depressed about l&c

scruffy · May 22nd, 2009, 23:58

Do any of you guys ever think "why me?" I try to be accepting of this fetish, taking an attitude of "different strokes for different folks", but I can't help feeling somewhat hopeless sometimes.

agentdowell · May 23rd, 2009, 00:43

It's seems difficult to to accept but I like it. Not sure what you're getting at.

winniethebeer · May 23rd, 2009, 02:07

Im too obsessed about lift and carry to stop and think "why me?".

rickishi · May 23rd, 2009, 03:31

nothing to feel bad about it , it is jus that we have another thing which makes us happy

we are actually more fortunate , apart from sex ,this is another which gives us a high

shanu · May 23rd, 2009, 10:04

Problem arises when some folks start liking it more than sex...I have heard that from some folks...

Dombazz · May 23rd, 2009, 10:18

Luckily I'm not obsessed of lift/carry, it's just that I like it...in some way it turns me on...

nautilus · May 23rd, 2009, 16:37

Quote:

Originally Posted by shanu

Problem arises when some folks start liking it more than sex...I have heard that from some folks...

that not a good sign IMO

shanu · May 23rd, 2009, 19:39

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Originally Posted by nautilus

that not a good sign IMO

@nautilus: yep. That is not a good sign. Infact looking at it from another angle, there are many people which find lift carry a bigger turn on than the female body(even n*de). In my opinion, even that is pretty bad, because that would mean to have real good sex(to get turned on) u need lift carry. :|

Leobor · May 23rd, 2009, 21:49

Interesting as I was thinking about that too lately. It seems this fetish becomes weaker and weaker every day at me, and it is being represed by female body interest (and its most interesting part). Are we all infants a little bit waiting for geting mature?

Hmm... Dunno.

toadpimp · May 24th, 2009, 01:04

I get very depressed sometimes. Especially these days, as I am going through a bad break up. A few thoughts:

- a fetish was technically defined as something without which one can NOT get turned on at all. This has evolved now, of course, but it is worth thinking about. Do you need L&C or is it just a nice plus?

- I get depressed because sometimes I find myself needing it. Not always, but it always enhances the experience. And sometimes it needs to salvage the experience, if you know what I mean.

- I do wish I did not have this fetish. Not when I am enjoying it, but at other times when I feel it takes away from what some might call a "normal" lifestyle.

- I had a huge fight with my ex GF when another guy picked her up for a picture. For me, that is a sexual experience, for her it was just a photograph! It was part of our break-up!

I have analysed it at several levels, and even suspect I know how it all began (3rd grade, I picked up a girl I liked when another guy dared me... she moved away later and I never forgot her!). My conclusion has always been that I need to exercise self-control. Perhaps this is an addiction? Or is it a part of what makes me?

The answer, for me, would be whether the roots of this are genetic or not. Clearly I am choosing women based on a subconscious criterion involving l&c (I always go for petite, light women because I like MF lifting).

Anyway, sorry for the long response. It is something I have given a lot of thought, and not something that I have completely accepted about myself.

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scruffy STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 56 : 0 For This Post 72 Total	depressed about l&c Do any of you guys ever think "why me?" I try to be accepting of this fetish, taking an attitude of "different strokes for different folks", but I can't help feeling somewhat hopeless sometimes. Last edited by scruffy; May 23rd, 2009 at 00:00. Reason: rewording

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Leobor VIP Honored Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Serbia Posts: 830 : 0 For This Post 1,683 Total	Interesting as I was thinking about that too lately. It seems this fetish becomes weaker and weaker every day at me, and it is being represed by female body interest (and its most interesting part). Are we all infants a little bit waiting for geting mature? Hmm... Dunno. __________________ Girls are made to be m(c)arried. Last edited by Leobor; May 23rd, 2009 at 22:57. Reason: bad spelling (no, not tori)

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agentdowell STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 129 : 0 For This Post 5 Total	It's seems difficult to to accept but I like it. Not sure what you're getting at.

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winniethebeer VIP Honored Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 1,229 : 0 For This Post 8,727 Total	Im too obsessed about lift and carry to stop and think "why me?".

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rickishi VIP Indian VIP 2 Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: india Posts: 645 : 1 For This Post 860 Total	nothing to feel bad about it , it is jus that we have another thing which makes us happy we are actually more fortunate , apart from sex ,this is another which gives us a high

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shanu VIPOS Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: India Posts: 265 : 0 For This Post 518 Total	Problem arises when some folks start liking it more than sex...I have heard that from some folks...

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Dombazz STANDARD Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Eu Posts: 249 : 0 For This Post 40 Total	Luckily I'm not obsessed of lift/carry, it's just that I like it...in some way it turns me on...

May 24th, 2009, 01:04	#10
toadpimp STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 61 : 0 For This Post 20 Total	I get very depressed sometimes. Especially these days, as I am going through a bad break up. A few thoughts: - a fetish was technically defined as something without which one can NOT get turned on at all. This has evolved now, of course, but it is worth thinking about. Do you need L&C or is it just a nice plus? - I get depressed because sometimes I find myself needing it. Not always, but it always enhances the experience. And sometimes it needs to salvage the experience, if you know what I mean. - I do wish I did not have this fetish. Not when I am enjoying it, but at other times when I feel it takes away from what some might call a "normal" lifestyle. - I had a huge fight with my ex GF when another guy picked her up for a picture. For me, that is a sexual experience, for her it was just a photograph! It was part of our break-up! I have analysed it at several levels, and even suspect I know how it all began (3rd grade, I picked up a girl I liked when another guy dared me... she moved away later and I never forgot her!). My conclusion has always been that I need to exercise self-control. Perhaps this is an addiction? Or is it a part of what makes me? The answer, for me, would be whether the roots of this are genetic or not. Clearly I am choosing women based on a subconscious criterion involving l&c (I always go for petite, light women because I like MF lifting). Anyway, sorry for the long response. It is something I have given a lot of thought, and not something that I have completely accepted about myself.