Losing weight to make L&C easier?

mark.johnson21 · January 5th, 2022, 18:05

Hi all,

It strikes me that as men, it would probably be easier for the ladies to lift us if we weighed a bit less ;-)

A buddy of mine recently made a weight loss course -- seems he lost 20lbs in 90 days without any rigorous dieting or exercise -- and he's trying to get the word out there about it, so I figured this might be a reasonable place to share it. Apparently the first 10 minutes are free to view, and the price for the whole thing is currently half off:

https://www.udemy.com/course/losing-...17D61AC2897F6E

ronz233 · January 6th, 2022, 21:59

I have found an exercise that is great for losing weight. The exercise is called Push-a-way. You push away from the table. :LOL

TheLurker1 · January 7th, 2022, 00:21

I always found it interesting that a lot of people here are so heavy, but don't shed the pounds for it, especially since being overhead lifted is a carnal desire on here.

I don't visit the F/M side if things because I'm not being lifted like that, but would certainly be interested in hearing an explanation from a heavy why they choose not to shed the pounds (assuming they are in a physical condition to). Maybe it's more satisfying that way, maybe being heavier suits their overall build, so shedding it for a fetish isn't worth it

tjw1971 · January 7th, 2022, 05:00

I guess a lot has to do with the different things people get out of the fetish?

I find a lot of the L&C content, especially the pornhub type stuff, a little dull and boring because they're constantly finding the skinniest guys possible to star in them.

I just don't see why it's any big deal if a reasonably fit lady in her 20's or 30's is able to pick up one of those guys and hold him upside down or in her arms for a little while? It's not even a challenge if the guy is that thin!

Personally, I would be fine losing 15-20lbs. that I gradually gained over the last few years. But I wouldn't be motivated to go to any real lengths to lose it just because of the idea it might make L&C a little easier. If I reached a point where I needed to buy a size bigger in clothes -- that's probably what would be much more of a motivator for me. That has a real financial impact as well as the inconvenience of having to get a lot of new stuff.

But no ... I'd say most of the women I knew who I could talk about L&C things with told me they were easily carrying people who weigh at least 10-20lbs. more than my heaviest. One told me she used to carry around her 225lb. boyfriend "all the time", and another had an older, taller sister with a thick build who weighed about 235lbs. and she picked her up easily. I even had a next-door neighbor with a 15-16 year old daughter (black girl who weighed about 135) who would regularly put her older male cousin up on her shoulders, boosting him up from a deep squat, and walk around the yard with him. Her mom told me the cousin weighed 220.

nicovanaken · January 7th, 2022, 17:10

I also wouldn't want to lose weight to be lifted more easily. It is more interesting to weigh less in this society.

My 100 kg (220 lbs) could lift most women who wanted to. I don't need to be lifted above my head, but I like it when they can lift me 20 to 30 cm in front.

Lifted321 · January 20th, 2022, 23:44

Nope, Im muscular and I like to lift women as well

elonnlol · May 6th, 2022, 06:38

i'm too embarassed to actually pursue it irl. I've given up on it so now i'm bulking and going to the gym. who knows, maybe i'll meet someone fit enough to carry there

sammysandhoro86 · May 26th, 2022, 03:23

Exactly the reason why I am doing gym. I am 80 kg before gym, and till now I am 75 kg. My reason is to get a light weight so then my wife easily lift me. But I never told that real reason to my wife.

January 5th, 2022, 18:05	#1
mark.johnson21 VIP Honored Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 319 : 0 For This Post 157 Total	Losing weight to make L&C easier? Hi all, It strikes me that as men, it would probably be easier for the ladies to lift us if we weighed a bit less ;-) A buddy of mine recently made a weight loss course -- seems he lost 20lbs in 90 days without any rigorous dieting or exercise -- and he's trying to get the word out there about it, so I figured this might be a reasonable place to share it. Apparently the first 10 minutes are free to view, and the price for the whole thing is currently half off: https://www.udemy.com/course/losing-...17D61AC2897F6E Last edited by mark.johnson21; January 5th, 2022 at 18:20.

January 6th, 2022, 21:59	#2
ronz233 VIP Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: PA Posts: 34 : 1 For This Post 117 Total	losing weight I have found an exercise that is great for losing weight. The exercise is called Push-a-way. You push away from the table. :LOL

January 7th, 2022, 00:21	#3
TheLurker1 VIPOS Join Date: Dec 2014 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 1,163 : 0 For This Post 5,588 Total	I always found it interesting that a lot of people here are so heavy, but don't shed the pounds for it, especially since being overhead lifted is a carnal desire on here. I don't visit the F/M side if things because I'm not being lifted like that, but would certainly be interested in hearing an explanation from a heavy why they choose not to shed the pounds (assuming they are in a physical condition to). Maybe it's more satisfying that way, maybe being heavier suits their overall build, so shedding it for a fetish isn't worth it __________________ Lifting women since '07

January 7th, 2022, 05:00	#4
tjw1971 VIP Honored Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 259 : 3 For This Post 466 Total	Honestly? I guess a lot has to do with the different things people get out of the fetish? I find a lot of the L&C content, especially the pornhub type stuff, a little dull and boring because they're constantly finding the skinniest guys possible to star in them. I just don't see why it's any big deal if a reasonably fit lady in her 20's or 30's is able to pick up one of those guys and hold him upside down or in her arms for a little while? It's not even a challenge if the guy is that thin! Personally, I would be fine losing 15-20lbs. that I gradually gained over the last few years. But I wouldn't be motivated to go to any real lengths to lose it just because of the idea it might make L&C a little easier. If I reached a point where I needed to buy a size bigger in clothes -- that's probably what would be much more of a motivator for me. That has a real financial impact as well as the inconvenience of having to get a lot of new stuff. But no ... I'd say most of the women I knew who I could talk about L&C things with told me they were easily carrying people who weigh at least 10-20lbs. more than my heaviest. One told me she used to carry around her 225lb. boyfriend "all the time", and another had an older, taller sister with a thick build who weighed about 235lbs. and she picked her up easily. I even had a next-door neighbor with a 15-16 year old daughter (black girl who weighed about 135) who would regularly put her older male cousin up on her shoulders, boosting him up from a deep squat, and walk around the yard with him. Her mom told me the cousin weighed 220.

January 7th, 2022, 17:10	#5
nicovanaken STANDARD Join Date: Oct 2021 Location: Belgium Posts: 119 : 0 For This Post 193 Total	I also wouldn't want to lose weight to be lifted more easily. It is more interesting to weigh less in this society. My 100 kg (220 lbs) could lift most women who wanted to. I don't need to be lifted above my head, but I like it when they can lift me 20 to 30 cm in front.

January 20th, 2022, 23:44	#6
Lifted321 STANDARD Join Date: Jan 2022 Posts: 7 : 0 For This Post 5 Total	Nope, Im muscular and I like to lift women as well

May 6th, 2022, 06:38	#7
elonnlol STANDARD Join Date: May 2022 Posts: 6 : 0 For This Post 1 Total	i'm too embarassed to actually pursue it irl. I've given up on it so now i'm bulking and going to the gym. who knows, maybe i'll meet someone fit enough to carry there

May 26th, 2022, 03:23	#8
sammysandhoro86 Junior Member Join Date: May 2022 Posts: 19 : 0 For This Post 8 Total	Exactly the reason why I am doing gym. I am 80 kg before gym, and till now I am 75 kg. My reason is to get a light weight so then my wife easily lift me. But I never told that real reason to my wife.