Muscular Girlfriends

[JaseB]

Originally Posted by CageDemon

You're a lucky guy. She looks gorgeous my friend. Please feel free to share more.

I wasn't sure I wanted to discuss my experiences but hell, why not. If it helps anyone out there or just provides a bit of insite into how to ask a girlfriend/wife to try loft and carry then that's great.

I'm lucky enough to be with a young lady who really enjoys lift and carry. I introduced her to it nearly a year ago after we first met as she was really interested in what I enjoyed and she wanted to share her fetishes too.

I've had mixed experiences with introducing lift and carry to my ex-partners (some good, some not so good) but she really got into it. I guess it helps that these days most people are much more open-minded when it comes to fetishes etc.than they used to be.

As my particular fave lifts are overhead lifts they are even harder to find someone willing to try, let alone actually do it.

When I was 18 I dated a pole dancer for over 4 years. Yes I did-this is not a BS story. Absolutely crazy girl but hot. Back then I weighed around 140 lbs and she was a similar weight and very fit from the work she did and the practice we got.

It took me a full 3 years to get up the courage to talk to her about it. I introduced it first as me being interested in athletic girls and girls flexing etc which was true. When she reacted well to that we moved on to l and c. She wasn't as much into that but did try it.

One night when we both were drunk she did even try to do an overhead lift. Not an overhead press type lift but just supporting my weight (after I was stood on a set of drawers). She actually held me above her head for a few seconds and I won't lie it was an amazing experience (even after dropping me on said drawers quickly after.&#128514

That relationship came and went and I dated a few girls after that that I either didn't tell or weren't bothered.

My last girlfriend did manage to do a few lifts including holding my weight bench press style (again after a few drinks &#128514 but nothing much else. She was quite a bit heavier than me though.

Coming back to my current and amazing lady she has done almost every kind of lift with me to date except an over head lift, which she is keen to work up to.

She has done cradles, body slams, shoulder carries, 69 lifts and many more. She actually loves doing it as part of foreplay and I do it to her. We basically make a game of it. I weigh around 155-160lbs these days so it won't be as easy to lift me overhead but it's a real turn on her trying.

She is a good 20lbs+ lighter than me but toned and pretty fit. It's so good to find a partner that wants to try l and c. Its not her fetish but she does enjoy it Finding a lady who loves l and c as a fetish must be amazing but I guess very rare.

I'm more than happy though and can't wait to try new lifts with my girl.

Good luck to you all in finding the same.

Hopefully you can share some of your experiences too.

Thank you for that, I think I'm lucky too

Great experiences you have had, am especially jealous of the cradles! An ex of mine was very strong and able to carry me in a variety of ways, including cradle which I loved.

My current partner who is pictured below is very toned and enjoys working out but has not carried me nor have we had any strength challenges other than what I mentioned previously - hopefully one day

[badboy4375]

By the looks of her she is quite capable so long as you aren't too large a fellow

[JaseB]

Originally Posted by badboy4375

By the looks of her she is quite capable so long as you aren't too large a fellow

Yes I definitely believe she's capable - her legs and upper body in particular have come on considerably in a short space of time since she stepped up her exercise programme.

As mentioned previously she enjoys showing it off when we play wrestle and the time she flipped me over her shoulder was amazing. She let me feel her abs and biceps once again yesterday in bed which certainly put a smile on my face

[CageDemon]

Originally Posted by JaseB

Yes I definitely believe she's capable - her legs and upper body in particular have come on considerably in a short space of time since she stepped up her exercise programme.

As mentioned previously she enjoys showing it off when we play wrestle and the time she flipped me over her shoulder was amazing. She let me feel her abs and biceps once again yesterday in bed which certainly put a smile on my face

Well good luck to you my friend. Your lady looks gorgeous and very capable. If ever you feel like sharing pics/vids of her flexing/lifting I don't think too many here would complain. . Lol

[JaseB]

Originally Posted by CageDemon

Well good luck to you my friend. Your lady looks gorgeous and very capable. If ever you feel like sharing pics/vids of her flexing/lifting I don't think too many here would complain. . Lol

[JaseB]

Originally Posted by CageDemon

Well good luck to you my friend. Your lady looks gorgeous and very capable. If ever you feel like sharing pics/vids of her flexing/lifting I don't think too many here would complain. . Lol

Still no luck with being lifted although I have taken your previous advice and suggestions on board so still hoping!
Couple of pics though showing progress of her exercise and weights - her legs and arms particularly are very toned now and she's happy for me to touch and feel the gains for which I'm obviously happy to oblige!

[JaseB]

Originally Posted by JaseB

Still no luck with being lifted although I have taken your previous advice and suggestions on board so still hoping!
Couple of pics though showing progress of her exercise and weights - her legs and arms particularly are very toned now and she's happy for me to touch and feel the gains for which I'm obviously happy to oblige!

Not the best pics but was able to feel her thigh muscles after a workout the other day

[Liftboy996]

Originally Posted by JaseB

Not the best pics but was able to feel her thigh muscles after a workout the other day

You are a really lucky guy. Does she know you are enjoying her gains?
I've had a girlfriend who grew up on a farm and had a solid amount of muscle, I also told her about my love for muscles but I think she never really got it. She even refused to flex for me so I had to watch for opportunities where she flexed by accident (doing her hair e.g.). I told her about the idea to lift me, cause she was confident of her strength, she didn't seem to be against it, but it never came to that.
So if she is also enjoying to show off, feel lucky guys.

[CageDemon]

Originally Posted by JaseB

Thank you for that, I think I'm lucky too

Great experiences you have had, am especially jealous of the cradles! An ex of mine was very strong and able to carry me in a variety of ways, including cradle which I loved.

My current partner who is pictured below is very toned and enjoys working out but has not carried me nor have we had any strength challenges other than what I mentioned previously - hopefully one day

On that 1st pic you shared of your lady this time she has some seriously toned arms. I think she would be able to do lift and carry no problem.

Just my experience but I've found as long as you can make it fun for them then women can really enjoy it. Like I said before I'm lucky as I finally found a woman who not only can lift me but is really adventurous as well. She can cradle me no problem, as well as most other lifts.

I introduced lift and carry initially as I loved to lift women and be dominant but sometimes I like to give up the dominance and have my lady show how strong she is-if she can lift me then she could easily lift other women was in my head (my personal preference) but she really liked my honesty and the idea she could be in control at times.

Now she even suggests us going to bed and using l and c to get me going.

I don't want to ever say this is the way to do it for everyone but it worked for me more than once and in your case your lady looks stunning and very capable of l and c.

If it was me I'd just pick her up in a cradle (if that's your thing) one day when you are having a play around (or a drink in my case ) and playfully say something like "even though you're fit as hell I doubt you could do that this to me". Pretending you're dominant and you have no interest or belief she could do it. Sure as hell she'll want to prove you wrong. That's women. .Trust me.

Enjoy the result, tell her you're impressed and gradually build it into your foreplay. As long she is having fun it will work make it all the more normal to her. In a perfect world maybe they'd even realise l and c was their fetish too.

Like winning the lottery I suspect.haha