Is lifting always domination? - Page 6

Googoojooba8 · April 15th, 2020, 10:39

It doesn't have to be domination always. But I love the more extreme ones than the normal ones. My favorite lift and carry is torture rack or the backbreaker. I really think it is hot

NinaH · April 20th, 2020, 17:05

I personally would catalog domination as a fetish itself.

My thought on all this is that fetishes and practices have certain intersections, for example, domination has a lot to do with control and power, and physical strength -required in Lift and Carry- is an asset that can definitely impose control over someone else. Lift and carry and domination would be the fetishised practices, and strength the intersection in between.

I have seen scenes where a "mommy" carries a "baby", not in a domineering way, just a loving fetish scene (the domination part came after, but was completely detached from the carry part). ABDL intersects with Lift and carry here.
Also in my experience fetish can group in sort of families, but don't necesarily need them.

So I can imagine some like to feel the power from the person lifting underneath, but not to feel overpowered per se; and some do like the feeling of powerlessness on top of the strength.

Think about it as flavoured ice cream, you can totally combine them as you want, no rules!

furrypants · April 28th, 2020, 17:30

Picking someone up and carrying them is whatever the person / persons want it to be. It might be dom or sub, just depends on what both parties want and expect.

mazo242k · May 14th, 2020, 18:37

I've never seen someone lifting somebody else as dominating. there's plenty of strength involved and they'll depict someone in the clip as dominating for a story or whatever. but i just like watching the lifting and don't over analyze it.

atlantaguy · May 15th, 2020, 13:25

The torture rack is the best. When a lady has you in the position, you are at their mercy. You could probably get down but you risk injury.

Bmiles90 · May 18th, 2020, 03:34

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Originally Posted by atlantaguy

The torture rack is the best. When a lady has you in the position, you are at their mercy. You could probably get down but you risk injury.

Agree 100%. To me that is the ultimate domination lift. My dream is to have a lady hoist me in a torture rack during a session.

Liftcarrytall · June 9th, 2020, 19:24

It seems to always be power but to be blunt most interactions are about power.

baiduas · June 13th, 2020, 09:15

Just personally, I really love it when it is dominating just feeling overpowered and hopeless.

newrope · July 11th, 2020, 12:22

It could be a form of wanting to be dominated, but on the other hand i also like to lift girls. I sometimes like to turn it around. So either i like to be dominated and dominate at the same time, or my passion of lifting has a different reasoning.

Transit · September 2nd, 2020, 04:39

I think, in general, involves domination.
If you L/C someone, you have the last word over the next minute of your partner. Just speculating, but in general, women have better attitude when they feel dominated, most girls don?t have any problem if someone else lift them in public. A few may feel embarrassed, most of them will enjoy it for a while, and some will even demand more lifts, they have no problems being dominated in public, For men, in general, works the oposite way. we want dominate. again, generally speaking.....

April 20th, 2020, 17:05	#52
NinaH STANDARD Join Date: Apr 2020 Location: London Posts: 4 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	Not necessarily! I personally would catalog domination as a fetish itself. My thought on all this is that fetishes and practices have certain intersections, for example, domination has a lot to do with control and power, and physical strength -required in Lift and Carry- is an asset that can definitely impose control over someone else. Lift and carry and domination would be the fetishised practices, and strength the intersection in between. I have seen scenes where a "mommy" carries a "baby", not in a domineering way, just a loving fetish scene (the domination part came after, but was completely detached from the carry part). ABDL intersects with Lift and carry here. Also in my experience fetish can group in sort of families, but don't necesarily need them. So I can imagine some like to feel the power from the person lifting underneath, but not to feel overpowered per se; and some do like the feeling of powerlessness on top of the strength. Think about it as flavoured ice cream, you can totally combine them as you want, no rules!

July 11th, 2020, 12:22	#59
newrope Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2019 Location: I am from Austria Posts: 4 : 1 For This Post 3 Total	I like it both ways It could be a form of wanting to be dominated, but on the other hand i also like to lift girls. I sometimes like to turn it around. So either i like to be dominated and dominate at the same time, or my passion of lifting has a different reasoning.

September 2nd, 2020, 04:39	#60
Transit Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2020 Location: south of the border Posts: 6 : 1 For This Post 3 Total	Transit I think, in general, involves domination. If you L/C someone, you have the last word over the next minute of your partner. Just speculating, but in general, women have better attitude when they feel dominated, most girls don?t have any problem if someone else lift them in public. A few may feel embarrassed, most of them will enjoy it for a while, and some will even demand more lifts, they have no problems being dominated in public, For men, in general, works the oposite way. we want dominate. again, generally speaking.....

April 15th, 2020, 10:39	#51
Googoojooba8 STANDARD Join Date: Apr 2020 Posts: 21 : 1 For This Post 33 Total	It doesn't have to be domination always. But I love the more extreme ones than the normal ones. My favorite lift and carry is torture rack or the backbreaker. I really think it is hot

April 28th, 2020, 17:30	#53
furrypants VIP Join Date: Mar 2014 Posts: 88 : 0 For This Post 54 Total	Picking someone up and carrying them is whatever the person / persons want it to be. It might be dom or sub, just depends on what both parties want and expect.

May 14th, 2020, 18:37	#54
mazo242k STANDARD Join Date: May 2020 Posts: 41 : 0 For This Post 98 Total	I've never seen someone lifting somebody else as dominating. there's plenty of strength involved and they'll depict someone in the clip as dominating for a story or whatever. but i just like watching the lifting and don't over analyze it.

May 15th, 2020, 13:25	#55
atlantaguy Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 281 : 0 For This Post 834 Total	The torture rack is the best. When a lady has you in the position, you are at their mercy. You could probably get down but you risk injury.

June 9th, 2020, 19:24	#57
Liftcarrytall STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2020 Posts: 10 : 0 For This Post 1 Total	It seems to always be power but to be blunt most interactions are about power.

June 13th, 2020, 09:15	#58
baiduas Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2020 Posts: 2 : 0 For This Post 1 Total	Just personally, I really love it when it is dominating just feeling overpowered and hopeless.