What age does lift and carry start on average

[featherman]

For me, it stated at 4. Did it start the for you earlier, by then, or later?

[TheWolfe]

Originally Posted by featherman

For me, it stated at 4. Did it start the for you earlier, by then, or later?

For me it started around 3 or 4 I guess. It's like it's always been there.

I'm guessing by your name that you like to be lifted. I don't. I would see women being lifted on TV and I wanted to be able to lift them, too. When I was in high school, the cheerleaders got me into seeing girls lifting girls. I never wanted to be the liftee. That was always a feminine role in my mind so the idea of being treated like I'm feminine was always repulsive to me. Over the last 25 years of looking at L&C online my reaction to F/M has dulled considerably. It still doesn't do anything for me but "repulsed" is way too strong to describe my current reaction.

I point all that out because at the age of 4 it's pretty normal to be carried so I could see a liftee liking it and wanting it to continue. For me I was already repulsed by the idea of being lifted and resisted my parents when they tried to lift me. That seems a bit more severe to me.

[zebra]

Originally Posted by TheWolfe

For me it started around 3 or 4 I guess. It's like it's always been there.

I'm guessing by your name that you like to be lifted. I don't. I would see women being lifted on TV and I wanted to be able to lift them, too. When I was in high school, the cheerleaders got me into seeing girls lifting girls. I never wanted to be the liftee. That was always a feminine role in my mind so the idea of being treated like I'm feminine was always repulsive to me. Over the last 25 years of looking at L&C online my reaction to F/M has dulled considerably. It still doesn't do anything for me but "repulsed" is way too strong to describe my current reaction.

I point all that out because at the age of 4 it's pretty normal to be carried so I could see a liftee liking it and wanting it to continue. For me I was already repulsed by the idea of being lifted and resisted my parents when they tried to lift me. That seems a bit more severe to me.

I also had a taboo against females lifting me when I was a boy. You and I might differ in that my taboo vanished, and I enjoyed it when larger or older girls lifted and carried me against my will. I don't mind F/M lifting. I just much prefer F/F lifting like I prefer steak to meatloaf.

[featherman]

Originally Posted by TheWolfe

For me it started around 3 or 4 I guess. It's like it's always been there.

I'm guessing by your name that you like to be lifted. I don't. I would see women being lifted on TV and I wanted to be able to lift them, too. When I was in high school, the cheerleaders got me into seeing girls lifting girls. I never wanted to be the liftee. That was always a feminine role in my mind so the idea of being treated like I'm feminine was always repulsive to me. Over the last 25 years of looking at L&C online my reaction to F/M has dulled considerably. It still doesn't do anything for me but "repulsed" is way too strong to describe my current reaction.

I point all that out because at the age of 4 it's pretty normal to be carried so I could see a liftee liking it and wanting it to continue. For me I was already repulsed by the idea of being lifted and resisted my parents when they tried to lift me. That seems a bit more severe to me.

Being carried by a pretty lady, especially if she sings while doing it is very sexy for me. I’ve thought that since 4; a pretty maternal woman front lifting me while singing and giving gestures of affection is one of the sexiest things a woman can do. It started with my mom, and then I wanted other pretty women to do it.

[fredbloggs1969]

For me, it was when I was around 7 years old. I saw a large girl in my class lift her red-headed friend and carry her across the classroom. I had a soft spot for the redhead, and to see her easily carried had an effect on me that has stuck around for nearly 50 years. :-)

[TheWolfe]

Originally Posted by featherman

Being carried by a pretty lady, especially if she sings while doing it is very sexy for me. I’ve thought that since 4; a pretty maternal woman front lifting me while singing and giving gestures of affection is one of the sexiest things a woman can do. It started with my mom, and then I wanted other pretty women to do it.

See? You call it maternal. I'm not interested in a mommy. I rejected being babied when I was 3-4 years old. I found it insulting to be the recipient and embarrassing to be seen that way.

The part about seeing carry scenes on TV is also about being a grown-up man. It was like "Wow, men can carry women around like they're kids. I can't wait until I'm a grown-up so I can carry grown-up women like that."

I was already viewing carrying as something more than it actually is and I really don't know why I was so focused on it.