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Originally Posted by civelensky
everyone is a different individual.I'm curious about the people I share a fetish with.
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I am by nature an introvert. Growing up, painfully so at times. Yet now in my 50s, I'm not nearly as introverted or self-conscious as I was decades ago.
If I could relive my teenage years, I would have been far more outgoing with women. Oh, the possibilities! There's a reason why they say youth is wasted on the young.
I'm still fundamentally an introvert. But I've gotten close to 200 public lifts over the past few years - precisely because I've been able to act like an extravert.
And I'm not a small man - my weight has ranged between 190 and 245 (American) pounds these past few years.
Only an extravert could induce so many women to lift him.
But let's turn back the clock...
If I could have appeared as an extravert years ago? I'd probably have thousands of lifts by now - and yes, a heck of a lot more sexual encounters.
How many more sexual encounters? I don't know. Possibly scores more.
Yet even as a man in his 50s, my recent-year lifting adventures have landed me dates with young women in their 20s or early 30s.
In one case, an exceptionally attractive young woman, aged 30, whom I dated briefly.
It was never meant to endure. Yet as a man of advancing years, I felt young. And that feeling was precious to me.
Again, youth is wasted on the young.