Is L&C more important to you than sex?

[TheWolfe]

We're nearly all guys here and guys all seem to have a thirst for conquest. The common scenario is that a guy wants to have a long list of sexual conquests. Personally, I don't care about that. The first thing I think about upon spotting an attractive woman is what it would feel like to scoop her up into a cradle. It practically replaces sex for me. Don't get me wrong. I still enjoy sex but my thirst for conquest is satisfied by L&C.

Regardless of your "orientation" as lifter or liftee, can anyone relate?

BTW, some advantages are:
1. You can't get an STD.
2. It's easier to score.
3. It's not officially considered cheating.

[Mark G]

We're nearly all guys here and guys all seem to have a thirst for conquest. The common scenario is that a guy wants to have a long list of sexual conquests. Personally, I don't care about that. The first thing I think about upon spotting an attractive woman is what it would feel like to scoop her up into a cradle. It practically replaces sex for me. Don't get me wrong. I still enjoy sex but my thirst for conquest is satisfied by L&C.

Regardless of your "orientation" as lifter or liftee, can anyone relate?

BTW, some advantages are:
1. You can't get an STD.
2. It's easier to score.
3. It's not officially considered cheating.

True what you say,but when it comes to L & C I prefer to be the lifted rather than the lifter.

[LilMatty]

I am asexual. I have no interest in sex... Meaning my fetishes are more important than sex..

[mebalshaw]

Looks like I'm the odd one out with you lot, sex has always been the most important thing for me. My interest in L & C tends to vary from reasonably keen to not very important, but my interest in sex has never varied (ask my wife :))

[mansell3000]

Go to the Mistress Taylor and Caty's World Clips4sale studios and you can see how to enjoy both at the same time!!

[TheWolfe]

I've always had a strong interest in sex. I just find that I fantasize more about L&C acts than sex acts. I'd also find watching L&C more enjoyable than watching porn (though porn with L&C rules!).

I find it really easy to be monogamous with sex so it stays a close, personal thing between me and my wife but I have a desire to spread my lifting seed far and wide that's very hard to control. It only replaces sex for me in that context. But I'm definitely not asexual. It's just sort of an extension of sex for me.

[clark246]

It's a wonderful prelude to sex. It's also satisfying if there's no sex afterward. The joy of fulfilling the lift and carry fantasy has it's own rewards. Sex without it is still great, but for me lacks the magic of combining the two. That is some cause of concern for me, if I think too much about it.

[Vodevil]

At the moment, yes.

[ericfabre]

It's a wonderful prelude to sex. It's also satisfying if there's no sex afterward. The joy of fulfilling the lift and carry fantasy has it's own rewards. Sex without it is still great, but for me lacks the magic of combining the two. That is some cause of concern for me, if I think too much about it.

Agreed. I am of the same opinion.

[pumpkin]

not completely but more so

[preacher860]

That's quite a good question...

As some other people here, combining l&c and sex really does it for me. Sometimes during sex I ask my gf to stand, with her arms on the bed, and let me hop on her back, then I have her slowly squat me up and down. She's really good at it and can do it for a few minutes, enough for me to get really hard on her back. While up there, I finger her until she comes and I really enjoy hearing her grunting under me, both from effort and pleasure.

Once, I had a gf that could hold me in a front piggy while I was in her. For this to work, she had to spread her legs like this: one on the ground, and one on a chair. She would then bounce me up and down while I was inside her, in a 1-and-a-half legged squat, kinda. She was a tall girl with very strong legs, but even then the effort was intense for her. Fortunately, it was so good for me that I came relatively fast, while she still could squat. What was hot is that she came with me while holding my weight. She once told me that even if doing this was very hard, she enjoyed the complex feeling of coming while performing and intense physical effort.

I enjoy sex without l&c, but when it's involved, it just gets better. And even when not directly involved, I sometimes imagine myself riding on a girl during sex.

I also enjoy l&c without sex. Often when I meet a woman I find attractive, my first thought is "I wonder how long she could carry me". And if it ever happens, it satisfies me almost as much as sex would. More sometimes, depends on the situation.

A few years ago, I dated a girl for about a year and for the first time in my life, I was with someone that didn't want to hear about my fetish. I repeatedly insisted that it was important to me and that she could at least try to give me a piggyback, but she refused every time. Eventually, we parted, for several reasons. But her refusal to even try to let me hop on her back was one of the reasons: it's something I needed. It sucks because I've seen her carry heavy objects quite a few times, and she was really strong considering her tiny size. She could have done it, I'm sure!

When I was a teenager, most of my wet dreams involved me riding on a girl's back. Not much of them were about actual sex. Always around the lines of me convincing a girl to let me hop on her back, then her carrying me around for a while. When it became hard for her to handle my weight on her and she started panting and struggling, I came in my sleep.