Watching L&C with girlfriend - any experiences

nostrength · May 5th, 2015, 06:37

My girlfriend asked me a few days ago if I wanted to watch porn together. She was curious about the sort of porn I watch. I was tempted to show her some lift and carry videos, but chickened out. She knows I'm into fm lift and carry a bit but I'm not sure how she'd react to the videos, having shown no interest in L&C when I've brought it up before. We've been going out a long time so I don't want to mess this up, as it could be a way of introducing L&C into foreplay. Like I said she's shown no/little interest in L&C when I've mentioned it, so it would never become a big thing, but I'd be happy with a little. I'm also into mixed wrestling and mild domination, so perhaps those might be things I could show her instead.

If any of you have experience of watching L&C with your girlfriend I wouldn't mind some advice, or even just to hear your experiences or opinions. Thanks in advance.

tjw1971 · May 8th, 2015, 14:56

You know, I'm not really sure?

My ex-wife was completely cool with the idea of watching porn together ... even encouraged it a bit (where for me, it was still a little awkward because I wasn't quite sure just how "ok" she'd be with things if she could tell I found someone especially attractive). BUT, L&C related material or muscular females at all were kind of off-limits. That's because she was pretty strong/muscular herself and we did lots of L&C play already. I think she drew a line there, that it was a fetish interest we were supposed to just share together.

From your g/f's standpoint though? It probably depends a lot on WHY she wants to watch porn with you. Is it because she's kind of into it too (like she'd watch the stuff even by herself), or is it really only because she wants to get you excited by it? If there aspects of it she finds arousing or at least interesting/entertaining, then she might not like L&C related material a bit because it's not "up her alley". If it's all about what turns you on though -- I don't see why it should be a problem.

nostrength · May 21st, 2015, 17:58

Hi thanks for your reply. Sorry I left it a bit before replying myself. I wanted to see if I got any more responses. I think my girlfriend asked on a whim more than anything. Like I said, she knows I'm into it, but it's not really her thing. I guess my worry is if she thought I was getting off more from the women involved than the act (it's both of course). She hasn't asked since. I'm not sure if I'll show her if she asks again. It might be worth getting a list of tame videos together incase. I generally prefer the more playful stuff anyway eg. Lusacorp.

TheWolfe · May 24th, 2015, 14:56

What I'd do if I were you is find a mainstream porn that has L&C that you like in it and start by watching that together. If you spring something too fetishy on her with low production values it might turn her off. Most girls think the amateur look of typical fetish videos looks creepy. If you show her something that looks good and is closer to what most people picture when they think "porn," she'll be less shocked by it and, if you point out the L&C and tell her how much it turns you on and you'd like to try it, maybe see it as something that fits into her repertoire.

pyro · December 22nd, 2018, 15:33

I have no experience with my gf. However, one of my aunt lifts me like a child. She is so strong.

outlawcm · December 27th, 2018, 03:24

Might be too late for the guy who posted this to see but to anyone else who sees SHOW HER.

I showed it to my GF and shes into it. Thought she wouldn't be but she was afraid I would be into far stranger things so she was actually relieved.

vk · December 27th, 2018, 11:26

Outlaw,

According from your e-mail adress you are in Indianapolis.
But where is your girl friend?

vk

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Hi all,
Apart L&C I am also interested in music.
My favourite site to listen music is Youtube.
Youtube is a place where you find every sort of music.
No discussions, just the music.

As for L&C.
Youtube and Yahoo display many L&C videos.
So where is a niche for our L&C forum?

Most probably :
- Pictures
- Videos which are in our VIP sections
- Our discussions since they are unique achievements

At this time we are only 1.000 persons in the word, mostly men.
We have no direct competitor.
So we have only one site. Better not scatter.

===
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jads · December 28th, 2018, 17:17

Another way to get your gf into watching L&C is to not present it as a fetish at first but as something in other mainstream videos that turns you on. If she reacts positively then you can look for similar stuff together with L&C as a fetish category.

vk · December 28th, 2018, 18:59

According to Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, a fetish is a disease.
However we are not ill so we don't need doctors.

I would rather say that L&C is a minor sexual orientation.
The major orientation is to make babies.

In italian fetishes are called "fantasia erotica".
Just a game but exciting.

TheWolfe · December 31st, 2018, 08:58

Quote:

Originally Posted by jads

Another way to get your gf into watching L&C is to not present it as a fetish at first but as something in other mainstream videos that turns you on. If she reacts positively then you can look for similar stuff together with L&C as a fetish category.

That's what I said. Two votes.

May 5th, 2015, 06:37	#1
nostrength VIP Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 62 : 0 For This Post 90 Total	Watching L&C with girlfriend - any experiences My girlfriend asked me a few days ago if I wanted to watch porn together. She was curious about the sort of porn I watch. I was tempted to show her some lift and carry videos, but chickened out. She knows I'm into fm lift and carry a bit but I'm not sure how she'd react to the videos, having shown no interest in L&C when I've brought it up before. We've been going out a long time so I don't want to mess this up, as it could be a way of introducing L&C into foreplay. Like I said she's shown no/little interest in L&C when I've mentioned it, so it would never become a big thing, but I'd be happy with a little. I'm also into mixed wrestling and mild domination, so perhaps those might be things I could show her instead. If any of you have experience of watching L&C with your girlfriend I wouldn't mind some advice, or even just to hear your experiences or opinions. Thanks in advance.

May 8th, 2015, 14:56	#2
tjw1971 VIP Honored Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 259 : 1 For This Post 466 Total	Hmm.... You know, I'm not really sure? My ex-wife was completely cool with the idea of watching porn together ... even encouraged it a bit (where for me, it was still a little awkward because I wasn't quite sure just how "ok" she'd be with things if she could tell I found someone especially attractive). BUT, L&C related material or muscular females at all were kind of off-limits. That's because she was pretty strong/muscular herself and we did lots of L&C play already. I think she drew a line there, that it was a fetish interest we were supposed to just share together. From your g/f's standpoint though? It probably depends a lot on WHY she wants to watch porn with you. Is it because she's kind of into it too (like she'd watch the stuff even by herself), or is it really only because she wants to get you excited by it? If there aspects of it she finds arousing or at least interesting/entertaining, then she might not like L&C related material a bit because it's not "up her alley". If it's all about what turns you on though -- I don't see why it should be a problem.

December 27th, 2018, 03:24	#6
outlawcm STANDARD Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 7 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	Show her Might be too late for the guy who posted this to see but to anyone else who sees SHOW HER. I showed it to my GF and shes into it. Thought she wouldn't be but she was afraid I would be into far stranger things so she was actually relieved.

May 21st, 2015, 17:58	#3
nostrength VIP Join Date: Sep 2011 Posts: 62 : 0 For This Post 90 Total	Hi thanks for your reply. Sorry I left it a bit before replying myself. I wanted to see if I got any more responses. I think my girlfriend asked on a whim more than anything. Like I said, she knows I'm into it, but it's not really her thing. I guess my worry is if she thought I was getting off more from the women involved than the act (it's both of course). She hasn't asked since. I'm not sure if I'll show her if she asks again. It might be worth getting a list of tame videos together incase. I generally prefer the more playful stuff anyway eg. Lusacorp.

May 24th, 2015, 14:56	#4
TheWolfe VIPOS Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: USA Posts: 1,588 : 0 For This Post 3,209 Total	What I'd do if I were you is find a mainstream porn that has L&C that you like in it and start by watching that together. If you spring something too fetishy on her with low production values it might turn her off. Most girls think the amateur look of typical fetish videos looks creepy. If you show her something that looks good and is closer to what most people picture when they think "porn," she'll be less shocked by it and, if you point out the L&C and tell her how much it turns you on and you'd like to try it, maybe see it as something that fits into her repertoire.

December 22nd, 2018, 15:33	#5
pyro STANDARD Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 49 : 0 For This Post 4 Total	I have no experience with my gf. However, one of my aunt lifts me like a child. She is so strong.

December 27th, 2018, 11:26	#7
vk Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 626 : 0 For This Post 139 Total	Outlaw, According from your e-mail adress you are in Indianapolis. But where is your girl friend? vk === Hi all, Apart L&C I am also interested in music. My favourite site to listen music is Youtube. Youtube is a place where you find every sort of music. No discussions, just the music. As for L&C. Youtube and Yahoo display many L&C videos. So where is a niche for our L&C forum? Most probably : - Pictures - Videos which are in our VIP sections - Our discussions since they are unique achievements At this time we are only 1.000 persons in the word, mostly men. We have no direct competitor. So we have only one site. Better not scatter. === highest recent number of users : 44

December 28th, 2018, 17:17	#8
jads STANDARD Join Date: Dec 2018 Posts: 16 : 1 For This Post 110 Total	Another way to get your gf into watching L&C is to not present it as a fetish at first but as something in other mainstream videos that turns you on. If she reacts positively then you can look for similar stuff together with L&C as a fetish category.

December 28th, 2018, 18:59	#9
vk Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 626 : 0 For This Post 139 Total	According to Freud, the father of psychoanalysis, a fetish is a disease. However we are not ill so we don't need doctors. I would rather say that L&C is a minor sexual orientation. The major orientation is to make babies. In italian fetishes are called "fantasia erotica". Just a game but exciting.