Have you ever talked about your fetish to a loved one?

[ramygenad]

Yes, and she was like " i will never be with someone like u" and our relationship is over

[upandaway]

Originally Posted by ramygenad

Yes, and she was like " i will never be with someone like u" and our relationship is over

that sucks man! sorry to hear that, you should try being more clever about it in the future, make it into a fun challenge or game, let her competitive side come out and lead the way, so to speak; don't be completely honest at first, that way you won't put them off by coming on too strong

[lapsitting2020]

Originally Posted by ramygenad

Yes, and she was like " i will never be with someone like u" and our relationship is over

That's really sad but totally expected. I think the problem is that while there is an emphasis on "gender equality" in society, for most people there's still no recognition that many men also want to be loved in affectionate/nurturing ways. Men don't always want to be the
I think there is now some acceptance for men wanting to be the little spoon or being held etc. Hopefully, someday the lift and carry idea will become pretty mainstream.

Until then, I do think it's important to find a woman who is kind-hearted and nurturing. Many women just want to make their man happy, and it's also an ego thing. My wife, for instance, had no idea about this when we met, but she is totally into lifting me now and holding me in her lap too. It's a pride thing for her too. Flattering for her to feel that I shared this secret with her, and that I get so turned on when she holds me like that.