Is lifting always domination?

[pin381]

Actually, yes and no. It all depends on the specific situation. Let me explain with a personal example.
My girlfriend is much younger than me and more fragile than me. But our sex consists entirely of role reversal and we both enjoy it. One day I confessed to her that I liked LC and she enthusiastically suggested I try it. Yes, we don't get to do much because of the difference in parameters, but she likes to lift me up and put me on her lap. In this way she demonstrates her starring role in our sexual games. But it is not about dominance, there is no humiliation, we just give each other pleasure in this way. Moreover, we take photos and videos of our games and then review them, commenting on how helpless I look in her hands.

[TheWolfe]

Originally Posted by pin381

Actually, yes and no. It all depends on the specific situation. Let me explain with a personal example.
My girlfriend is much younger than me and more fragile than me. But our sex consists entirely of role reversal and we both enjoy it. One day I confessed to her that I liked LC and she enthusiastically suggested I try it. Yes, we don't get to do much because of the difference in parameters, but she likes to lift me up and put me on her lap. In this way she demonstrates her starring role in our sexual games. But it is not about dominance, there is no humiliation, we just give each other pleasure in this way. Moreover, we take photos and videos of our games and then review them, commenting on how helpless I look in her hands.

Dominance does not necessarily mean humiliation. Those who have a domination fetish often include humiliation but it's not a required part. Domination can be very subtle, simply just the flip-side of submission. If a person willingly gives up control to another person, that other person who takes control is dominant by default. There's no humiliation there but there's definitely submission and domination.

[BB126]

Originally Posted by zebra

I like domination in a somewhat playful way. Say that a larger woman lifts and carries a smaller woman against her will, but it's not hurtful or violent. The amazon would be dominant in a natural way due to her physical strength, so it's a realistic expression of dominance, not just roleplaying with scripts. I like it when it's real (a huge female bouncer effortlessly carries a struggling tiny drunk girl over her shoulder and out of a club, and the liftee can't do a thing about it).

I completely share this opinion!
In addition, the evolution of society has brought about a greater unity between men and women. Just look at what happens in sport, but also in everyday life. There is also a phenomenon of the evolution of the jigs. Many women are now taller and stronger than average men!
BB 126

[zebra]

Originally Posted by BB126

I completely share this opinion!
In addition, the evolution of society has brought about a greater unity between men and women. Just look at what happens in sport, but also in everyday life. There is also a phenomenon of the evolution of the jigs. Many women are now taller and stronger than average men!
BB 126

Most men are still bigger and stronger than most women, and the size gap and the strength gap haven't closed that much. We just see the rule's exceptions in these scenes. There is some proof that younger men now are weaker than younger men in the '80s while younger women now are stronger than younger women in the '80s (performances on hand grip strength tests). The gap narrowed between the sexes, but it was more like an inch than a mile.

[Curt_connor]

I think it's partially domination, as in a liftee is kind of powerless when they are in the air, the lifter can manhandle them. but sometimes the roles are reversed and then it becomes kind of servitude.

[caracal25]

Lifting your partner is not about domination.
When a person is lifted and swung round after winning something or greeting a loved one on meeting, the lifter is not acting dominant or trying to show that they're stronger than you. It's just a reactive happy action. Also carers and nurses of people with physical disabilities often have to manoeuvre or lift them. Lifting a bride over the threshold is traditional and again nothing to do with domination.
Obviously, it is still true that the average man is usually bigger and stronger, but that doesn't in modern thinking mean that he is dominant in the relationship.
I for one, admire a capable woman who is not afraid to show her strength abilities without the need to dominate. The minor percentage of men who enjoy the fetish of lift and carry may enjoy being dominated, but in my case absolutely not. I do not want to dominated or be beaten up or physically harmed in any way.

[zebra]

Of course it's not always domination. Replace "always" with "sometimes", and all people would agree.