How to date a tall chick

dendrin · December 14th, 2009, 23:22

Quote:

Originally Posted by rickishi

Girls are all the same dude , you just either need to be

1. Good looking

2. The one who can stuff her already big ego

3. Rich

4. Stimulate her sexually

you have any other ways , then forget it

And would you like a girl if she didn't have any of those qualities herself? I think not

rickishi · December 16th, 2009, 13:55

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Originally Posted by dendrin

And would you like a girl if she didn't have any of those qualities herself? I think not

Exactly , and if you try to work around with some other things , it is bound to fail

mark.johnson21 · May 8th, 2010, 04:51

I have to agree with Susannah as I can see her entire point from the perspective of being a 5'4 man, and I think there is a certain similarity between short men and tall women in that they're not common. And she's especially right that height doesn't matter in bed.

If a girl wants to hit on me, reminding me that I'm short is the first thing that'll turn me off (unless she's telling me she finds short guys attractive). No short man likes being reminded that he looks less manly than most others. It's hard enough that everybody seems to looks down at you constantly - and because you're small, they treat you with less respect because they don't fear you (not to mention, if you're short most girls don't find you attractive).

In contrast, the same is probably true for tall women. They realize that most guys don't want to date someone taller - just as most women don't want to date guys who are shorter. The former because it's intimidating, and the latter because women typically want to look up to their man instead of down at him - might have something to do with the whole "being protected" thing.

I definitely understand the intimidation in men dating taller women - mostly that you're constantly being looked down at, and secondly that no matter where you go, everybody who looks at you instantly makes both of you feel awkward. You feel like everybody is talking about you behind your back all the time.

While tall girls are inherently not my type, I have gone after a few. I met the girls while sitting down and just getting to know them socially. When you're sitting down, you're at eye level which gets rid of the height problem - good tip to remember, don't you think?

As most girls claim that personality is the main thing - if you charm her while sitting down, she's likely not going to care how tall you are when you stand up. And if she does care, then no matter what, you had no chance to begin with, so move on instead of moping that another girl rejected you.

I think confidence is just showing the girl you're not afraid of her in the slightest - not afraid of rejection, not afraid of not meeting her expectations, and not afraid of her height. If you can acquire that attitude (getting laid will do that), then theoretically you should be good. Even if you get rejected, confidence makes you not even care usually.

phoneman · May 8th, 2010, 18:41

About a thousand years ago - say 1966 or 1967 - I dated a slightly taller girl in college. I was about 5'8" and she was 5'10", or a little bit more.

She was drop dead beautiful. Great face, perfect body, etc. No, I have no clue why she went out with me, except that she was nuts. When we walked into a place with a bunch of college guys, every eyeball in the place immediately fixated on her.

I also think that she was very strong, but never found out. She once told me that she could take any guy her size. Unless she was a martial arts expert, she wsa telling me that she was very strong. Of course, in those days, no guy would ask a girl to pick him up. I did not push the conversation, big mistake, and that was the only time it came up.

She definitely viewed me as a friend, not a serious romantic interest. While we were still "dating", she asked me if I could fix her up with a guy that I knew who was a 6'8" starter on the basketball team.

Clearly she wanted to date a guy much larger than she was.

Slevin · May 25th, 2010, 00:44

Ok, so taller chicks.

Some of you people who are 5'6" or 5'4" really have kind of an advantage over the taller folks, and what I mean is that a tall woman will seem more like a giant to you then say someone of average height,.

I will use me, since I am quite average at about 5'9" (69 inches ). Comparing a 6'0 (72 inch) female with a 5'4" (64 inch male), using simple math, I can show how tall of a girl I would need to have that same affect.
72/64 x 69 = 77.6 inches.... So I would need a 6'5" or 6'6" female to feel dwarfed to the same affect as a 5'4" would feel by a 6'0". And I am sure I could find girls that tall, but..

...we know there are quite a bit of 6'4" girls out there, so this is what I would need to feel like a 5'4" guy against her:
76/64 x 69 = 81.9 inches....So I would need a female who is 6'10" to feel the same, which you probably will never encounter a girl that tall, and if you do, what are the chances of her looking half-way attractive?

Finally, ever see the vid of the midget wrestling with Mile High? I don't know how tall he is, but for kicks, let's be generous and say he is about 4'0" (and she is 6'3" i believe??)
75/48 x 69 = 107.8 inches...So I would need a 9'0" female...totally impossible, but it is possible when you are a midget and you have many 6'3" girls to choose from to feel like you are being dominated by a 9'0" giant female.

So although being short has many disadvantages, it does have it's perks. I'm into l/c from many types of women, and sometimes I enjoy a taller woman doing it, so if I could wrestle with a 9'0" hot chick, I would probably enjoy that.

(I filled it in, so don't sweat it phoneman)

phoneman · May 25th, 2010, 02:04

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Originally Posted by Slevin

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(to be filled in later)

johnp · May 29th, 2010, 10:16

Some years ago I had the opportunity to go out with a taller girl and I blew it.

When I was at University, I got a summer job at a horticultural research centre. When I was introduced to the staff I would be working with, the only one in my age group was a female trainee biologist. I was 5ft 7ins tall and quite slim at that time. She was about 2ins taller than me and looked fit and strong. (I discovered later that she was a competitive swimmer). I found her very attractive, but felt a bit intimidated by her, so I kept my distance.

However every time our paths crossed, she seemed very keen to chat to me. Then one day she saw me struggling to move some heavy boxes and helped me out. The fact that she was obviously stronger than me turned me on even more. We then started sitting together at meal breaks and we got on really well. However I assumed she was just being friendly and I did not risk making any advances.

One evening a few of us went for a drink after work. She stayed on with me after the others left, and with the looks she gave me and the hints she made, it appeared that she wanted to go out with me. Then a few days later she said she wanted to ask me something. We went somewhere private and she asked me if I would like to go with her to a dinner and dance. My initial feeling of excitement was immediately followed by a feeling of dread as I conjured up a picture of her in high heels towering over me and people staring at us. I panicked and made a bumbling excuse saying I could not make it. I could see straight away that she was hurt and embarrassed by my reaction.

After that she stayed away from me for the rest of the time I worked there. I kept trying to find the right moment to ask her out for a drink to mend our friendship and try to take our relationship forward. But due to a lack of courage and a lingering fear of being embarrassed to be seen by my mates and family with a taller girlfriend, I never got round to it.

Years later I still reget it, because I would loved to have had a physical relationship with her!

tallgirlfan · June 15th, 2010, 09:12

Quote:

Originally Posted by phoneman

About a thousand years ago - say 1966 or 1967 - I dated a slightly taller girl in college. I was about 5'8" and she was 5'10", or a little bit more.
No, I have no clue why she went out with me, except that she was nuts.
She definitely viewed me as a friend, not a serious romantic interest. While we were still "dating", she asked me if I could fix her up with a guy that I knew who was a 6'8" starter on the basketball team.

Clearly she wanted to date a guy much larger than she was.

I feel for you man. Putting these events together, it seems she may not have been interested in the start. She may have wanted to use you to get that taller guy. Sometimes you can meet women like that and they are not worth your time. However, If you showed any sort of nervousness around her because she was taller or mentioned her height she may have picked that up and been turned off by it.

mansell3000 · June 18th, 2010, 19:59

I once had a 2 year relationship with a girl who was exactly the same height as my 5ft 7ins. She was into tennis and swimming. and had broad shoulders, strong arms and legs. After we had been going out for a few months we were invited to a formal dinner and dance, and we had to get dressed up. When I went to collect her she had no shoes on and was wearing a revealing dress which showed off her powerful build.

She then stepped into a pair of high heels which made her 2-3 inches taller than me. She found this amusing and came up to me and said "Hi shorty". This made me feel slightly intimidated but highly aroused. I put my arms round her neck to kiss her. She was again amused that that I had to go on tip toes for our lips to meet. She then made my day by lifting me in a front straddle for a long and passionate kiss.

After that I loved it every time she wore high heels, because I always got the lift and kiss.

phoneman · June 19th, 2010, 00:45

Quote:

Originally Posted by tallgirlfan

I feel for you man. Putting these events together, it seems she may not have been interested in the start. She may have wanted to use you to get that taller guy. Sometimes you can meet women like that and they are not worth your time. However, If you showed any sort of nervousness around her because she was taller or mentioned her height she may have picked that up and been turned off by it.

No, I was not nervous in the slightest. Honestly I did not even mind that she was nuts. I had a good time, it was fun while it lasted and I had no long term intentions with her. If she used me to meet some other guy, I used her because she was so damn beautiful. Seems like a fair deal to me.

He I was an average horny 20 year old college student hanging out with a drop dead hot 19 or 20 year old girl. Totally reasonable to me.

She was also definitely the best looking woman that I ever dated.

May 25th, 2010, 00:44	#5
Slevin VIP Honored Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: The United States of America Posts: 618 : 0 For This Post 580 Total	Ok, so taller chicks. Some of you people who are 5'6" or 5'4" really have kind of an advantage over the taller folks, and what I mean is that a tall woman will seem more like a giant to you then say someone of average height,. I will use me, since I am quite average at about 5'9" (69 inches ). Comparing a 6'0 (72 inch) female with a 5'4" (64 inch male), using simple math, I can show how tall of a girl I would need to have that same affect. 72/64 x 69 = 77.6 inches.... So I would need a 6'5" or 6'6" female to feel dwarfed to the same affect as a 5'4" would feel by a 6'0". And I am sure I could find girls that tall, but.. ...we know there are quite a bit of 6'4" girls out there, so this is what I would need to feel like a 5'4" guy against her: 76/64 x 69 = 81.9 inches....So I would need a female who is 6'10" to feel the same, which you probably will never encounter a girl that tall, and if you do, what are the chances of her looking half-way attractive? Finally, ever see the vid of the midget wrestling with Mile High? I don't know how tall he is, but for kicks, let's be generous and say he is about 4'0" (and she is 6'3" i believe??) 75/48 x 69 = 107.8 inches...So I would need a 9'0" female...totally impossible, but it is possible when you are a midget and you have many 6'3" girls to choose from to feel like you are being dominated by a 9'0" giant female. So although being short has many disadvantages, it does have it's perks. I'm into l/c from many types of women, and sometimes I enjoy a taller woman doing it, so if I could wrestle with a 9'0" hot chick, I would probably enjoy that. *(I filled it in, so don't sweat it phoneman)* Last edited by Slevin; May 25th, 2010 at 17:24.

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May 8th, 2010, 04:51	#3
mark.johnson21 VIP Honored Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 323 : 0 For This Post 162 Total	I have to agree with Susannah as I can see her entire point from the perspective of being a 5'4 man, and I think there is a certain similarity between short men and tall women in that they're not common. And she's especially right that height doesn't matter in bed. If a girl wants to hit on me, reminding me that I'm short is the first thing that'll turn me off (unless she's telling me she finds short guys attractive). No short man likes being reminded that he looks less manly than most others. It's hard enough that everybody seems to looks down at you constantly - and because you're small, they treat you with less respect because they don't fear you (not to mention, if you're short most girls don't find you attractive). In contrast, the same is probably true for tall women. They realize that most guys don't want to date someone taller - just as most women don't want to date guys who are shorter. The former because it's intimidating, and the latter because women typically want to look up to their man instead of down at him - might have something to do with the whole "being protected" thing. I definitely understand the intimidation in men dating taller women - mostly that you're constantly being looked down at, and secondly that no matter where you go, everybody who looks at you instantly makes both of you feel awkward. You feel like everybody is talking about you behind your back all the time. While tall girls are inherently not my type, I have gone after a few. I met the girls while sitting down and just getting to know them socially. When you're sitting down, you're at eye level which gets rid of the height problem - good tip to remember, don't you think? As most girls claim that personality is the main thing - if you charm her while sitting down, she's likely not going to care how tall you are when you stand up. And if she does care, then no matter what, you had no chance to begin with, so move on instead of moping that another girl rejected you. I think confidence is just showing the girl you're not afraid of her in the slightest - not afraid of rejection, not afraid of not meeting her expectations, and not afraid of her height. If you can acquire that attitude (getting laid will do that), then theoretically you should be good. Even if you get rejected, confidence makes you not even care usually.

May 8th, 2010, 18:41	#4
phoneman Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,716 : 0 For This Post 3,100 Total	About a thousand years ago - say 1966 or 1967 - I dated a slightly taller girl in college. I was about 5'8" and she was 5'10", or a little bit more. She was drop dead beautiful. Great face, perfect body, etc. No, I have no clue why she went out with me, except that she was nuts. When we walked into a place with a bunch of college guys, every eyeball in the place immediately fixated on her. I also think that she was very strong, but never found out. She once told me that she could take any guy her size. Unless she was a martial arts expert, she wsa telling me that she was very strong. Of course, in those days, no guy would ask a girl to pick him up. I did not push the conversation, big mistake, and that was the only time it came up. She definitely viewed me as a friend, not a serious romantic interest. While we were still "dating", she asked me if I could fix her up with a guy that I knew who was a 6'8" starter on the basketball team. Clearly she wanted to date a guy much larger than she was.

May 29th, 2010, 10:16	#7
johnp STANDARD Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 18 : 0 For This Post 17 Total	Some years ago I had the opportunity to go out with a taller girl and I blew it. When I was at University, I got a summer job at a horticultural research centre. When I was introduced to the staff I would be working with, the only one in my age group was a female trainee biologist. I was 5ft 7ins tall and quite slim at that time. She was about 2ins taller than me and looked fit and strong. (I discovered later that she was a competitive swimmer). I found her very attractive, but felt a bit intimidated by her, so I kept my distance. However every time our paths crossed, she seemed very keen to chat to me. Then one day she saw me struggling to move some heavy boxes and helped me out. The fact that she was obviously stronger than me turned me on even more. We then started sitting together at meal breaks and we got on really well. However I assumed she was just being friendly and I did not risk making any advances. One evening a few of us went for a drink after work. She stayed on with me after the others left, and with the looks she gave me and the hints she made, it appeared that she wanted to go out with me. Then a few days later she said she wanted to ask me something. We went somewhere private and she asked me if I would like to go with her to a dinner and dance. My initial feeling of excitement was immediately followed by a feeling of dread as I conjured up a picture of her in high heels towering over me and people staring at us. I panicked and made a bumbling excuse saying I could not make it. I could see straight away that she was hurt and embarrassed by my reaction. After that she stayed away from me for the rest of the time I worked there. I kept trying to find the right moment to ask her out for a drink to mend our friendship and try to take our relationship forward. But due to a lack of courage and a lingering fear of being embarrassed to be seen by my mates and family with a taller girlfriend, I never got round to it. Years later I still reget it, because I would loved to have had a physical relationship with her!

June 18th, 2010, 19:59	#9
mansell3000 STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 40 : 0 For This Post 16 Total	I once had a 2 year relationship with a girl who was exactly the same height as my 5ft 7ins. She was into tennis and swimming. and had broad shoulders, strong arms and legs. After we had been going out for a few months we were invited to a formal dinner and dance, and we had to get dressed up. When I went to collect her she had no shoes on and was wearing a revealing dress which showed off her powerful build. She then stepped into a pair of high heels which made her 2-3 inches taller than me. She found this amusing and came up to me and said "Hi shorty". This made me feel slightly intimidated but highly aroused. I put my arms round her neck to kiss her. She was again amused that that I had to go on tip toes for our lips to meet. She then made my day by lifting me in a front straddle for a long and passionate kiss. After that I loved it every time she wore high heels, because I always got the lift and kiss.