Have you ever told/asked a girlfriend to try L&C?
 

Has anyone ever asked or tried to get their girlfriend to do L&C with them? I’ve always wanted to but was too anxious to ask. I’ll get a piggyback ride here and there just playing around but I’ve never asked to do it seriously.

Have you ever told/asked a girlfriend to try L&C?
 

Yes I have. On one occasion I was sitting with my girlfriend around her house and on impulse I lifted her up. I only got her a few inches off the floor and she was laughing about it. I saw an oppurtunity and asked her if she could do any better. She lifted me over her shoulder easily and walked me into the kitchen where her mum was. Her mum thought it hilarious and - believe it or not - then picked me up in a cradle carry. She and my gilrfriend told me that I was as light as a feather. As you may gather,I enjoyed this immensely.

A few years ago but I'll never forget it.

Your girlfriend is/was heavier than you?

Yes. Both she and her mum were both the same height as me (5ft 9.5 inches) but heavier than I was - I'm still the same weight just about. I was/am approx 133 lbs. my girlfriend was about 150 lbs and her mum 168lbs.

I have a BBW friend who is 10 cm taller (168 cm vs 178 cm) and much heavier than me (66 kg vs 80-85 kg). I ask her naturally after 2-3 dates. At the beginning she was a little surprised but she tried and lifted me easily (front lift, fireman, piggyback).

I’ve had a number of lift and carry experiences with ex-girlfriends, and my wonderful current partner. I’ve never talked about specifically having a fetish for lift and carry, but they all quickly realized that I enjoyed by carried by them and we would/do incorporate some L&C into foreplay. It never really extended beyond the bedroom or playful and casual quick lifts out in place like nature trails.

One girl had an affinity for giving me shoulder rides. She liked showing off, and knew I was turned on by the role reversal. I got probably close to 20 nude shoulder rides from her before she said her back hurt one time and I never asked her again for safety concerns. We started doing it from date 1, which was really a big weekend trip we took together. I lifted her like that after a wrestling with her in bed and she took it as a challenge and replicated it. I would eventually start to give her many reverse shoulder rides up against the wall but we were never able to get the balance right when she tried to do it to me.

My current gf will do little piggyback squats with me. She used to CrossFit a lot before medical issues popped up. She’s in the clear now, but wants to get back to being strong again. That also started with me lifting her and her trying to show off by giving me a piggyback ride down a trail. Now we do squats around the house. She started out only being able to do it once and just yesterday did five in a row. Improvement :)

Yes, this is something I've shared with all my recent partners. I still feel a little shy about it, but as far as kinks go this one is pretty sweet and harmless. And really, all sexual partnerships should eventually include a conversation about what specific turn-ons each person has.

So my advice is to definitely share this with your gfs/partners! It's a good sign of a loving relationship when partners want to give pleasure to each other, and if you don't share this information you'll deprive them of that opportunity to really turn you on. Sure, you can probably get some lifts in a more indirect way, and maybe they will intuit that it turns you on, but speaking from experience it's so much better to just be upfront.

My last girlfriend was very happy to lift me, and I think it turned her on too, to use her strength and hold me close. She would often pick me up in a front lift or a cradle and we would make out for a minute or so like this. We even shot a video, and it's incredibly hot to rewatch. Most or none of that would have happened without a direct conversation.

My ex. For better or worse, our relationship was dominated by LNC.

I’ve mentioned before here that she did multiple different lift videos with a random lady I found on a sex services page.

Wish I still had the videos.

When I told my girlfriend about it... She was like, "I don't understand how that's a fetish"... The conversation ended there.

I'm quite lucky to have a very open-minded girlfriend who is arguably more kinky than I am, so the topic came up pretty quickly, and we gave it a shot. Turns out I was less of a fan of it in practice than I am viewing it in media. Something about the third party view is better than the first-hand experience for me!

Actually it was her who started it
 

I think it was the early lockdown period when we started chatting. Both of us became single around the same time (story for another day) since lockdown was not easy on relationships. She is my childhood friend but we never really text eachother, it was either verbal conversations or calls.
But then she texted me on Insta. We started chatting. At first it was just normal discussion like school life was good, your ex was a bitch etc etc, but after 3 months she started flirting. I enjoyed it and flirted back. Flirting turned into teasing and eventually we were roleplaying.
It was new to me and a very different experience compared to my ex.
This girl was kinky as fuck, I was loving how every day I was learning something new from her, it was her naughty side I never knew about.
One day we were discussing fitness which then lead to discussing weight and that when it clicked her.
I told her I was 55 kg and instead of getting insecure like other girls would, she made fun of me saying "I was lighter than the shortest girl in her class. It kinda turned me on and I started sending her blushing emojis to give her sign that I liked her teasing.
It was a turning point in out sexting story. She told me once that she "wanted to be dominated by a bull" and I didn't gave much attention to that topic because this lift and carry fetish made me a submissive boy afterall these years.
So she started exploring the kink of women dominating men and she liked that kink as well. Every now and then she would hint me about "femdom" stuff and I would send her blushing emojis trying to act as if I don't know what she's talking about, and she used to think that she's helping both of us find a new kind.
Finally one fine day she told me "I had a dream where we were playing pillow fight on my bed and I picked you up on my shoulders and slammed you".
(Finally, after 3-4 months of chatting/sexting, i finally made her discuss this.)
Ofcourse I played cool saying she couldn't, girls aren't that strong blah blah blah to tease her
And she told me just to check her strength, that morning she did picked up a 50 kg cement bag ( her house was under renovation those days) and two 5 kg dumbbells (her brother's), total of 60 kg and her quote "it wasn't that hard".
She even sent me a photo of it with smirk face saying " guess who's going over these shoulders next"

Man oh man oh man that was the day I'll never forget, seeing my childhood female friend carrying a 50 kg bag on her left shoulder wrapped around with her left arm and her left hand holding 5 kg dumbbell, while her right hand with the other 5 kg dumbbell.
All that in a feminine attire of a crop top and a skirt exposing her milky white belly and thighs.

Boy I went straight to the bathroom to masterbate, i could literally see myself held helpless over her shoulders, it had been only 2 minute and I received her notification saying "btw that's your whole weight just on my left shoulder, my right hand is free with a complimentary dumbbell"
I read it and busted like never before.

Did u/will u try it in person?
Lockdown is over now

Ya actually we've done that already :lol:
This January only,
She only managed to pick me up in a front lift but it was amazing.
I think our height difference was making it difficult for her she's 5'1 and I'm 5'11, and my weight also increased by 10kg since lockdown,

One thing I realised after this was that my kink is LandC with the humiliation, since
I've now developed a soft spot for her and was worrying about her getting injured instead of enjoying the ride :wub:
She did playfully told me few weeks ago that I should find a taller gym girl to satisfy this fetish and I took it as a permission granted.
Turns out she was joking and we broke up after she caught me chatting with other girls on Insta.:crying:

Wait, talking to other girls on Instagram is considered cheating in this day and age?

I thought man can also have woman friends, like woman can have male friends (of course, talking only, no other benefits)

Correct me if I am wrong and this (talking) is realy something very bad, so I dont make this mistake in the future

I mean ofcourse i wasn't just "talking" to them, more like flirting, but I thought I had permission soooo it's just miscommunication, and probably she's not that mad at me, hope so.

Btw I see you're VIP member (I know it's not the right page but) u got any idea when will I get full access to the forum, does the moderators even manage this place?

They do manage it, but they are busy

Just upload videos, put your request and wait, you will get VIP eventually

I did it few times with different girls. Because I was 55 kg, they carry me easily.

two of them enjoyed carrying me. the first one loved how she feel powerful but the second loved it because she loves to dominant.

I did that with my ex-wife for a long time, and that wasn't the reason we split up :D

I asked my ex when we were still dating. It was the first time I had asked a gf to do so because I’m a bigger guy and she was about my height and thicker. She was able to give me piggyback rides with ease…very big turn on for me. Now my wife is much smaller than me in height and I’m still hefty, so it’s not possible for us now, but maybe one day!