Why this happens ?

rickishi · June 6th, 2009, 02:08

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Originally Posted by agentdowell

Are you kidding me?

I guess you might come to the same opinion once any girl in your life will show her true face to you

agentdowell · June 6th, 2009, 22:52

Hey man, I've been burned plenty in my life. But that's no reason to prejudge people you've never met before. That's just shortsighted.

phoneman · June 7th, 2009, 01:43

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Originally Posted by agentdowell

Hey man, I've been burned plenty in my life. But that's no reason to prejudge people you've never met before. That's just shortsighted.

You are absolutely right, agentdowell.

Hey, it may be easier to get a physically unattractive woman. And she may be an absolutely wonderful person, which is great.

That does not mean that attractive women can not also be great people.

My wife was considered to be pretty good looking when we met and we are still married after nearly 40 years. (Of course now she is a bit older)

phoneman · June 7th, 2009, 01:44

rickishi, I am sorry that you were so badly disappointed or badly treated, but do not let it embitter you. That is not good for you.

rickishi · June 7th, 2009, 05:52

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Originally Posted by phoneman

rickishi, I am sorry that you were so badly disappointed or badly treated, but do not let it embitter you. That is not good for you.

I know that friends , But somehow all the girls who came across me till now in life turned out be a selfish arrogant bitches. and I am convinced that whoever comes in future will be of the same type too

so this prejudice acts as a defense mechanism for sensitive guys like me , besides the girls around me deserve it anyways

I might be wrong that only beautiful girls are ugly from Inside , Infact many ugly looking girls are twice ugly from inside too !!!

believe it or not , I have such girls around me here !!!

agentdowell · June 7th, 2009, 07:56

Listen bud, I'm not gonna pretend to know your story but consider this: if you go through a lot of different relationships and they all end the same way, you have to think about the common factor --> YOU. If you're having trouble and 'ALL' the girls you know are 'selfish arrogant bitches' maybe, just MAYbe, the problem is with you and you're projecting it onto others.

I'm phrasing this in a non offensive agreeable manner. I hope you get the picture.

rickishi · June 14th, 2009, 03:15

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Originally Posted by agentdowell

Listen bud, I'm not gonna pretend to know your story but consider this: if you go through a lot of different relationships and they all end the same way, you have to think about the common factor --> YOU. If you're having trouble and 'ALL' the girls you know are 'selfish arrogant bitches' maybe, just MAYbe, the problem is with you and you're projecting it onto others.

I'm phrasing this in a non offensive agreeable manner. I hope you get the picture.

Of course , I agree you are 100 % right , you are right and I am wrong

As I mentioned all these thoughts are an envelop of arrogance to my keep my sensitive mind protected from being hurt.

But still it does not mean only I am at fault, girls have fallen to bigger jerks. looking at them I became like this , you wont believe I used to respect girls a lot earlier and would even think wrong to think like that about girls

but after being treated like dirt by almost all girls in life , I realized that they dont deserve respect, and after changing my thinking , I am actually more happy. dont get me wrong , I am not talking only about love here , most of the time I just expect girls to be good friends

Dombazz · June 14th, 2009, 10:24

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Originally Posted by rickishi

I guess almost all girls in the world are like that , the more good looking a girl is , the more ugly she will be from inside

That's soo sad...and soo wrong

Ofcourse good looking girls tend to be more outgoing and also having a good confidence, but they aren't all rude.
Just like less attractive girls are having a lack of self-confidence and tending to be a bit more shy, it doesn't necessarily have to be so.

rickishi · June 14th, 2009, 11:12

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Originally Posted by Dombazz

That's soo sad...and soo wrong

Ofcourse good looking girls tend to be more outgoing and also having a good confidence, but they aren't all rude.
Just like less attractive girls are having a lack of self-confidence and tending to be a bit more shy, it doesn't necessarily have to be so.

Nice to know you have such girls around, even I am looking for someone to prove me wrong too , but sadly they only prove it right again and again

I guess it is best for guys like us who only get selfish females in life to develop a huge ego so that you dont lose self-respect , and also show the women their place

agentdowell · June 15th, 2009, 07:53

You're only hurting yourself.

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June 6th, 2009, 22:52	#2
agentdowell STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 129 : 0 For This Post 5 Total	Hey man, I've been burned plenty in my life. But that's no reason to prejudge people you've never met before. That's just shortsighted.

June 7th, 2009, 01:44	#4
phoneman Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,716 : 0 For This Post 3,104 Total	rickishi, I am sorry that you were so badly disappointed or badly treated, but do not let it embitter you. That is not good for you.

June 7th, 2009, 07:56	#6
agentdowell STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 129 : 0 For This Post 5 Total	Listen bud, I'm not gonna pretend to know your story but consider this: if you go through a lot of different relationships and they all end the same way, you have to think about the common factor --> YOU. If you're having trouble and 'ALL' the girls you know are 'selfish arrogant bitches' maybe, just MAYbe, the problem is with you and you're projecting it onto others. I'm phrasing this in a non offensive agreeable manner. I hope you get the picture.

June 15th, 2009, 07:53	#10
agentdowell STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 129 : 0 For This Post 5 Total	You're only hurting yourself.