At what age were you into L & C

[lorinsilvia]

I was about 9-11 years old. I remember not being able to stop fantasizing about being carried by strong girls. It never went beyond fantasy though.

[tinkuthewimp]

hi i am into lift and carry since i was 13 ,i saw a picture of a female bodybuilder lifting a guy and thats when my association with lift and carry started

[warthog]

I think I was fascinated with it since a very young age. I recall really liking it when Optimus Prime would overhead lift & toss Megatron in Transformers. That was 3rd grade I think. But I only had it specifically defined when I got my internet connection at 11th grade and there a world of possibilities was opened to me (Diana The Valkyrie, which amazingly still stands).

I don't recall ever being lifted by a girl, unfortunately. I did have a few female "domination" style events. I was really late to grow and was short and scrawny all the way till 7th grade (to my shame even my twin brother outgrew me considerably then). My first memory is losing in armwrestling to some heavyset girl in a birthday party. I lost a couple of times actually... and kids were watching. That was VERY embarrassing.

Most girls at that time were quite taller than me. I had one especially tall friend (her mom once mentioned I looked like a chicken leg next to her...) who later became a bitter enemy of mine due to some envy issues with another girl. For a few years then she would challenge me to fight her or try armwrestling her which of course I declined, and she enjoyed mocking me for it. Once we almost got to really fight (she shoved me, I slapped her face in defense), but fortunately (for me I guess) a teacher was there to end it. When things cooled off between us I agreed to an armwrestling match (the class was empty) and managed a tie. After that I started to grow and the threat was removed... we actually became friends again later. Finally in 3rd grade I got totally humiliated in a 60 meter sprint run by another good friend of mine who was on the athletic team. I even remember the results: she had 9.7sec (no one else got below 10), and me 13 or 12sec... I totally ate her dust. I actually was nervous about both sprints and armwrestling for many years to follow.

I wonder if those events had anything to do with my current love of tall girls and l&c. It's a shame that at the time I never appreciated the sexiness of the situation... I just wanted to save face. Today I wish I could go back in time with my current state of mind to that tall friend of mine, and try to initiate some l&c and lapsitting in a "playful" manner.
That could've been sweet

[dendrin]

Originally Posted by warthog

I think I was fascinated with it since a very young age. I recall really liking it when Oprimus Prime would overhead lift & toss Megatron in Transformers. That was 3rd grade I think. But I only had it specifically defined when I got my internet connection at 11th grade and there a world of possibilities was opened to me (Diana The Valkyrie, which amazingly still stands).
I don't recall ever being lifted by a girl, unfortunately. I did have a few female "domination" style events. I was really late to grow and was short and scrawny all the way till 7th grade (to my shame even my twin brother outgrew me considerably then). My first memory is losing in armwrestling to some heavyset girl in a birthday party. I lost a couple of times actually... and kids were watching. That was VERY embarrassing.
Most girls at that time were quite taller than me. I had one especially tall friend (her mom once mentioned I looked like a chicken leg next to her...) who later became a bitter enemy of mine due to some envy issues with another girl. For a few years then she would challenge me to fight her or try armwrestling her which of course I declined, and she enjoyed mocking me for it. Once we almost got to really fight (she shoved me, I slept her face in defense), but fortunately (for me I guess) a teacher was there to end it. When things cooled off between us I agreed to an armwrestling match (the class was empty) and managed a tie. After that I started to grow and the threat was removed... we actually became friends again later. Finally in 3rd grade I got totally humiliated in a 60 meter sprint run by another good friend of mine who was on the athletic team. I even remember the results: she had 9.7sec (no one else got below 10), and me 13 or 12sec... I totally ate her dust. I actually was nervous about both sprints and armwrestling for many years to follow.
I wonder if those events had anything to do with my current love of tall girls and l&c. It's a shame that at the time I never appreciated the sexiness of the situation... I just wanted to save face. Today I wish I could go back in time with my current state of mind to that tall friend of mine, and try to initiate some l&c and lapsitting in a "playful" manner.
That could've been sweet

Interesting, thanks for sharing.

[The Lifted One]

I'm not really sure. I started really getting excited by it when I was in about the 7th grade, and I've never been the biggest guy (probably 5'7" 135 lbs. around then, compared to 5'8" 155 lbs. during my adult life), so lots of girls and women have actually lifted me. some on their own, some through my manipulations!

I do recall getting a hardon and exploding in my pants when I was lifted once by a bigger girl who made me feel like I was weightless to her while wrestling around. Probably was 14-ish, then. Jerked off many times to the fetish after that!

[ownsville]

Believe it or not, it came to me in a series of dreams...which I won't go into, but suffice to say they involved L&C. I think I was between 10 and 13 at the time, that's when it first...er...had an effect on me. I didn't recognise it as an official turn-on until much later however. Really not until uni that I started to explore it as a fetish - I was one of those upstanding nice (weird?) kids who never looked at porn until then. Uni - ruining the youth of today since 1963.

I often think about where it started and HOW it became a turn on, but the only thing that strikes me is it seems to occur by accident. I mean, a lot of fetishes are later manifestations of childhood experiences that got buried, if you want to get Freudian a lot can be explained by the attitude/behaviour of the mother etc etc. However, I think L&C is more akin to an objectification fetish rather than anything else.

I've heard somewhere that if you experience sexual pleasure consistently in the same circumstances, you start to associate those circumstances with that experience - and eventually, they become a turn-on. So if you are always having sex facing the same painting by Picasso (for example), eventually you start to associate that painting with the act and...well...yeah. Maybe that's garbage, but personally I think L&C started off as what first turned me on.

Come to think of it, I CAN trace instances of L&C back into my childhood. There was a tomboy at school who used to prove her prowess by throwing her weight around and that involved hoisting guys into the air and such. At the time I think I wanted to repeat that activity but didn't recognise why or what it did for me.

[loyd_carr]

i was 5 and a daughter (6 and a bit bigger than me) of family friends just picked me up with no warning and cradle carried me, i dont know how erotic was the expirience but i was amzed by the lenght of the lift, nevertheless, cradle is my least favorite lift though it was my first

[ramonra]

I can recall when I was 6, I was pretty thin and a big girl of my class use to give me piggyback rides. I remember that I really enjoyed those.
Also, at the same age, I was struggling to get some water from some fountain because it was too high for me and suddenly a pretty girl from my class picked me and lifted me a bit to help me reach the water. I felt aroused, somehow.

I moved when I was 8 and all this remained "asleep". The "awakening" was at high school. I was 16 and I had a crush on a girl one year younger. She was really pretty and hot. Although she was petite, she was a sportive girl and very active, so she didn't seem weak (nor strong, of course). She looked a bit like Jessica Alba, not THAT hot but just to see the kind of body she had. We use to hang out with some friends in a mixed group with people from both promos.
One day, we were seeing some school sport competitions and far from where I was I saw a friend of mine standing on the shoulders of someone. When I got there and I saw this girl, I was shocked, aroused and a lot of strange feelings came to me.

Finally I could put some order to that inside my head. A few weeks later, we were at a crowded concert in the street, and she gave another shoulder sit to a skinny and little friend of mine (like 50 kg, or 110 lbs). I thought it was my chance and asked her if he could try that with me. I was already 6.1 feet tall, but thin at that time. She preferred to rest some time before trying... Some minutes after I reminded her and then, it happened. She totally crouched and easily lifted me off the ground, so easily she was really surprised. She danced and bounced with me on her shoulders during almost one entire song, 2 or 3 minutes, before putting me down.
At that time, she was 163 cm tall and (she told me) 49 kg (about 108 lbs). I was 6'1" feet tall and 67 kg (about 147 lbs).

She told me she could handle me for so long (longer than my little friend) because I was more 'comfortable' to carry... I was completely excited, but I wasn't physically aroused at that time.

So everything begun with that girl (who during 2 years after that gave me some other lifts, mainly piggybacks, not very often though, I can recall every one of them...) In the begining, I was only excited about the idea of being lifted by this girl, so I lost many good chances of being carried by other girls at the time (silly me :P)

Now I'm 30, I weight 80 kg (176 lbs), and lifts are becoming rarer and rarer in my life... Last one, late 2008 :S.


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- vk
Often the same scenario :
(1) When child
Memorises but does not undestand.
Notices that it is somehow strange.
Does not share with other children.
(2) When teenager
Inderstands and connexes to standard sex.
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[phoneman]

ramonra, welcome, and thanks for the contribution.

[zero007]

dunno when it began but ever since i was a kid I always enjoyed this... didn't become a sexual thing for me until in my teens
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