Embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than you

Afffenmann · January 2nd, 2025, 19:34

Two day ago at a New years eve party I wanted to mix some cocktails. However I was unable to open one of the bottles. The lid was stuck. I really tried, but I could not open it. I believe my grip strength is above average.

A girl stood nearby and watched me. I've known her for a while. She is slim, athletic and pretty, but not muscular. I'm both taller and heavier than her.
She then offered without any irony in her voice "Should I do it?"
I said "yes, please" and gave her the bottle, not expecting her to be successful.
Then she just twisted the lid and opened the bottle seemingly without any effort at all and gave it back to me.
I just said thanks and mixed the cocktails not commenting on it. We both acted like this was normal.

The cool part was not, that she was able to open the bottle, but the way she offered to do it, like there was no doubt in her mind that she would be able to do so, even after seeing me fail.

I told her boyfriend about it and he just said "yeah, I know. happened to me, too"

Error900 · January 11th, 2025, 10:19

Despite not being a small guy, I always have been physically weak. One day at highschool a female classmate, who wasn't big or thick at all, was jokingly stopping me from going somewhere, by staying on my way and pushing me back. It was quite embarassing that I couldn't move her away at all, to the point I gave up on going where I wanted to not make it explicit that I couldn't physically win her. Now I can't tell if it happened because I wasn't trying enough, but it still shocked me and made me suspect that the average female of my age could be slightly stronger than me.

January 2nd, 2025, 19:34	#1
Afffenmann STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 178 : 5 For This Post 630 Total	Two day ago at a New years eve party I wanted to mix some cocktails. However I was unable to open one of the bottles. The lid was stuck. I really tried, but I could not open it. I believe my grip strength is above average. A girl stood nearby and watched me. I've known her for a while. She is slim, athletic and pretty, but not muscular. I'm both taller and heavier than her. She then offered without any irony in her voice "Should I do it?" I said "yes, please" and gave her the bottle, not expecting her to be successful. Then she just twisted the lid and opened the bottle seemingly without any effort at all and gave it back to me. I just said thanks and mixed the cocktails not commenting on it. We both acted like this was normal. The cool part was not, that she was able to open the bottle, but the way she offered to do it, like there was no doubt in her mind that she would be able to do so, even after seeing me fail. I told her boyfriend about it and he just said "yeah, I know. happened to me, too" Last edited by Afffenmann; January 2nd, 2025 at 20:10.

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January 11th, 2025, 10:19	#2
Error900 Account Disabled by Request Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Italy Posts: 149 : 3 For This Post 111 Total	Despite not being a small guy, I always have been physically weak. One day at highschool a female classmate, who wasn't big or thick at all, was jokingly stopping me from going somewhere, by staying on my way and pushing me back. It was quite embarassing that I couldn't move her away at all, to the point I gave up on going where I wanted to not make it explicit that I couldn't physically win her. Now I can't tell if it happened because I wasn't trying enough, but it still shocked me and made me suspect that the average female of my age could be slightly stronger than me.