Exactly same for me too
.. this one time a dominant girl and I had an experience and that opened my eyes, I now encourage whoever am dating to be more stronger,fitter and perhaps better than me.

In my opinion, this content is getting more popular in Latin America too. Glad to find a place to discuss it.

What did the dominant girl do to you? I take it that she was larger and stronger, maybe older. In my case, an older female cousin carried me over her shoulder against my will when I was 8. She was 13 at the time.

Well she was younger than me by a year, but she was taller and thicker didn't know about strength then.
Now during a game of hide n seek we both were hiding in an attic where the only view window was on considerable height more than both of us. So she lifted me on her shoulder without me asking so that we can see the seeker. That opened something in me

I get it now. My female cousin (not the same one) was a few months younger than me, and she was bigger and stronger than me and most boys her age when were 12 or 13. She came up behind me, grabbed me around the waist, and effortlessly carried me across the yard. It was the only time that she did that. She lifted her smaller twin brother, who was the same size as me then, all of the time in all kinds of ways, often for long carries.

Nice... I mean all of us here have this hidden desire but enlighten once we get an external incident suddenly out of nowhere. And that's where the desire awakens.
I always wondered why I like being in close proximity of larger girls isn't it emasculating but then later in life realised that was my strongest requirement.

She was a force of nature. She could cradle carry a 200+ pound guy at that age. She won football skills contests against the best boys her age. It was embarrassing that she was bigger and stronger than us, but she was anomalous like the Usain Bolt of tomboys.

Nice.... Its exhilarating and some are exceptional.
I had one friend during my mma days specifically liked lifting to show off her strength

She was like that. She loved to lift boys and men. My other girl cousin loved to lift females. They both inherited the same lifting gene but they expressed it differently .

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