What do you think about lap sitting?

Syo Kirishima · April 2nd, 2018, 05:58

Not very related to L&C, but i see it as something similar. It's also a sort of kink, but not much as frequent, unless i'm mistaken.

Sitting on a girl's lap just feels so good, i myself feel like i'm safe into her hug while sitting on her knees, it's just cute to me for some reason, i don't know why. Plus, it's not as strength demanding as L&C is, from my experiences in High School, i was able to get laps from girls quite frequently, some of them actually offered it to me.
Even so, there is also the lap pillow, if my partner don't agree much, which is a good alternative to me and much more convenient for her, and it's just as cute as a lap sit.

What do you think about this in general? Would you like to sit on a woman's lap or is that too childish/cringe for you? I see that as a cute role reversal and also as a way of demonstrating love for each other.

TheWolfe · April 2nd, 2018, 15:01

I'm not so much a lapsitting fan but my favorite thing is viewing intimate F/F cradle lifts. When a lapsit has a cradle lift position with the bottom girl's arm holding under the top girl's legs, that's almost as appealing to me as a cradle lift. It can convey the exact same intimacy.

As far as participating, I'm not a liftee so likewise I don't sit on laps. I do enjoy holding girls on my lap though, especially in that cradle position, which is also my favorite lift to perform.

So even though I come from the opposite perspective, I agree there's a similarity in the appeal.

5supermb · April 2nd, 2018, 21:28

Yeah lift & carry and lap-sitting are definitely linked, that's why we have separate threads specifically for lap-sitting in different parts of this forum.

I both love and hate lap-sits at the same time, like TheWolfe said above me, having a girl sat in another girls lap but in the cradle position is a very big turn on

Unfortunately however, my problem with lap-sits is that most of the time they never seem to lead to a lift, like, 'C'MON YOU HAVE A GIRL SAT ON YOUR DAMN LAP JUST SCOOP THEM UP AND CRADLE THEM GOD DAMMIT'

but yes, if the lap-sit leads to a cradle lift then it is the best thing ever

Syo Kirishima · April 3rd, 2018, 03:10

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Originally Posted by 5supermb

Yeah lift & carry and lap-sitting are definitely linked, that's why we have separate threads specifically for lap-sitting in different parts of this forum.

I both love and hate lap-sits at the same time, like TheWolfe said above me, having a girl sat in another girls lap but in the cradle position is a very big turn on

Unfortunately however, my problem with lap-sits is that most of the time they never seem to lead to a lift, like, 'C'MON YOU HAVE A GIRL SAT ON YOUR DAMN LAP JUST SCOOP THEM UP AND CRADLE THEM GOD DAMMIT'

but yes, if the lap-sit leads to a cradle lift then it is the best thing ever

How did I not think about that, a.a

That kind of transition would be very nice to happen one day, but it's very unlikely in my opinion since the girls I've sat haven't cradled me, but either way, it could be very fun too

Jase · April 14th, 2018, 06:09

Hi Syo, I've been lucky enough to have enjoyed a lap sit which turned into a cradle - it was definitely an experience I won't forget.

uplifted0 · April 14th, 2018, 16:57

Hey Jase, that sounds amazing! Any more to the story?

Ukeboy · July 24th, 2018, 08:23

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Originally Posted by Syo Kirishima

Not very related to L&C, but i see it as something similar. It's also a sort of kink, but not much as frequent, unless i'm mistaken.

I agree. Whether cradled in her arms while being carried or while sitting in her lap, it is the same dynamic of being cared for. It is probably far more common than you think.

aaltra · July 24th, 2018, 08:32

I agree it could be a test for girl strengh. I love especially to sit on thick and muscular laps. The size difference between my thin legs and her big ones is quite arousing for me. When it happends, I put my arms around girl neck and raise my knee, and sometime she answers by putting an arm in my back and the other under my knee. It happends once and I told her "Do you dare to carry me to the bedroom ?". She did it with ease as it was really a big girl. I would say the most difficult part is to get on her knees. Once you are on, the probability to get lifted is quite high !

jfiochetti2001 · August 27th, 2018, 09:49

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Originally Posted by Ukeboy

I agree. Whether cradled in her arms while being carried or while sitting in her lap, it is the same dynamic of being cared for. It is probably far more common than you think.

Il y a une quinzaine d'ann?e j'ai eu la chance de rencontrer ? plusieurs reprises une jeune fille dans un club de danseuses qui ?tait tr?s jolie et tr?s en forme qui me demandais de m’asseoir sur ses genoux et elle portait un bras sous mes genoux et l'autre bras en arri?re de mon dos et ensuite elle se levait pour me porter en berceau . Elle pouvait me garder dans ses bras pendant trois minutes. Je la voyais environ deux fois par mois et cela a durer environ 8 ans.

francois314159 · August 29th, 2018, 06:08

I still remember what happened to me very long ago when I was a child (7 y.):
I was then in a ski resort for a week with my family and I met at our hotel a little girl of my age whom I soon became a friend with and we skied together every day.

On the last day of the week she gave me a farewell kiss on the mouth: it was a big surprise as I did not understand matters of life at that time....Not long after this first incident, when I was passing in front of her as she sat in the living room, she suddenly grabbed me around my waist and forced me on her lap. I struggled to free myself from this humiliating situation but with no result, as she was strong in spite of her rather small size compared to me, and she had wrapped her arms very tightly around me.

Since that time I have a strong interest for lapsitting...

April 2nd, 2018, 05:58	#1
Syo Kirishima STANDARD Join Date: Jan 2018 Location: Brazil Posts: 45 : 0 For This Post 89 Total	What do you think about lap sitting? Not very related to L&C, but i see it as something similar. It's also a sort of kink, but not much as frequent, unless i'm mistaken. Sitting on a girl's lap just feels so good, i myself feel like i'm safe into her hug while sitting on her knees, it's just cute to me for some reason, i don't know why. Plus, it's not as strength demanding as L&C is, from my experiences in High School, i was able to get laps from girls quite frequently, some of them actually offered it to me. Even so, there is also the lap pillow, if my partner don't agree much, which is a good alternative to me and much more convenient for her, and it's just as cute as a lap sit. What do you think about this in general? Would you like to sit on a woman's lap or is that too childish/cringe for you? I see that as a cute role reversal and also as a way of demonstrating love for each other.

July 24th, 2018, 08:32	#8
aaltra STANDARD Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 228 : 1 For This Post 368 Total	I agree it could be a test for girl strengh. I love especially to sit on thick and muscular laps. The size difference between my thin legs and her big ones is quite arousing for me. When it happends, I put my arms around girl neck and raise my knee, and sometime she answers by putting an arm in my back and the other under my knee. It happends once and I told her "Do you dare to carry me to the bedroom ?". She did it with ease as it was really a big girl. I would say the most difficult part is to get on her knees. Once you are on, the probability to get lifted is quite high ! Last edited by aaltra; July 24th, 2018 at 09:03.

April 2nd, 2018, 15:01	#2
TheWolfe VIPOS Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: USA Posts: 1,588 : 2 For This Post 3,211 Total	I'm not so much a lapsitting fan but my favorite thing is viewing intimate F/F cradle lifts. When a lapsit has a cradle lift position with the bottom girl's arm holding under the top girl's legs, that's almost as appealing to me as a cradle lift. It can convey the exact same intimacy. As far as participating, I'm not a liftee so likewise I don't sit on laps. I do enjoy holding girls on my lap though, especially in that cradle position, which is also my favorite lift to perform. So even though I come from the opposite perspective, I agree there's a similarity in the appeal.

April 2nd, 2018, 21:28	#3
5supermb VIPOS Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 486 : 2 For This Post 5,465 Total	Yeah lift & carry and lap-sitting are definitely linked, that's why we have separate threads specifically for lap-sitting in different parts of this forum. I both love and hate lap-sits at the same time, like TheWolfe said above me, having a girl sat in another girls lap but in the cradle position is a very big turn on Unfortunately however, my problem with lap-sits is that most of the time they never seem to lead to a lift, like, 'C'MON YOU HAVE A GIRL SAT ON YOUR DAMN LAP JUST SCOOP THEM UP AND CRADLE THEM GOD DAMMIT' but yes, if the lap-sit leads to a cradle lift then it is the best thing ever

April 14th, 2018, 06:09	#5
Jase STANDARD Join Date: May 2013 Posts: 74 : 1 For This Post 199 Total	Hi Syo, I've been lucky enough to have enjoyed a lap sit which turned into a cradle - it was definitely an experience I won't forget.

April 14th, 2018, 16:57	#6
uplifted0 VIP Join Date: Mar 2015 Posts: 117 : 0 For This Post 537 Total	Hey Jase, that sounds amazing! Any more to the story?

August 29th, 2018, 06:08	#10
francois314159 VIP Join Date: Apr 2012 Posts: 113 : 0 For This Post 174 Total	I still remember what happened to me very long ago when I was a child (7 y.): I was then in a ski resort for a week with my family and I met at our hotel a little girl of my age whom I soon became a friend with and we skied together every day. On the last day of the week she gave me a farewell kiss on the mouth: it was a big surprise as I did not understand matters of life at that time....Not long after this first incident, when I was passing in front of her as she sat in the living room, she suddenly grabbed me around my waist and forced me on her lap. I struggled to free myself from this humiliating situation but with no result, as she was strong in spite of her rather small size compared to me, and she had wrapped her arms very tightly around me. Since that time I have a strong interest for lapsitting...