Why this happens ?

[phoneman]

rickishi, I am sorry that you were so badly disappointed or badly treated, but do not let it embitter you. That is not good for you.

[rickishi]

Originally Posted by phoneman

rickishi, I am sorry that you were so badly disappointed or badly treated, but do not let it embitter you. That is not good for you.

I know that friends , But somehow all the girls who came across me till now in life turned out be a selfish arrogant bitches. and I am convinced that whoever comes in future will be of the same type too

so this prejudice acts as a defense mechanism for sensitive guys like me , besides the girls around me deserve it anyways

I might be wrong that only beautiful girls are ugly from Inside , Infact many ugly looking girls are twice ugly from inside too !!!

believe it or not , I have such girls around me here !!!

[agentdowell]

Listen bud, I'm not gonna pretend to know your story but consider this: if you go through a lot of different relationships and they all end the same way, you have to think about the common factor --> YOU. If you're having trouble and 'ALL' the girls you know are 'selfish arrogant bitches' maybe, just MAYbe, the problem is with you and you're projecting it onto others.

I'm phrasing this in a non offensive agreeable manner. I hope you get the picture.

[rickishi]

Originally Posted by agentdowell

Listen bud, I'm not gonna pretend to know your story but consider this: if you go through a lot of different relationships and they all end the same way, you have to think about the common factor --> YOU. If you're having trouble and 'ALL' the girls you know are 'selfish arrogant bitches' maybe, just MAYbe, the problem is with you and you're projecting it onto others.

I'm phrasing this in a non offensive agreeable manner. I hope you get the picture.

Of course , I agree you are 100 % right , you are right and I am wrong

As I mentioned all these thoughts are an envelop of arrogance to my keep my sensitive mind protected from being hurt.

But still it does not mean only I am at fault, girls have fallen to bigger jerks. looking at them I became like this , you wont believe I used to respect girls a lot earlier and would even think wrong to think like that about girls

but after being treated like dirt by almost all girls in life , I realized that they dont deserve respect, and after changing my thinking , I am actually more happy. dont get me wrong , I am not talking only about love here , most of the time I just expect girls to be good friends

[tallgirlfan]

Originally Posted by rickishi

Of course
but after being treated like dirt by almost all girls in life , I realized that they dont deserve respect, and after changing my thinking , I am actually more happy. dont get me wrong , I am not talking only about love here , most of the time I just expect girls to be good friends

I know this might be late but ....I feel your pain man something similar happened to me because i was too nice to girls and they would walk all over me. Its sad that manytimes others seem to maybe view your kindness as "CHEESY" I got the wrong message from girls all my life after they started liking me when i was a jerk really.