In which countries lift and carry is most popular?

[Curt_connor]

Originally Posted by upandaway

fully agree, all that just makes it better!

isn't lift and carry more openly and widely practiced there? for example, isn't it traditionally done at weddings with the bride carrying the groom, particularly on her hip? in addition, aren't indian women constantly trying to please the men no matter what?

Actually quite the opposite, Indian men have deep desires but societal taboo prevents them from releasing it and these pent up desires is the reason why porn or adult scene with lift and carry are so highly consumed here.
The YouTube videos are basically like fan services and very few places have some marriage traditions where mother/sister lifts groom.
Yes Indian women do try to please but then men and the masculine ego prevents them to be like this as well as considering women might make fun of them later is also one point
It's primarily all this pent up desire

[upandaway]

Originally Posted by Curt_connor

Actually quite the opposite, Indian men have deep desires but societal taboo prevents them from releasing it and these pent up desires is the reason why porn or adult scene with lift and carry are so highly consumed here.
The YouTube videos are basically like fan services and very few places have some marriage traditions where mother/sister lifts groom.
Yes Indian women do try to please but then men and the masculine ego prevents them to be like this as well as considering women might make fun of them later is also one point
It's primarily all this pent up desire

well, deep, pent up desires can be very powerful! a great driving force!

seems to me that's the case everywhere, bet it makes lift and carry better though, even more enjoyable and pleasurable!

of course india is very big and diverse, so it's to be expected, i asked about lift and carry at weddings/ceremonies because i've seen many pictures and videos that feature it, it almost looked normal, like a nation wide custom or something; but now i know it's mainly a regional thing, thanks for clearing that up!

are you from one of the lucky regions? can you tell me more about lift and carry customs and traditions there? how long do lifts last at weddings/ceremonies?

in general, indian men do have something going for them, a natural advantage, they're often shorter and very lightweight, in comparison to white men, which makes it easier for indian males to be lifted

as for teasing by women, do you mean in public or private settings? i didn't know about it, i thought that wouldn't happen over there, since india is more conservative and traditional than the west for example

indian men are missing out on lifts, as you confirmed, indian women are always trying to please them, so they should take advantage of that and just allow themselves to be carried, if necessary behind closed doors only, to avoid ridicule and embarrassment

what a missed opportunity! all for ego and old taboos, don't you agree?

[Curt_connor]

Originally Posted by upandaway

well, deep, pent up desires can be very powerful! a great driving force!

seems to me that's the case everywhere, bet it makes lift and carry better though, even more enjoyable and pleasurable!

of course india is very big and diverse, so it's to be expected, i asked about lift and carry at weddings/ceremonies because i've seen many pictures and videos that feature it, it almost looked normal, like a nation wide custom or something; but now i know it's mainly a regional thing, thanks for clearing that up!

are you from one of the lucky regions? can you tell me more about lift and carry customs and traditions there? how long do lifts last at weddings/ceremonies?

in general, indian men do have something going for them, a natural advantage, they're often shorter and very lightweight, in comparison to white men, which makes it easier for indian males to be lifted

as for teasing by women, do you mean in public or private settings? i didn't know about it, i thought that wouldn't happen over there, since india is more conservative and traditional than the west for example

indian men are missing out on lifts, as you confirmed, indian women are always trying to please them, so they should take advantage of that and just allow themselves to be carried, if necessary behind closed doors only, to avoid ridicule and embarrassment

what a missed opportunity! all for ego and old taboos, don't you agree?

Ok i am not exactly from region where marriage ceremony requires lifting, though in my neighborhood it's more of a uncle carrying niece to wedding pedestal,now I have seen sometimes like just before wedding where niece playfully picked up the uncle where weight difference is substantial.

And even i have seen on the internet how in remote villages it's a normal that sister picks up groom brother while dancing but that's like 1 in a million occurence, considered the population 1.2 billion even that number is huge.

Speaking of missed opportunities you are absolutely correct, so here the due to more consumption of butter and milk based fats, the middle aged female tend to put on more weight and since they do house work a lot they are inherently strong, but then same goes on for guys they also put on a lot of weight, but been picked up by girl will make these guys feel inferior why because as per the majority the guy has to be like the stronger of the two even if he is not. They'll assert dominance on better half but will not yield to any internal desire and that's what even I hate like it's ok to be fragile in behind closed doors, initially I also was like that but this one time when I was pretty young playing hide n seek , a female friend opened my eyes to the world of landc by simply being dominant and thereafter I simply gave in to it. Same I think goes for newer generation, they somehow have started giving in to these desires.

[zebra]

Originally Posted by Curt_connor

Actually quite the opposite, Indian men have deep desires but societal taboo prevents them from releasing it and these pent up desires is the reason why porn or adult scene with lift and carry are so highly consumed here.
The YouTube videos are basically like fan services and very few places have some marriage traditions where mother/sister lifts groom.
Yes Indian women do try to please but then men and the masculine ego prevents them to be like this as well as considering women might make fun of them later is also one point
It's primarily all this pent up desire

I was like that in my youth. I thought that it wasn't macho or manly for boys to be lifted and carried by girls because I identified with the "tough guys" in movies and TV shows, who were my role models. On the other hand, I was jealous of boys who experienced it, and I loved it during the few times that older girls carried me against my will. It broke a taboo.

[Curt_connor]

Originally Posted by zebra

I was like that in my youth. I thought that it wasn't macho or manly for boys to be lifted and carried by girls because I identified with the "tough guys" in movies and TV shows, who were my role models. On the other hand, I was jealous of boys who experienced it, and I loved it during the few times that older girls carried me against my will. It broke a taboo.

Exactly same for me too
.. this one time a dominant girl and I had an experience and that opened my eyes, I now encourage whoever am dating to be more stronger,fitter and perhaps better than me.

[zebra]

Originally Posted by Curt_connor

Exactly same for me too
.. this one time a dominant girl and I had an experience and that opened my eyes, I now encourage whoever am dating to be more stronger,fitter and perhaps better than me.

What did the dominant girl do to you? I take it that she was larger and stronger, maybe older. In my case, an older female cousin carried me over her shoulder against my will when I was 8. She was 13 at the time.

[Curt_connor]

Originally Posted by zebra

What did the dominant girl do to you? I take it that she was larger and stronger, maybe older. In my case, an older female cousin carried me over her shoulder against my will when I was 8. She was 13 at the time.

Well she was younger than me by a year, but she was taller and thicker didn't know about strength then.
Now during a game of hide n seek we both were hiding in an attic where the only view window was on considerable height more than both of us. So she lifted me on her shoulder without me asking so that we can see the seeker. That opened something in me

[zebra]

Originally Posted by Curt_connor

Well she was younger than me by a year, but she was taller and thicker didn't know about strength then.
Now during a game of hide n seek we both were hiding in an attic where the only view window was on considerable height more than both of us. So she lifted me on her shoulder without me asking so that we can see the seeker. That opened something in me

I get it now. My female cousin (not the same one) was a few months younger than me, and she was bigger and stronger than me and most boys her age when were 12 or 13. She came up behind me, grabbed me around the waist, and effortlessly carried me across the yard. It was the only time that she did that. She lifted her smaller twin brother, who was the same size as me then, all of the time in all kinds of ways, often for long carries.

[Curt_connor]

Originally Posted by zebra

I get it now. My female cousin (not the same one) was a few months younger than me, and she was bigger and stronger than me and most boys her age when were 12 or 13. She came up behind me, grabbed me around the waist, and effortlessly carried me across the yard. It was the only time that she did that. She lifted her smaller twin brother, who was the same size as me then, all of the time in all kinds of ways, often for long carries.

Nice... I mean all of us here have this hidden desire but enlighten once we get an external incident suddenly out of nowhere. And that's where the desire awakens.
I always wondered why I like being in close proximity of larger girls isn't it emasculating but then later in life realised that was my strongest requirement.