I’ve had a number of lift and carry experiences with ex-girlfriends, and my wonderful current partner. I’ve never talked about specifically having a fetish for lift and carry, but they all quickly realized that I enjoyed by carried by them and we would/do incorporate some L&C into foreplay. It never really extended beyond the bedroom or playful and casual quick lifts out in place like nature trails.
One girl had an affinity for giving me shoulder rides. She liked showing off, and knew I was turned on by the role reversal. I got probably close to 20 nude shoulder rides from her before she said her back hurt one time and I never asked her again for safety concerns. We started doing it from date 1, which was really a big weekend trip we took together. I lifted her like that after a wrestling with her in bed and she took it as a challenge and replicated it. I would eventually start to give her many reverse shoulder rides up against the wall but we were never able to get the balance right when she tried to do it to me.
My current gf will do little piggyback squats with me. She used to CrossFit a lot before medical issues popped up. She’s in the clear now, but wants to get back to being strong again. That also started with me lifting her and her trying to show off by giving me a piggyback ride down a trail. Now we do squats around the house. She started out only being able to do it once and just yesterday did five in a row. Improvement
