I'm 5'4. Most girls pass me up. I used to not be okay with that, but I am now. If I'm not their type I'm not their type - so be it. I wouldn't want to date an extremely tall woman because I'd feel awkward and everybody would look at me like I'm her little child she's walking - which feels rather embarrassing.
The smaller you are, though, the easier it is for a girl to be willing to fulfill your lift and carry fetish because you're not as heavy.
And really, I've tended to look past the embarrassment of liking this fetish. I used to be afraid of how I'd be looked at by girls given that this is a submissive interest, and guys are supposed to be "strong" and "dominant" in the relationship or at least in the bedroom. But, I realized that everybody likes something strange - no shame for it, and those who try to shame you shouldn't be worth your time if that's how they treat you. You can either try your damndest to hope someone accepts you and feel bad about it if they don't - or you can keep your head high and move on if they're that superficial and judgmental. Guarantee you they're into something weird and just want to look down at someone so they feel slightly better about themselves.
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