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					Originally Posted by  toadpimp
					 
				 
				I have analysed it at several levels, and even suspect I know how it all began (3rd grade, I picked up a girl I liked when another guy dared me... she moved away later and I never forgot her!). My conclusion has always been that I need to exercise self-control. Perhaps this is an addiction? Or is it a part of what makes me? 
			
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 I say it could go either way.  If it starts to negatively affect your life, then I say it would be an addiction.
For me, I'm not depressed about it.  The only thing I get depressed about at times is that I really have not had many lifts, but I am not depressed about having it as a fetish.  At times I used to always wonder "why me"?  Other times I thought that it would eventually go away, but every time I tried to shut it out, it always came back.  Guess I've just accepted it.