway, it is not a "way-to-help-me-into" as sexual 'fetishes' usually are defined, but it is THE thing itself, THE endgoal. For me, there is NO higher physical/mental experience. Thus in reality NOT a 'fetish'.

winniethebeer · March 22nd, 2011, 01:22

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Originally Posted by Wig4

Absolutely my "only fetish". it is THE thing itself, THE endgoal. For me, there is NO higher physical/mental experience. Thus in reality NOT a 'fetish'.

so a life style?

Liftluvver · March 25th, 2011, 14:43

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Originally Posted by Wig4

...Just don't like the word 'fetish' (Americanised wrong use of a word they clearly didn't understand from the origin..... )
Anyway, it is not a "way-to-help-me-into" as sexual 'fetishes' usually are defined, but it is THE thing itself, THE endgoal. For me, there is NO higher physical/mental experience. Thus in reality NOT a 'fetish'.

So, Wig4, what is the correct meaning of "fetish," since the "Americanised" use is, in your opinion, wrong?

ljakse · March 26th, 2011, 00:37

Ok, I`m not a psychologist, but I think I understand him. Fetish is in the root something else, not related to what we usually think when we use the word "fetish". Real fetisch is not related with eroticism at all. I`m from Europe too, but I don`t know what should mean that adjective "americanised" in this particular case. I still agree that maybe the word PARAPHILIA better describes what is about.

Wig4 · January 6th, 2015, 15:23

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Originally Posted by ljakse

Ok, I`m not a psychologist, but I think I understand him. Fetish is in the root something else, not related to what we usually think when we use the word "fetish". Real fetisch is not related with eroticism at all. I`m from Europe too, but I don`t know what should mean that adjective "americanised" in this particular case. I still agree that maybe the word PARAPHILIA better describes what is about.

The understanding matter of the word 'fetish', is rather liguistic, alongside with psy content... :-)
Fetish in origin has religious connotation: object believed to possess supernatural powers.
Generalised however (not only in religious or sexual context), it STILL means : an intermediary object (including objectified part of a body, or mental concept..) to facilitate something different.
Fetish serves to facilitate some goal, different from, = NOT cofined in the object itself.
Therefore, lots of situations called "fetish" in sexual commercialism (sales-man linguistic abuse of the word, as was started primarity in the USA in the 1970-ies, then "exported") are not a fetish at all, when they are the goal in itself.
I believe, a minimum of linguistic .... "Hygiene" :-) ... could be welcomed in communication !

dino2359 · January 7th, 2015, 09:38

I'm into lift carry and I like lesbian wrestling

wetten1984 · January 28th, 2015, 19:41

l&c is number 1, followed by any strength comparison between bbws and little men (like myself)

View Poll Results: Is L&C your most preferred or only fetish?
L&C is my only fetish	113	39.37%
I have other fetish(s), but L&C is most preferred	119	41.46%
I have other fetish(s), I prefer them over L&C	11	3.83%
I have other fetish(s), they are equal to L&C	39	13.59%
What is a fetish?	1	0.35%
Other	4	1.39%
Voters: 287. You may not vote on this poll

March 21st, 2011, 08:23	#1
Wig4 STANDARD Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Belgium Posts: 22 : 0 For This Post 6 Total	Absolutely my "only fetish". (according to poll) There really is nothing else. Just don't like the word 'fetish' (Americanised wrong use of a word they clearly didn't understand from the origin..... ) Anyway, it is not a "way-to-help-me-into" as sexual 'fetishes' usually are defined, but it is THE thing itself, THE endgoal. For me, there is NO higher physical/mental experience. Thus in reality NOT a 'fetish'.

March 26th, 2011, 00:37	#4
ljakse VIP Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 266 : 0 For This Post 475 Total	Ok, I`m not a psychologist, but I think I understand him. Fetish is in the root something else, not related to what we usually think when we use the word "fetish". Real fetisch is not related with eroticism at all. I`m from Europe too, but I don`t know what should mean that adjective "americanised" in this particular case. I still agree that maybe the word PARAPHILIA better describes what is about.

January 7th, 2015, 09:38	#6
dino2359 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: asia Posts: 15 : 0 For This Post 3 Total	I'm into lift carry and I like lesbian wrestling

January 28th, 2015, 19:41	#7
wetten1984 Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2015 Posts: 6 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	l&c is number 1, followed by any strength comparison between bbws and little men (like myself)