Watching L&C with girlfriend - any experiences
 

My girlfriend asked me a few days ago if I wanted to watch porn together. She was curious about the sort of porn I watch. I was tempted to show her some lift and carry videos, but chickened out. She knows I'm into fm lift and carry a bit but I'm not sure how she'd react to the videos, having shown no interest in L&C when I've brought it up before. We've been going out a long time so I don't want to mess this up, as it could be a way of introducing L&C into foreplay. Like I said she's shown no/little interest in L&C when I've mentioned it, so it would never become a big thing, but I'd be happy with a little. I'm also into mixed wrestling and mild domination, so perhaps those might be things I could show her instead.

If any of you have experience of watching L&C with your girlfriend I wouldn't mind some advice, or even just to hear your experiences or opinions. Thanks in advance.

Hmm....
 

You know, I'm not really sure?

My ex-wife was completely cool with the idea of watching porn together ... even encouraged it a bit (where for me, it was still a little awkward because I wasn't quite sure just how "ok" she'd be with things if she could tell I found someone especially attractive). BUT, L&C related material or muscular females at all were kind of off-limits. That's because she was pretty strong/muscular herself and we did lots of L&C play already. I think she drew a line there, that it was a fetish interest we were supposed to just share together.

From your g/f's standpoint though? It probably depends a lot on WHY she wants to watch porn with you. Is it because she's kind of into it too (like she'd watch the stuff even by herself), or is it really only because she wants to get you excited by it? If there aspects of it she finds arousing or at least interesting/entertaining, then she might not like L&C related material a bit because it's not "up her alley". If it's all about what turns you on though -- I don't see why it should be a problem.

Hi thanks for your reply. Sorry I left it a bit before replying myself. I wanted to see if I got any more responses. I think my girlfriend asked on a whim more than anything. Like I said, she knows I'm into it, but it's not really her thing. I guess my worry is if she thought I was getting off more from the women involved than the act (it's both of course). She hasn't asked since. I'm not sure if I'll show her if she asks again. It might be worth getting a list of tame videos together incase. I generally prefer the more playful stuff anyway eg. Lusacorp.

What I'd do if I were you is find a mainstream porn that has L&C that you like in it and start by watching that together. If you spring something too fetishy on her with low production values it might turn her off. Most girls think the amateur look of typical fetish videos looks creepy. If you show her something that looks good and is closer to what most people picture when they think "porn," she'll be less shocked by it and, if you point out the L&C and tell her how much it turns you on and you'd like to try it, maybe see it as something that fits into her repertoire.

I have no experience with my gf. However, one of my aunt lifts me like a child. She is so strong.

Show her
 

Might be too late for the guy who posted this to see but to anyone else who sees SHOW HER.

I showed it to my GF and shes into it. Thought she wouldn't be but she was afraid I would be into far stranger things so she was actually relieved.

Outlaw,

According from your e-mail adress you are in Indianapolis.
But where is your girl friend?

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My favourite site to listen music is Youtube.
Youtube is a place where you find every sort of music.
No discussions, just the music.

As for L&C.
Youtube and Yahoo display many L&C videos.
So where is a niche for our L&C forum?

Most probably :
- Pictures
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- Our discussions since they are unique achievements :)

At this time we are only 1.000 persons in the word, mostly men.
We have no direct competitor.
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Another way to get your gf into watching L&C is to not present it as a fetish at first but as something in other mainstream videos that turns you on. If she reacts positively then you can look for similar stuff together with L&C as a fetish category.

According to Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, a fetish is a disease.
However we are not ill so we don't need doctors.

I would rather say that L&C is a minor sexual orientation.
The major orientation is to make babies.

In italian fetishes are called "fantasia erotica".
Just a game but exciting.

That's what I said. Two votes. ;)

The above is an interesting take on the word 'fetish.' Below is the meaning of this word as it is commonly used today.

"By the early 20th century, fetish took on yet another meaning quite distinct from its antecedents: a sexualized desire for an object (such as a shoe) or for a body part that is not directly related to the reproductive act (such as an earlobe)."

Using this meaning, I think we agree on what L&C is :)

Now about L&C

A L&C action occurs whenever a person A carries a person B in a way where B does not touch the soil.
By extension there could be more persons in A and in B.

An elephant cannot carry another elephant because it is too heavy.
On the opposite an ant can carry a lot of ants for instance staying on a twig.
However God decided that an human can carry decently another human.

Note that performances of ants, humans and elephants are different because :
> energy increases as a square.
> weight increases like a cube.



Here God makes a joke to us humans because
if a girl 1m60 carries a boy 1m75 she will carry
13,06% more than her weight, not 10,93% since it is a cube.

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Surprisingly the fetish for L&C is not an object, it is a position in the air.
No device like a shoe.
Also no intention to harm, unlike sadism ou masochism.

I think that a guy who wants domination plus riding on the girl has two fetishes, not one.
I can perform L&C without explicit domination.
However if I a am taller than the girl, I will not "regret" that I am a little bit heavy for her.

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I think debating the use of the term fetish is unhelpful. Regardless of semantic arguments, it is a fetish in most people's opinion, and that forms part of the problem. It is viewed as strange or unusual by a lot of people, hence why it has to be approached in certain ways rather than just dumped on them.

It's not even a fetish in the strictest definition of the word. It would be only if you would need it in order to have a "relationship" with someone. You couldn't function or perform without it. Of course, it's listed as a fetish ("weird" turn-on) in the common use of the word.

Are you taking the piss?:D

Transit
 

I did talk about it with a girl who I used to have kind of relationship, I told her "I want to meke a video with you, another will carry you". She said it would be ok, she would like it, but she would rather have me to L/C her. but we have never gone further on my idea. Another time, when I was drunk, don?t kwon way.. talk about L/C with a girl that meet that night, she was kind of suprised to know there was something like that on line, but she was more curious overall, about men?s motivation to L/C. Ex girlfriend told me she had good memories being L/C by her babysitter, I asked if, in her mid twenties, she would like to be L&C again, she said yes, but not for someone else?s entertainment (looking at me in a funny way) just for fun... she denied more details... My point is. Depends on girl?s background. some will understand why is exciting but others won?t.

That's most women. They find it creepy if you want to watch them in an act with someone else. If it's their idea to do it to get your attention, they're fine with it but if you say "Do this with her so I can watch you too together" they usually don't like it. The best way I've found is to be a participant yourself. Pick up your girlfriend and pass her off to a female friend or vice versa. Then it becomes participatory fun and less voyeuristic. But that's F/F....

Chatting
 

Once I was chatting my gf and I told her to let me sleep in her lap while walking , she misunderstood me and carried me in her lap instead with great joy. (This was all imagination in chat not real as she is not strong enough)

I believe that you have made this same post in more than one thread. If I am correct, please do not do that.

This is the wrong place for you to speak about a man carrying a woman. There are a couple of threads for that, but is not the subject of this board.

And F/F is a subject of this forum.

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