Is this fetish a reaction of the subconscious against social norms?

[civelensky]

I have always loved unusual events. I like absurd situations.Even in humor, my favorite kind is the absurd.That's why I think I have this fetish.I did not adopt social norms.If a woman is strong enough to carry you, she will.Sometimes I wonder if deep in my subconscious there is a strong reaction against traditional masculine roles.

[upandaway]

Originally Posted by civelensky

I have always loved unusual events. I like absurd situations.Even in humor, my favorite kind is the absurd.That's why I think I have this fetish.I did not adopt social norms.If a woman is strong enough to carry you, she will.Sometimes I wonder if deep in my subconscious there is a strong reaction against traditional masculine roles.

interesting... why do you think that way? are you naturally open minded? when and how did you discover this fetish?

[civelensky]

Originally Posted by upandaway

interesting... why do you think that way? are you naturally open minded? when and how did you discover this fetish?

Actually I don't have such a thought..I wonder about the mentality of people who have the same fetish as me.That's why I wrote such a thesis. I don't like it when the male mind decides how men and women should be.Even though I have such a fetish, I consider myself quite masculine.A grown man may need affection.This should not be construed as weakness.Because I have never been a weak individual.I am very interested in unusual situations.(It would be more accurate to say that it is out of the ordinary.) I am far from religions and norms.I don't remember when I first became interested in lift and carry.I think I became interested in it a little before puberty.

[raul2626]

Originally Posted by civelensky

Actually I don't have such a thought..I wonder about the mentality of people who have the same fetish as me.That's why I wrote such a thesis. I don't like it when the male mind decides how men and women should be.Even though I have such a fetish, I consider myself quite masculine.A grown man may need affection.This should not be construed as weakness.Because I have never been a weak individual.I am very interested in unusual situations.(It would be more accurate to say that it is out of the ordinary.) I am far from religions and norms.I don't remember when I first became interested in lift and carry.I think I became interested in it a little before puberty.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and inviting us for discussion. I think many people feel excited and sometimes aroused to see something out of ordinary. Learning new things can help an organism’s survival. Broadening expectations of how two humans interact can improve a person’s social behavior skills. People suffer and struggle from life. Difficulties, challenges, threats, fear, concerns. Adding to that, social pressure to act only in certain way gives a person more hard time. Then people try to find unusual things from literature or movies alike. People love fantasy, dream, revolution, and new stuffs. I think these all contribute to various types of fetish and human desire out of ordinary. I am considered a feminine male by people around me. I was teased and criticized for being too skinny or less masculine. I don’t care much how people would say something like that. I love myself as I am. I don’t try to be masculine. For me, I think is one of main reasons I become to love getting lifted by girls. We can see from many folktales, myths, literature, comics, nonfictions, with physically strong women and female heroes and female powers. And many people love that. People generally love and get excited sometimes to see something out of ordinary, something surpass the traditional gender roles.

[Plonss14]

Originally Posted by civelensky

I have always loved unusual events. I like absurd situations.Even in humor, my favorite kind is the absurd.That's why I think I have this fetish.I did not adopt social norms.If a woman is strong enough to carry you, she will.Sometimes I wonder if deep in my subconscious there is a strong reaction against traditional masculine roles.

I don’t think so, I doubt personal moral objections to society would impact this part of your life.

[civelensky]

I had a girlfriend when I was a kid. I sat on her lap while we were joking around.I realized I liked this.Then I wonder who else liked it.I started researching.

[civelensky]

Originally Posted by civelensky

I had a girlfriend when I was a kid. I sat on her lap while we were joking around.I realized I liked this.Then I wonder who else liked it.I started researching.

I'm most curious about how women with this fetish interpret it.

[upandaway]

Originally Posted by civelensky

I'm most curious about how women with this fetish interpret it.

imo women don't really have this or any other fetish, definitely not to the same degree men do
instead, if all goes well, they agree/like to please their male partners/friends/session clients, show off their strength, and have fun

[civelensky]

Originally Posted by upandaway

imo women don't really have this or any other fetish, definitely not to the same degree men do
instead, if all goes well, they agree/like to please their male partners/friends/session clients, show off their strength, and have fun

Here are the entries of women who want to sit their boyfriends on their laps.

https://www.isitnormal.com/post/iin-...n--208071.html

I think there are women who like this fetish. I wonder why they like it.

[upandaway]

Originally Posted by civelensky

I had a girlfriend when I was a kid. I sat on her lap while we were joking around.I realized I liked this.Then I wonder who else liked it.I started researching.

did she lift you?