Have you ever told/asked a girlfriend to try L&C?

Johnwonton4 · May 8th, 2024, 17:26

Has anyone ever asked or tried to get their girlfriend to do L&C with them? I’ve always wanted to but was too anxious to ask. I’ll get a piggyback ride here and there just playing around but I’ve never asked to do it seriously.

Mark G · May 22nd, 2024, 09:09

Yes I have. On one occasion I was sitting with my girlfriend around her house and on impulse I lifted her up. I only got her a few inches off the floor and she was laughing about it. I saw an oppurtunity and asked her if she could do any better. She lifted me over her shoulder easily and walked me into the kitchen where her mum was. Her mum thought it hilarious and - believe it or not - then picked me up in a cradle carry. She and my gilrfriend told me that I was as light as a feather. As you may gather,I enjoyed this immensely.

A few years ago but I'll never forget it.

nicovanaken · May 23rd, 2024, 15:47

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Originally Posted by Mark G

Yes I have. On one occasion I was sitting with my girlfriend around her house and on impulse I lifted her up. I only got her a few inches off the floor and she was laughing about it. I saw an oppurtunity and asked her if she could do any better. She lifted me over her shoulder easily and walked me into the kitchen where her mum was. Her mum thought it hilarious and - believe it or not - then picked me up in a cradle carry. She and my gilrfriend told me that I was as light as a feather. As you may gather,I enjoyed this immensely.

A few years ago but I'll never forget it.

Your girlfriend is/was heavier than you?

Mark G · May 23rd, 2024, 16:29

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Your girlfriend is/was heavier than you?

Yes. Both she and her mum were both the same height as me (5ft 9.5 inches) but heavier than I was - I'm still the same weight just about. I was/am approx 133 lbs. my girlfriend was about 150 lbs and her mum 168lbs.

cccs · May 23rd, 2024, 17:38

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Originally Posted by Johnwonton4

Has anyone ever asked or tried to get their girlfriend to do L&C with them? I’ve always wanted to but was too anxious to ask. I’ll get a piggyback ride here and there just playing around but I’ve never asked to do it seriously.

I have a BBW friend who is 10 cm taller (168 cm vs 178 cm) and much heavier than me (66 kg vs 80-85 kg). I ask her naturally after 2-3 dates. At the beginning she was a little surprised but she tried and lifted me easily (front lift, fireman, piggyback).

themasterkavar · May 23rd, 2024, 19:13

I’ve had a number of lift and carry experiences with ex-girlfriends, and my wonderful current partner. I’ve never talked about specifically having a fetish for lift and carry, but they all quickly realized that I enjoyed by carried by them and we would/do incorporate some L&C into foreplay. It never really extended beyond the bedroom or playful and casual quick lifts out in place like nature trails.

One girl had an affinity for giving me shoulder rides. She liked showing off, and knew I was turned on by the role reversal. I got probably close to 20 nude shoulder rides from her before she said her back hurt one time and I never asked her again for safety concerns. We started doing it from date 1, which was really a big weekend trip we took together. I lifted her like that after a wrestling with her in bed and she took it as a challenge and replicated it. I would eventually start to give her many reverse shoulder rides up against the wall but we were never able to get the balance right when she tried to do it to me.

My current gf will do little piggyback squats with me. She used to CrossFit a lot before medical issues popped up. She’s in the clear now, but wants to get back to being strong again. That also started with me lifting her and her trying to show off by giving me a piggyback ride down a trail. Now we do squats around the house. She started out only being able to do it once and just yesterday did five in a row. Improvement

greystreets · May 25th, 2024, 20:36

Yes, this is something I've shared with all my recent partners. I still feel a little shy about it, but as far as kinks go this one is pretty sweet and harmless. And really, all sexual partnerships should eventually include a conversation about what specific turn-ons each person has.

So my advice is to definitely share this with your gfs/partners! It's a good sign of a loving relationship when partners want to give pleasure to each other, and if you don't share this information you'll deprive them of that opportunity to really turn you on. Sure, you can probably get some lifts in a more indirect way, and maybe they will intuit that it turns you on, but speaking from experience it's so much better to just be upfront.

My last girlfriend was very happy to lift me, and I think it turned her on too, to use her strength and hold me close. She would often pick me up in a front lift or a cradle and we would make out for a minute or so like this. We even shot a video, and it's incredibly hot to rewatch. Most or none of that would have happened without a direct conversation.

Bbwbearhug · May 26th, 2024, 14:35

My ex. For better or worse, our relationship was dominated by LNC.

I’ve mentioned before here that she did multiple different lift videos with a random lady I found on a sex services page.

Wish I still had the videos.

vit · May 29th, 2024, 19:29

When I told my girlfriend about it... She was like, "I don't understand how that's a fetish"... The conversation ended there.

j.ingoff · May 29th, 2024, 22:54

I'm quite lucky to have a very open-minded girlfriend who is arguably more kinky than I am, so the topic came up pretty quickly, and we gave it a shot. Turns out I was less of a fan of it in practice than I am viewing it in media. Something about the third party view is better than the first-hand experience for me!

May 8th, 2024, 17:26	#1
Johnwonton4 Junior Member Join Date: May 2024 Posts: 3 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	Have you ever told/asked a girlfriend to try L&C? Has anyone ever asked or tried to get their girlfriend to do L&C with them? I’ve always wanted to but was too anxious to ask. I’ll get a piggyback ride here and there just playing around but I’ve never asked to do it seriously.

May 22nd, 2024, 09:09	#2
Mark G VIP Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 426 : 3 For This Post 132 Total	Have you ever told/asked a girlfriend to try L&C? Yes I have. On one occasion I was sitting with my girlfriend around her house and on impulse I lifted her up. I only got her a few inches off the floor and she was laughing about it. I saw an oppurtunity and asked her if she could do any better. She lifted me over her shoulder easily and walked me into the kitchen where her mum was. Her mum thought it hilarious and - believe it or not - then picked me up in a cradle carry. She and my gilrfriend told me that I was as light as a feather. As you may gather,I enjoyed this immensely. A few years ago but I'll never forget it.

May 23rd, 2024, 19:13	#6
themasterkavar VIP Honored Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 504 : 2 For This Post 1,114 Total	I’ve had a number of lift and carry experiences with ex-girlfriends, and my wonderful current partner. I’ve never talked about specifically having a fetish for lift and carry, but they all quickly realized that I enjoyed by carried by them and we would/do incorporate some L&C into foreplay. It never really extended beyond the bedroom or playful and casual quick lifts out in place like nature trails. One girl had an affinity for giving me shoulder rides. She liked showing off, and knew I was turned on by the role reversal. I got probably close to 20 nude shoulder rides from her before she said her back hurt one time and I never asked her again for safety concerns. We started doing it from date 1, which was really a big weekend trip we took together. I lifted her like that after a wrestling with her in bed and she took it as a challenge and replicated it. I would eventually start to give her many reverse shoulder rides up against the wall but we were never able to get the balance right when she tried to do it to me. My current gf will do little piggyback squats with me. She used to CrossFit a lot before medical issues popped up. She’s in the clear now, but wants to get back to being strong again. That also started with me lifting her and her trying to show off by giving me a piggyback ride down a trail. Now we do squats around the house. She started out only being able to do it once and just yesterday did five in a row. Improvement

May 25th, 2024, 20:36	#7
greystreets VIP Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 30 : 4 For This Post 102 Total	Yes, this is something I've shared with all my recent partners. I still feel a little shy about it, but as far as kinks go this one is pretty sweet and harmless. And really, all sexual partnerships should eventually include a conversation about what specific turn-ons each person has. So my advice is to definitely share this with your gfs/partners! It's a good sign of a loving relationship when partners want to give pleasure to each other, and if you don't share this information you'll deprive them of that opportunity to really turn you on. Sure, you can probably get some lifts in a more indirect way, and maybe they will intuit that it turns you on, but speaking from experience it's so much better to just be upfront. My last girlfriend was very happy to lift me, and I think it turned her on too, to use her strength and hold me close. She would often pick me up in a front lift or a cradle and we would make out for a minute or so like this. We even shot a video, and it's incredibly hot to rewatch. Most or none of that would have happened without a direct conversation.

May 26th, 2024, 14:35	#8
Bbwbearhug VIPOS Join Date: Apr 2018 Posts: 809 : 2 For This Post 1,566 Total	My ex. For better or worse, our relationship was dominated by LNC. I’ve mentioned before here that she did multiple different lift videos with a random lady I found on a sex services page. Wish I still had the videos.

May 29th, 2024, 19:29	#9
vit STANDARD Join Date: May 2024 Posts: 5 : 1 For This Post 1 Total	When I told my girlfriend about it... She was like, "I don't understand how that's a fetish"... The conversation ended there.

May 29th, 2024, 22:54	#10
j.ingoff STANDARD Join Date: May 2024 Location: The internet Posts: 6 : 1 For This Post 2 Total	I'm quite lucky to have a very open-minded girlfriend who is arguably more kinky than I am, so the topic came up pretty quickly, and we gave it a shot. Turns out I was less of a fan of it in practice than I am viewing it in media. Something about the third party view is better than the first-hand experience for me!