How did you tell her?

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Originally Posted by lapsitting2020

Thank you. That's very helpful. I agree that explaining this to her in a good and playful mood is key.
Do you think it's something one needs to have a conversation about? I mean I enjoy lapsitting, and I do partially sometimes lay over in her lap when cuddling. I'm thinking: why not just start casually sitting in her lap without making a big deal out of it. Thoughts?

Happy to help.

My thoughts are if any of us are going to introduce our fetish to our respective partners, it’s only right that they know just exactly what they are getting themselves into. It’s the right thing to do by her, to have an honest conversation, with her. She has to have the choice to decide if she wants to consent to your fetish or not. If she doesn’t know and you sneakily do your fetish to her, it’s just dishonest.

The fact that you’re here asking, means you’re on the right track. Best of luck.