If I girl lifts me, I will feel wimpy and embarrassed.  And I think that wimpy/embarrassed/submissive feeling automatically gives me a bnr. 
 
I also like watching girls/women lift one another.  I like seeing how the liftee reacts.  I like it when she looks embarrassed (and/or aroused).  It's great to see these reactions. 
 
So to me, I guess being lifted is a bit of an embarrassment thing.  A little bit like an embarrassment fetish.  But I also get turned on my the domination/submission thing that is at play as well.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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