depressed about l&c

girlfights · July 2nd, 2011, 06:41

Guys, I really wouldn't worry,, I think being obsessed with L&C is fine.. It's harmless fun really... Some guys like feet, collect stuff or some watch every football game and get depressed when the season is over.. I have fun making the L&C videos, I like feeling strong and like making stuff for the fans to enjoy.

So don't feel bad that you like what i like.. I had a phase where I LOVED leather pants on men, the look, the smell of the leather, it was just a real turn on.. and I still like wrestling as foreplay, feeling overwhelmed and helpless while under a stronger man..

Does that make me a bad person? No.. if someone is freaked out a harmless hobby/desire, then they are not the one for you...

Hope you do not mind a woman chiming in...

girlfights · July 2nd, 2011, 06:49

Sorry forgot this...IF L&C is making you sad and depressed.. that is not good, maybe try to find a new hobby.. if something doesn't make you happy, why do it? Sorry very simple way to put it, I know....

RachelFights · July 2nd, 2011, 11:35

Hi Guys

The one thing that I have learned in my many years as a fetish Model, Wrestler, and in my personal life is that everbody has something (including me

) that can be considered a fetish. The difference is that some people admit it, while others do not.

The key is to find someone who is not only ok with it, but will embrace it in some form. Not everyone will (so screw them

) but some will. It definitely cuts down on the dating pool but atleast you then find somebody you can be yourself around and not have to hide or feel bad about what you really enjoy.

This is not just true with lift and carry, but also with other unique interests, and I have seen many, many success stories. Including my own!

aloknath · July 2nd, 2011, 13:54

That is definitely useful advice posited by our forum's producers.

I think some of the original 'depression' in the thread comes from some people having their sex/love lives dominated by the need for L&C. As in some people actually end up preferring the fetish to sex or require the fetish to be involved in order to enjoy the sex. The former thing, particularly, is a bit of a problem. When it becomes a pathological paraphilia, basically.

But as the last two posters say, a fetish like L&C being enjoyed alongside a healthy sex life is absolutely nothing to be ashamed or depressed about!

July 2nd, 2011, 06:41	#1
girlfights STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Southern United States Posts: 315 : 0 For This Post 119 Total	Guys, I really wouldn't worry,, I think being obsessed with L&C is fine.. It's harmless fun really... Some guys like feet, collect stuff or some watch every football game and get depressed when the season is over.. I have fun making the L&C videos, I like feeling strong and like making stuff for the fans to enjoy. So don't feel bad that you like what i like.. I had a phase where I LOVED leather pants on men, the look, the smell of the leather, it was just a real turn on.. and I still like wrestling as foreplay, feeling overwhelmed and helpless while under a stronger man.. Does that make me a bad person? No.. if someone is freaked out a harmless hobby/desire, then they are not the one for you... Hope you do not mind a woman chiming in... __________________ Custom videos available http://www.clips4sale.com/store/21308 Last edited by girlfights; July 2nd, 2011 at 06:49.

July 2nd, 2011, 06:49	#2
girlfights STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Southern United States Posts: 315 : 1 For This Post 119 Total	Sorry forgot this...IF L&C is making you sad and depressed.. that is not good, maybe try to find a new hobby.. if something doesn't make you happy, why do it? Sorry very simple way to put it, I know.... __________________ Custom videos available http://www.clips4sale.com/store/21308

July 2nd, 2011, 11:35	#3
RachelFights VIP Honored Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Orlando,FL Posts: 480 : 0 For This Post 205 Total	Hi Guys The one thing that I have learned in my many years as a fetish Model, Wrestler, and in my personal life is that everbody has something (including me ) that can be considered a fetish. The difference is that some people admit it, while others do not. The key is to find someone who is not only ok with it, but will embrace it in some form. Not everyone will (so screw them ) but some will. It definitely cuts down on the dating pool but atleast you then find somebody you can be yourself around and not have to hide or feel bad about what you really enjoy. This is not just true with lift and carry, but also with other unique interests, and I have seen many, many success stories. Including my own! __________________ Hugs & Kisses, Rachel www.clips4sale.com/39486

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July 2nd, 2011, 13:54	#4
aloknath VIPOS Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 855 : 0 For This Post 450 Total	That is definitely useful advice posited by our forum's producers. I think some of the original 'depression' in the thread comes from some people having their sex/love lives dominated by the need for L&C. As in some people actually end up preferring the fetish to sex or require the fetish to be involved in order to enjoy the sex. The former thing, particularly, is a bit of a problem. When it becomes a pathological paraphilia, basically. But as the last two posters say, a fetish like L&C being enjoyed alongside a healthy sex life is absolutely nothing to be ashamed or depressed about!