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tallgirlfan · June 9th, 2010, 07:47

Unable to find a tall girl? This may be your problem...

I am also around short-average height and i have also sometimes struggled with this dilemma. You have to ask yourself what do you really like? If you like a tall girl just imagine her as a regular size girl and talk to her as such if you want things to get serious. If you only like a tall girl for a fetish then forget it, its better off paying for a L&C session or having a 1 night stand with someone tall.

Many tall women have a hard time finding a good guy they want because most taller good guys go for shorter girls and most shorter guys also go for shorter girls because silly societal "folkways". So most taller women get few the leftovers and constantly get hit on by many creepy guys. If they get hit on constantly by creepy guys isn't it obvious they'll be a tad bit cynical and even suspicious of a shorter guy trying to hit on them? Most shorter guys wont even talk to taller girls. Many taller women go dateless for a long-time and are usually looking a for a decent guy that they can hold on to that is willing to go long-term with them. If a taller woman you like ever goes on a date chances are that she has scoped him out and is looking for a long-term serious relationship.

Much of what the problem is that we sometimes see taller women as a object of our fetish instead of a companion or a friend, its kinda like other guys staring at woman's breasts or ass. Think about it do you really love that girl? or is all you are looking at is her height? Once you answer that question you will truly be ready for a tall girl.

Can you really get serious with that taller girl and not just hump&dump? All that stuff about L&C comes later(if the relationship gets serious)....Are you someone who is intimidated socially and willing to break a passive societal norm? Like me for example, I may also like tall girls because of their height but i also don't want to go with a girl just because of her height and if i did find a tall girl that i love i wouldn't mind holding hands in public, even is she was as tall as Margo Dydek(7 foot 2 inch female basketball player) Its bad enough all her life she constantly been "taller" than others and center of attention. Many tall girls especially get picked on and made fun of because of their height. Now 7 foot tall can be what some consider an "extreme" example but why not? Sometimes you just have to put yourself in that mindset. All i care about is what i like and how i want to live my life and not what others say or think. I wouldn't mind, In fact for me the taller the better. I would love to have a 7 foot tall girl friend with a pretty face and more importantly an awesome personality. Many people want to jump into things they are not necessarily ready for and believe me its much harder than it seems....

June 9th, 2010, 07:47	#9
tallgirlfan STANDARD Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 211 : 0 For This Post 80 Total	Unable to find a tall girl? This may be your problem... I am also around short-average height and i have also sometimes struggled with this dilemma. You have to ask yourself what do you really like? If you like a tall girl just imagine her as a regular size girl and talk to her as such if you want things to get serious. If you only like a tall girl for a fetish then forget it, its better off paying for a L&C session or having a 1 night stand with someone tall. Many tall women have a hard time finding a good guy they want because most taller good guys go for shorter girls and most shorter guys also go for shorter girls because silly societal "folkways". So most taller women get few the leftovers and constantly get hit on by many creepy guys. If they get hit on constantly by creepy guys isn't it obvious they'll be a tad bit cynical and even suspicious of a shorter guy trying to hit on them? Most shorter guys wont even talk to taller girls. Many taller women go dateless for a long-time and are usually looking a for a decent guy that they can hold on to that is willing to go long-term with them. If a taller woman you like ever goes on a date chances are that she has scoped him out and is looking for a long-term serious relationship. Much of what the problem is that we sometimes see taller women as a object of our fetish instead of a companion or a friend, its kinda like other guys staring at woman's breasts or ass. Think about it do you really love that girl? or is all you are looking at is her height? Once you answer that question you will truly be ready for a tall girl. Can you really get serious with that taller girl and not just hump&dump? All that stuff about L&C comes later(if the relationship gets serious)....Are you someone who is intimidated socially and willing to break a passive societal norm? Like me for example, I may also like tall girls because of their height but i also don't want to go with a girl just because of her height and if i did find a tall girl that i love i wouldn't mind holding hands in public, even is she was as tall as Margo Dydek(7 foot 2 inch female basketball player) Its bad enough all her life she constantly been "taller" than others and center of attention. Many tall girls especially get picked on and made fun of because of their height. Now 7 foot tall can be what some consider an "extreme" example but why not? Sometimes you just have to put yourself in that mindset. All i care about is what i like and how i want to live my life and not what others say or think. I wouldn't mind, In fact for me the taller the better. I would love to have a 7 foot tall girl friend with a pretty face and more importantly an awesome personality. Many people want to jump into things they are not necessarily ready for and believe me its much harder than it seems.... Last edited by tallgirlfan; June 9th, 2010 at 08:33.