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Originally Posted by upandaway
well, deep, pent up desires can be very powerful! a great driving force!
seems to me that's the case everywhere, bet it makes lift and carry better though, even more enjoyable and pleasurable!
of course india is very big and diverse, so it's to be expected, i asked about lift and carry at weddings/ceremonies because i've seen many pictures and videos that feature it, it almost looked normal, like a nation wide custom or something; but now i know it's mainly a regional thing, thanks for clearing that up!
are you from one of the lucky regions? can you tell me more about lift and carry customs and traditions there? how long do lifts last at weddings/ceremonies?
in general, indian men do have something going for them, a natural advantage, they're often shorter and very lightweight, in comparison to white men, which makes it easier for indian males to be lifted
as for teasing by women, do you mean in public or private settings? i didn't know about it, i thought that wouldn't happen over there, since india is more conservative and traditional than the west for example
indian men are missing out on lifts, as you confirmed, indian women are always trying to please them, so they should take advantage of that and just allow themselves to be carried, if necessary behind closed doors only, to avoid ridicule and embarrassment
what a missed opportunity! all for ego and old taboos, don't you agree?
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Ok i am not exactly from region where marriage ceremony requires lifting, though in my neighborhood it's more of a uncle carrying niece to wedding pedestal,now I have seen sometimes like just before wedding where niece playfully picked up the uncle where weight difference is substantial.
And even i have seen on the internet how in remote villages it's a normal that sister picks up groom brother while dancing but that's like 1 in a million occurence, considered the population 1.2 billion even that number is huge.
Speaking of missed opportunities you are absolutely correct, so here the due to more consumption of butter and milk based fats, the middle aged female tend to put on more weight and since they do house work a lot they are inherently strong, but then same goes on for guys they also put on a lot of weight, but been picked up by girl will make these guys feel inferior why because as per the majority the guy has to be like the stronger of the two even if he is not. They'll assert dominance on better half but will not yield to any internal desire and that's what even I hate like it's ok to be fragile in behind closed doors, initially I also was like that but this one time when I was pretty young playing hide n seek , a female friend opened my eyes to the world of landc by simply being dominant and thereafter I simply gave in to it. Same I think goes for newer generation, they somehow have started giving in to these desires.