Have you ever talked about your fetish to a loved one?
 

My girlfriend has no idea I want to be lifted. I have a pretty strong hand fetish and leather fetish and we do things with those. It seems less embarassing to me. I wish I had more confidence but for now it is what it is.

I talked with my gf about my fetish and her reaction was like "ewww are u gay?" And then she said she can't live with someone like me

And my girlfriend gladly supported this idea))

yeah, unfortunately it is better to keep quiet on something like this. Nobody wants to hear about it. I wish women would see things differently.

It’s strange, but here there’s a fetish for LC and gay??? Sorry...

I told a guy friend. He promised to keep it a secret, but he told our other friends for laughs.

Yep. Exactly that. If you open up to anyone, there is a very high chance they will use it against you. I think a lot of people will be willing to exploit you so they can take any attention off their own funny or odd fetishes. Your "friend" probably enjoys something ten times weirder or worse than what you (we) do.


I hate to be a negative Nancy, but it reminds me of that old song by Nick Cave - "people just ain't no good"

He just shared the story for cheap laughs. "You'll never guess what turns Zebra on!" He also knew about my thing for larger girls and smaller girls too. In fact, he was friends with such a pair, and they agreed to a photo shoot (at his behest) that fell through the cracks.

I hope you aren't friends with him anymore. I know exactly where you are coming from - my own brother did something similar to me a few times, thank god it wasn't about L&C.

It is not so nice but, I think most people would sell their own grandmother into slavery if they could make a few quid off it. It is almost always better to keep quiet and never let something like this out.

Similar thing happened with me. I also told a guy friend and he thought it hilarious. He started carrying me around the room telling me to imagine he was a woman! We had been out to a party and had quite a lot to drink.

He admitted that he did it, so it was forgiven. My friends and I always made fun of each other, so it was no big deal. It was embarrassing to a certain extent. That was as far as it went because I knew that they just thought it was funny, and they never thought that it was a "clutch my pearls" kind of thing.

Fortunately, he never lifted me. I doubt that he would have done that if he was drunk.

My friend was laughing for the rest of the night about it. I was staying round his flat after the party. He was carrying me around for about half an hour! Thank God there was nobody else there.

I gotcha :) I would be mortified - for me, i take things a bit harder, but glad you guys ended up staying friends!

He had a foot fetish, and he was into female bodybuilders. We all had our quirks, so no one could throw stones.

Good and accurate post. All sorts of quirks - the friend of mine whom I was talking about got a turn on from comparing his muscles with everyone,believe it or not. Lol.

There are quite a few guys like your friend. They often limit the muscle comparisons to female bodybuilders or ordinary women, though. I like it when larger women compare themselves to smaller women. That's my main niche, and F/F lifting is just a part of it, but I can add spanking, tickling, wrestling, etc. (as part of the F/F larger/smaller niche), and it keeps things from getting too repetitive (some guys, for instance, post a zillion pictures of fat women dressed as clowns).

Psychologists would have a fine time trying to analyse all these fetishes,would n't they? Lol.

This particular friend of mine is one of these types who are almost what I'd describe as pretty looking but muscular and he gets off on that a lot.

I don't get too deep or too heavy with it. I like F/F large/small scenarios in the same way that I like our local pizza; it is what it is. If I had to find the spark that started my fire of fascination, it would be a TV movie in which a larger older women threatened to carry a younger smaller woman, against her will, to a shower to clean her. I was in kindergarten at the time!

Was that Whoopi Goldberg and Winnona Ryder? I recall Whoopi carrying Winnona into the shower or dropping her into a bathtub.

No, it was an old movie with an older businesswoman and a younger hippy. You're not the first person to mention Girl Interrupted, in which Goldberg carries a naked(?) Ryder to a washtub, plops her in, and diligently scrubs her with soap. Needless to say, I love that scene. I made up a lot of scenes with Winona in my imagination!

That's a really good film. I wished I could take Winnona's place. Lol.

That makes one of us. I wish that I could take Whoopi's place in that scene.

I always enjoy watching how effortlessly Whoopi carries Winnona - like she weighs absolutely nothing. Whoopi must have been pretty fit back then.

That could be. I think that Winona was extremely light too. I sometimes pictured her in scenarios with female athletes and female entertainers, who were much bigger than her. I wrote a fantasy magazine article on it way back in the past.

I like imagining that Winnona is being carried by JLO.

That'll work. I was thinking about someone like Cheryl Haworth or Becca Swanson.

That would be good.

Or how about Demi Moore or a young Kathleen Turner?

Why not? Of course, those pairings wouldn't fit my larger/smaller thing, but I wouldn't complain. Along the same lines as your second choice, there's a great scene in "Monster" where Charlize Theron (as Aileen Wuornos) lifts and carries Christina Ricci in a front straddle in a motel room. They're lovers.

I'll look for that. How about Brook Shields and Winnona? Brook is nearly six feet tall,I think.

It's wild that you say that! I think that I used them in a faux L&C Magazine article that I wrote way back in the past. Brooke lifts and carries her in a variety of ways. I wrote a story about Avril Lavigne facing Venus Williams in "American Gladiators" too.

Avril Lavigne v Venus Williams is a delightful fantasy.

I have always had a fantasy about Brooke carrying me. I'm sure she'd be big and strong enough to.

How about Alicea Keys v Pink in Gladiators?

That's okay. I might pit her against Christina Aguilera or Ariana Grande instead of Pink, though.

I like Pink - I saw a gig of hers on TV when she carried a guy across stage. He looked about the same weight as me so I envied him. Lol!

How about Dua Lipa v Winnona?

I wouldn't mind it. I'm mostly just into larger chicks lifting smaller chicks, though, so pairings like that would be preferable.

In that case Winonna v Martina Navratilova or Gwendoline Christie would be perfect.

That would be great. There's a photo of Gwendoline Christie lifting the much smaller Jenna Ortega in a front straddle during filming of "Wednesday Addams". You should see clips of interviews of Gwendoline and Jenna. Ortega seems like she has a huge girl crush on the amazon.

I'll look for that photo. Gwendoline is gorgeous. Predictably I'd love her to carry me!

Did you like Kathleen Turner when she was younger?

Yeah, she would be a great lifter. As for the casting of "Wednesday Addams", I sometimes wonder if the show runners are fans of pairing larger women with smaller women because there are other petite women in the cast.

Good point.

Yes,Katheen woud definitely be an excellent lifter. I especially imagine being piggybacked by her.

How about a pairing of Kathleen and Jodie Foster?

That would be good. I'd like to see it in scenes from the '80s, though.

Me too. Charlize Theron and Ariana Grande would be another good match up.

Why not? I read that Ariana Grande likes to be lifted, so maybe women carry her around in private.

I have this fantasy of Dua Lipa carrying Ariana then carrying me afterwards.

You never know. Maybe Dua Lipa carries Ariana Grande around her house when they visit each other, and the latter looks like she would be easy to carry these days.

That would be a beautiful sight.

Have you ever thought of Sigourney Weaver as a lifter?

Sure. Geena Davis is a second one in that category.

Definitely. Tall and quite strongly built. And how about Kellie McGillis? Tom Cruise's co-star in Top Gun.

Of course. Maybe there's a lost '80s movie where she carries Molly Ringwald and Ally Sheedy (a shelved sequel to "The Breakfast Club").

That would be lovely to see!!!


Another whom I've always fantasised about being carried by is Angela Bassett. She looks really strong and athletic.

She's only 5'3 to 5'4. I'd rather see her as a lift-ee than a lift-er. Hard pass on short women lifting tall women. Without fail, when I say that I like to see larger women lift and carry smaller women, at least one person has to say "I like the reverse".

I always thought that Angela was taller than that. Beyonce would be a good lifter,I think. Even though she's not that tall.

Yeah, she seems taller if you haven't seen her around other people. Beyonce might lift chicks at her Illuminati gatherings.

That would be nice to see! I did see a pic a while ago of Beyonce carrying her personal trainer over her shoulder (I was very jealous. Lol!) but i can't find it anywhere.

How about Rihanna? She's pretty tall.

She's too slender for my taste. My L&C tastes are quite specific, which can save both cash and time since I skip stuff that's not appealing to me, and most of that stuff is not A&P, which is my main preference. I even like some F/M material if it's in that category. I draw the line at giants lifting midgets, though.

Are you talking about this:
https://x.com/BeyLegion/status/772434546239373312 ?

I see what you mean.

Have you seen a model called Ashley Graham? Very tall and powerfully built.

Oh yes!!! Well done on finding that. I could n't. I envy that guy.

I have. There's a clip of her lifting a barbell and a woman at the same time, so she would be an ideal lifter in a lifting tape.

Yeah, she's nice
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/ashl...195641075.html

Recently got married. told my wife about my lapsitting and lift and carry fantasies. she is so excited to hold me in her lap and carry me. Can't believe i turned so lucky. She is a traditional Punjabi girl and very nurturing.

Sounds lovely. How tall and heavy is your wife? I worked with a Punjabi girl once and she was very strong.

I'll look for that clip,Zebra.

How many other tall and strong celebs can you recommend for lifting?

That's a very long list. Just look at athletes and entertainers who are larger than ordinary women.

True. I'll do so

I paired them with much smaller female celebrities. You wonder if the show runner of "Wednesday Addams" likes this kind of thing.

Definitely.

Everytime I ever brought it up it never went well, I'm 45 now and basically decided I'll never do it again. However, I just learned to be a little opportunistic about it. An ex of mine was working out when I walked in the room. I said I bet you can't lift me. She scooped me right into a firemans carry with zero effort. I immediately asked can you squat me? She then ripped off about 5-6 squats before putting me down and continuing her workout. She was about 5'5" 140 lbs, an equestrian so her legs were dense and powerful. I was maybe 175 at the time. She was a real twat in the end relationship wise but I still think of that event from a purely arousing sexual standpoint.

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No, I have not.
I have other fetishes that I indulge in with my girlfriend.
This one however is not one I plan on sharing.

wife piggyback me
 

i have been married since 4 years about 2 years ago i started lap sitting on my wife while having foreplay it seems to become my regular foreplay and we both are enjoying the same she has huge leg muscles and she goes to gym but irregular she is almost my weight looking forward to trying new things with her

no i have not, i think if we really were able to share our desires with our loved ones or other people in general we wouldn't be in the internet searching for it in websites, i think this is why these kind of websites and forums exists, so everyone can share what he like without been judged by anyone, so yeah, i haven't and as i read from the posts here most of people don't share that to others

Yes i have, my partner is understanding

Yes - it hasn't worked out well.

My wife used to periodically let me in a half piggy back where i'd put my arms around her shoulders from behind and she would thrust herself ford racing me off the floor, then walk around a bit.

Then I told her of my fetish and that being carried by her turns me on. Since then she has front lifted me before sex 3 or 4 times, but now totally refuses to engage in this.

She says it turns her off. I do understand that what she feels matters,however I also feel aside shes given then taken away. We still have sex but OMG that sex prior to her refusing was off the chart. Shes 30kg lighter than me but incredibly strong. Not sure how to deal with the situation.

Yes, and she was like " i will never be with someone like u" and our relationship is over

try a new, more casual approach
 

that sucks man! sorry to hear that, you should try being more clever about it in the future, make it into a fun challenge or game, let her competitive side come out and lead the way, so to speak; don't be completely honest at first, that way you won't put them off by coming on too strong

good call
 

me neither, it usually doesn't go well; honesty doesn't appear to be the best policy when it comes to this fetish

are you going to try to get lifts from her anyway by beating around the bush, so to speak? do you have other plans in mind, like getting carried by a friend instead?

Someday hopefully
 

That's really sad but totally expected. I think the problem is that while there is an emphasis on "gender equality" in society, for most people there's still no recognition that many men also want to be loved in affectionate/nurturing ways. Men don't always want to be the
I think there is now some acceptance for men wanting to be the little spoon or being held etc. Hopefully, someday the lift and carry idea will become pretty mainstream.

Until then, I do think it's important to find a woman who is kind-hearted and nurturing. Many women just want to make their man happy, and it's also an ego thing. My wife, for instance, had no idea about this when we met, but she is totally into lifting me now and holding me in her lap too. It's a pride thing for her too. Flattering for her to feel that I shared this secret with her, and that I get so turned on when she holds me like that.