Is L&C more important to you than sex?
 

We're nearly all guys here and guys all seem to have a thirst for conquest. The common scenario is that a guy wants to have a long list of sexual conquests. Personally, I don't care about that. The first thing I think about upon spotting an attractive woman is what it would feel like to scoop her up into a cradle. It practically replaces sex for me. Don't get me wrong. I still enjoy sex but my thirst for conquest is satisfied by L&C.

Regardless of your "orientation" as lifter or liftee, can anyone relate?

BTW, some advantages are:
1. You can't get an STD.
2. It's easier to score.
3. It's not officially considered cheating.

True what you say,but when it comes to L & C I prefer to be the lifted rather than the lifter.

I am asexual. I have no interest in sex... Meaning my fetishes are more important than sex..

Looks like I'm the odd one out with you lot, sex has always been the most important thing for me. My interest in L & C tends to vary from reasonably keen to not very important, but my interest in sex has never varied (ask my wife :))

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I've always had a strong interest in sex. I just find that I fantasize more about L&C acts than sex acts. I'd also find watching L&C more enjoyable than watching porn (though porn with L&C rules!).

I find it really easy to be monogamous with sex so it stays a close, personal thing between me and my wife but I have a desire to spread my lifting seed far and wide that's very hard to control. It only replaces sex for me in that context. But I'm definitely not asexual. It's just sort of an extension of sex for me.

It's a wonderful prelude to sex. It's also satisfying if there's no sex afterward. The joy of fulfilling the lift and carry fantasy has it's own rewards. Sex without it is still great, but for me lacks the magic of combining the two. That is some cause of concern for me, if I think too much about it.

At the moment, yes.

Agreed. I am of the same opinion.

not completely but more so