Well Junkies after my last shift as a temp in one place we went for drinks, this older man who likes Asians (I'm Chinese) spoke to me about things and as he's into eastern culture I told him about the Shaolin monks, their superhuman feats on stage, I told him how one would do a handstand and get struck by another with a stick right in the crotch
Most people would grimace but he said he wished he was there as that kinda stuff is a turn on for him! Well I did reveal to him my fetish at a later point but it got the ball rolling him telling a stranger about his quaint desires.... Generally I don't tell many people and usually not anyone I'm very close to. I know of one girl from an online game that's bisexual and is also into the carry thing would you believe
As for searching for new carry material, I used to do that in a library when I didn't have home internet! Or on other people's computers, a risk as they could find out what I did... Much of my browsing time on this forum in the past was on a public computer, yes I'm naughty! (I favoured computers that had vacant neighbouring PCs of course)