How to date a tall chick

Vodevil · October 1st, 2009, 19:39

Why its such a big deal if the girl is taller than me? I just can?t understand it.

phoneman · October 2nd, 2009, 00:35

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Originally Posted by Vodevil

Why its such a big deal if the girl is taller than me? I just can?t understand it.

That is exactly the point of what the woman wrote. She says that it should not be a big deal, but it often is. She agrees with you

tallgirlfan · December 14th, 2009, 08:15

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Originally Posted by Vodevil

Why its such a big deal if the girl is taller than me? I just can?t understand it.

Of course i would think the same but it really depends on how you feel and how the other person feels about their "height" the funny thing is there should be more taller girls going out with shorter guys(who don't care about how tall she is) since most tall guys go out with girls shorter that them.

rickishi · December 14th, 2009, 13:52

Girls are all the same dude , you just either need to be

1. Good looking

2. The one who can stuff her already big ego

3. Rich

4. Stimulate her sexually

you have any other ways , then forget it

The Lifted One · December 14th, 2009, 16:41

hahaha...as if it's that easy!

At least she's looking at the positives and trying to be encouraging, but most girls, the vast majority, do not want a guy that's shorter than they are.

dendrin · December 14th, 2009, 23:22

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Originally Posted by rickishi

Girls are all the same dude , you just either need to be

1. Good looking

2. The one who can stuff her already big ego

3. Rich

4. Stimulate her sexually

you have any other ways , then forget it

And would you like a girl if she didn't have any of those qualities herself? I think not

rickishi · December 16th, 2009, 13:55

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Originally Posted by dendrin

And would you like a girl if she didn't have any of those qualities herself? I think not

Exactly , and if you try to work around with some other things , it is bound to fail

mark.johnson21 · May 8th, 2010, 04:51

I have to agree with Susannah as I can see her entire point from the perspective of being a 5'4 man, and I think there is a certain similarity between short men and tall women in that they're not common. And she's especially right that height doesn't matter in bed.

If a girl wants to hit on me, reminding me that I'm short is the first thing that'll turn me off (unless she's telling me she finds short guys attractive). No short man likes being reminded that he looks less manly than most others. It's hard enough that everybody seems to looks down at you constantly - and because you're small, they treat you with less respect because they don't fear you (not to mention, if you're short most girls don't find you attractive).

In contrast, the same is probably true for tall women. They realize that most guys don't want to date someone taller - just as most women don't want to date guys who are shorter. The former because it's intimidating, and the latter because women typically want to look up to their man instead of down at him - might have something to do with the whole "being protected" thing.

I definitely understand the intimidation in men dating taller women - mostly that you're constantly being looked down at, and secondly that no matter where you go, everybody who looks at you instantly makes both of you feel awkward. You feel like everybody is talking about you behind your back all the time.

While tall girls are inherently not my type, I have gone after a few. I met the girls while sitting down and just getting to know them socially. When you're sitting down, you're at eye level which gets rid of the height problem - good tip to remember, don't you think?

As most girls claim that personality is the main thing - if you charm her while sitting down, she's likely not going to care how tall you are when you stand up. And if she does care, then no matter what, you had no chance to begin with, so move on instead of moping that another girl rejected you.

I think confidence is just showing the girl you're not afraid of her in the slightest - not afraid of rejection, not afraid of not meeting her expectations, and not afraid of her height. If you can acquire that attitude (getting laid will do that), then theoretically you should be good. Even if you get rejected, confidence makes you not even care usually.

phoneman · May 8th, 2010, 18:41

About a thousand years ago - say 1966 or 1967 - I dated a slightly taller girl in college. I was about 5'8" and she was 5'10", or a little bit more.

She was drop dead beautiful. Great face, perfect body, etc. No, I have no clue why she went out with me, except that she was nuts. When we walked into a place with a bunch of college guys, every eyeball in the place immediately fixated on her.

I also think that she was very strong, but never found out. She once told me that she could take any guy her size. Unless she was a martial arts expert, she wsa telling me that she was very strong. Of course, in those days, no guy would ask a girl to pick him up. I did not push the conversation, big mistake, and that was the only time it came up.

She definitely viewed me as a friend, not a serious romantic interest. While we were still "dating", she asked me if I could fix her up with a guy that I knew who was a 6'8" starter on the basketball team.

Clearly she wanted to date a guy much larger than she was.

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The Lifted One STANDARD Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 58 : 0 For This Post 7 Total	hahaha...as if it's that easy! At least she's looking at the positives and trying to be encouraging, but most girls, the vast majority, do not want a guy that's shorter than they are.

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mark.johnson21 VIP Honored Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 325 : 0 For This Post 164 Total	I have to agree with Susannah as I can see her entire point from the perspective of being a 5'4 man, and I think there is a certain similarity between short men and tall women in that they're not common. And she's especially right that height doesn't matter in bed. If a girl wants to hit on me, reminding me that I'm short is the first thing that'll turn me off (unless she's telling me she finds short guys attractive). No short man likes being reminded that he looks less manly than most others. It's hard enough that everybody seems to looks down at you constantly - and because you're small, they treat you with less respect because they don't fear you (not to mention, if you're short most girls don't find you attractive). In contrast, the same is probably true for tall women. They realize that most guys don't want to date someone taller - just as most women don't want to date guys who are shorter. The former because it's intimidating, and the latter because women typically want to look up to their man instead of down at him - might have something to do with the whole "being protected" thing. I definitely understand the intimidation in men dating taller women - mostly that you're constantly being looked down at, and secondly that no matter where you go, everybody who looks at you instantly makes both of you feel awkward. You feel like everybody is talking about you behind your back all the time. While tall girls are inherently not my type, I have gone after a few. I met the girls while sitting down and just getting to know them socially. When you're sitting down, you're at eye level which gets rid of the height problem - good tip to remember, don't you think? As most girls claim that personality is the main thing - if you charm her while sitting down, she's likely not going to care how tall you are when you stand up. And if she does care, then no matter what, you had no chance to begin with, so move on instead of moping that another girl rejected you. I think confidence is just showing the girl you're not afraid of her in the slightest - not afraid of rejection, not afraid of not meeting her expectations, and not afraid of her height. If you can acquire that attitude (getting laid will do that), then theoretically you should be good. Even if you get rejected, confidence makes you not even care usually.

May 8th, 2010, 18:41	#9
phoneman Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 2,716 : 0 For This Post 3,100 Total	About a thousand years ago - say 1966 or 1967 - I dated a slightly taller girl in college. I was about 5'8" and she was 5'10", or a little bit more. She was drop dead beautiful. Great face, perfect body, etc. No, I have no clue why she went out with me, except that she was nuts. When we walked into a place with a bunch of college guys, every eyeball in the place immediately fixated on her. I also think that she was very strong, but never found out. She once told me that she could take any guy her size. Unless she was a martial arts expert, she wsa telling me that she was very strong. Of course, in those days, no guy would ask a girl to pick him up. I did not push the conversation, big mistake, and that was the only time it came up. She definitely viewed me as a friend, not a serious romantic interest. While we were still "dating", she asked me if I could fix her up with a guy that I knew who was a 6'8" starter on the basketball team. Clearly she wanted to date a guy much larger than she was.