What do you think about lap sitting?

[Syo Kirishima]

Not very related to L&C, but i see it as something similar. It's also a sort of kink, but not much as frequent, unless i'm mistaken.

Sitting on a girl's lap just feels so good, i myself feel like i'm safe into her hug while sitting on her knees, it's just cute to me for some reason, i don't know why. Plus, it's not as strength demanding as L&C is, from my experiences in High School, i was able to get laps from girls quite frequently, some of them actually offered it to me.
Even so, there is also the lap pillow, if my partner don't agree much, which is a good alternative to me and much more convenient for her, and it's just as cute as a lap sit.

What do you think about this in general? Would you like to sit on a woman's lap or is that too childish/cringe for you? I see that as a cute role reversal and also as a way of demonstrating love for each other.

[TheWolfe]

I'm not so much a lapsitting fan but my favorite thing is viewing intimate F/F cradle lifts. When a lapsit has a cradle lift position with the bottom girl's arm holding under the top girl's legs, that's almost as appealing to me as a cradle lift. It can convey the exact same intimacy.

As far as participating, I'm not a liftee so likewise I don't sit on laps. I do enjoy holding girls on my lap though, especially in that cradle position, which is also my favorite lift to perform.

So even though I come from the opposite perspective, I agree there's a similarity in the appeal. :thumbup1:

[5supermb]

Yeah lift & carry and lap-sitting are definitely linked, that's why we have separate threads specifically for lap-sitting in different parts of this forum.

I both love and hate lap-sits at the same time, like TheWolfe said above me, having a girl sat in another girls lap but in the cradle position is a very big turn on:tt1:

Unfortunately however, my problem with lap-sits is that most of the time they never seem to lead to a lift, like, 'C'MON YOU HAVE A GIRL SAT ON YOUR DAMN LAP JUST SCOOP THEM UP AND CRADLE THEM GOD DAMMIT':thumbdown:

but yes, if the lap-sit leads to a cradle lift then it is the best thing ever:wub:

[Syo Kirishima]

Yeah lift & carry and lap-sitting are definitely linked, that's why we have separate threads specifically for lap-sitting in different parts of this forum.

I both love and hate lap-sits at the same time, like TheWolfe said above me, having a girl sat in another girls lap but in the cradle position is a very big turn on:tt1:

Unfortunately however, my problem with lap-sits is that most of the time they never seem to lead to a lift, like, 'C'MON YOU HAVE A GIRL SAT ON YOUR DAMN LAP JUST SCOOP THEM UP AND CRADLE THEM GOD DAMMIT':thumbdown:

but yes, if the lap-sit leads to a cradle lift then it is the best thing ever:wub:

How did I not think about that, a.a

That kind of transition would be very nice to happen one day, but it's very unlikely in my opinion since the girls I've sat haven't cradled me, but either way, it could be very fun too :lol:

[Jase]

Hi Syo, I've been lucky enough to have enjoyed a lap sit which turned into a cradle - it was definitely an experience I won't forget.

[uplifted0]

Hey Jase, that sounds amazing! Any more to the story?

[Jase]

It was with a friend I used to work out with on occasion and she always enjoyed various one to one challenges - I'm a lot bigger than her and on this particular occasion she had been practicing a wall sit which she enjoyed doing - on completion she let me sit on her lap as we talked and afterwards lifted me in a cradle before setting me back down - goes without saying I loved it!

[Observer]

I only tried yesterday as part of an attempted cradle lift. Unfortunately she was wearing her bra (my present) and I couldn't access her D cup breasts. If she comes over my place again I would ask for a second round.

[AllStarGangsta]

I kind of enjoy seeing it. There are some Japanese tendon clips where she has a guy on her lap(almost laid across), and she is forcing his face into her breasts. It?s pretty amazing.

[Mac3]

I enjoy watching girls sitting on girls laps. I would love to have a woman sit on my lap for long periods of time, the comfort level appeals to me

[Hidddman]

I wouldn?t mind sitting on a girl?s lap, but I wouldn?t exactly find it as arousing as L&C, since it?s hardly an indicator of a girl?s strength.

[Jase]

I wouldn?t mind sitting on a girl?s lap, but I wouldn?t exactly find it as arousing as L&C, since it?s hardly an indicator of a girl?s strength.

I think it can be. My friend used to like the wall sit exercise and could manage it with me sat on her lap and on one occasion lifted me in a cradle after.

[Tomek321]

I would like to sit on woman's lap.

I was sitting on my cousin's lap for a long time (half an hour at least) until it started to hurt her ofc.

[thugrex]

I love all the lifting positions

[Ukeboy]

Not very related to L&C, but i see it as something similar. It's also a sort of kink, but not much as frequent, unless i'm mistaken.
I agree. Whether cradled in her arms while being carried or while sitting in her lap, it is the same dynamic of being cared for. It is probably far more common than you think.

[aaltra]

I agree it could be a test for girl strengh. I love especially to sit on thick and muscular laps. The size difference between my thin legs and her big ones is quite arousing for me. When it happends, I put my arms around girl neck and raise my knee, and sometime she answers by putting an arm in my back and the other under my knee. It happends once and I told her "Do you dare to carry me to the bedroom ?". She did it with ease as it was really a big girl. I would say the most difficult part is to get on her knees. Once you are on, the probability to get lifted is quite high !

[Muscle_Chick_Fan]

Not very related to L&C, but i see it as something similar. It's also a sort of kink, but not much as frequent, unless i'm mistaken.

Sitting on a girl's lap just feels so good, i myself feel like i'm safe into her hug while sitting on her knees, it's just cute to me for some reason, i don't know why. Plus, it's not as strength demanding as L&C is, from my experiences in High School, i was able to get laps from girls quite frequently, some of them actually offered it to me.
Even so, there is also the lap pillow, if my partner don't agree much, which is a good alternative to me and much more convenient for her, and it's just as cute as a lap sit.

What do you think about this in general? Would you like to sit on a woman's lap or is that too childish/cringe for you? I see that as a cute role reversal and also as a way of demonstrating love for each other.

Thanks for bringing this up! I've been wanting to sit on a woman's lap for decades, just like I've been wanting to be lifted and carried by one. The only women whose laps that I ever sat on are my grandmothers', my mother's - and possibly some of my aunts' - I don't remember. Anyway, there was a European Internet site called Lapland.de, but it has been taken down and is now only on the Internet archives. (I loved that site!) I admit though, there isn't much out relating to male-on-female lapsitting other than this blog (http://LapSitter.BlogSpot.com) right here. I'm still looking to find a fit chick who doesn't mind having a 280-pound sitting in her lap. (Chances are, I will probably never find one. :() Anyway, how has your searches been recently?


I kind of enjoy seeing it. There are some Japanese tendon clips where she has a guy on her lap(almost laid across), and she is forcing his face into her breasts. It’s pretty amazing.

Hey, AllStarGangsta, where on the Internet can I find some of these Japanese tendon (video)clips?

[Tomek321]

well, women have bigger thighs than their counterparts.

it would make more sense if men sit on women's lap ;)

[phoneman]

[QUOTE=Muscle_Chick_Fan;215395]Thanks for bringing this up! I've been wanting to sit on a woman's lap for decades, just like I've been wanting to be lifted and carried by one. The only women whose laps that I ever sat on are my grandmothers', my mother's - and possibly some of my aunts' - I don't remember. Anyway, there was a European Internet site called Lapland.de, but it has been taken down and is now only on the Internet archives. (I loved that site!) I admit though, there isn't much out relating to male-on-female lapsitting other than this blog (http://LapSitter.BlogSpot.com) right here. I'm still looking to find a fit chick who doesn't mind having a 280-pound sitting in her lap. (Chances are, I will probably never find one. :() Anyway, how has your searches been recently?

lapland.de belonged to our dear friend, Hajo. Actually Tragmich knew Hajo quite well and I also knew him and communicated with him online with some frequency. He was one of the originals in L&C on videotapes and the internet. Sadly Hajo passed away a number of years ago.

[jfiochetti2001]

I agree. Whether cradled in her arms while being carried or while sitting in her lap, it is the same dynamic of being cared for. It is probably far more common than you think.
Il y a une quinzaine d'ann?e j'ai eu la chance de rencontrer ? plusieurs reprises une jeune fille dans un club de danseuses qui ?tait tr?s jolie et tr?s en forme qui me demandais de m’asseoir sur ses genoux et elle portait un bras sous mes genoux et l'autre bras en arri?re de mon dos et ensuite elle se levait pour me porter en berceau . Elle pouvait me garder dans ses bras pendant trois minutes. Je la voyais environ deux fois par mois et cela a durer environ 8 ans.

[francois314159]

I still remember what happened to me very long ago when I was a child (7 y.):
I was then in a ski resort for a week with my family and I met at our hotel a little girl of my age whom I soon became a friend with and we skied together every day.

On the last day of the week she gave me a farewell kiss on the mouth: it was a big surprise as I did not understand matters of life at that time....Not long after this first incident, when I was passing in front of her as she sat in the living room, she suddenly grabbed me around my waist and forced me on her lap. I struggled to free myself from this humiliating situation but with no result, as she was strong in spite of her rather small size compared to me, and she had wrapped her arms very tightly around me.

Since that time I have a strong interest for lapsitting...