Don't put words in my mouth, joe. Your interest does not offend me. As someone who has struggled with weight my whole life, I was simply suggesting I would not want to see a female that is 5 ft. And 350 pounds because that would no doubt have a huge impact on her long term health. Those proportions are beyond extreme morbid obesity. As for suggesting that one could support that girth and be "in shape", well that's your perspective. I feel it would be an unfortunate burden for any woman to carry (no pun intended). Anyway enough of this. Let's get back to the good times