Is it always more fun with someone who isn't your gf/wife?

[lapsitting2020]

My wife is amazing. I love her and she gives me wonderful lifts and lapsitting.

But the other day one of my old friends front lifted me for fun (she used to do that in the past too) and I almost ejaculated. I feel guilty about that, but I also feel that lift and carry is usually more exciting when someone who isn't your wife or long term gf does it. There's something about the surprise, suspense, forbidden fruit perhaps? Can anyone relate to what I'm saying? Or am I just a bad husband?

[RobinTheRider]

I feel like there's just something to be said about familiarity and the things that you have more access to beginning to feel dull. I feel like for most things there can be a lot more general excitement for newer or uncommon experiences. Granted, for me that wouldn't always make it better overall.

I feel like there are multiple other aspects about the way I'm lifted and my relationship with the lifter that can matter just as much. And if these things can consistently be in a good spot it will be easier to maintain a high level of enjoyment with the same person.