Embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than you

[K4C3]

I don't really think I would have been embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than me. It has never happend to me actually and I don't want to brag or something but I am a bit of a athletic type. Not really strong, but better than the average man of my size (I'm approximately 5 ft 11 and now weight 175 lbs). So I'm pretty confident with strength and so, and if a girl would overpower me, I would know that she is really strong (for a girl). I've had many armwrestling contests with a lot of women (for fun) and always won, I've also met some girls at wrestling (I did practise a lot of martial arts before) and honestly I felt that there was a huge difference in strength. But of course there are a lot of women stronger than me. Haven't yet interacted with one though.

I also want to add that I'm not really attracted to strong women (the strength itself), I just get aroused by being carried by women.

[phoneman]

Originally Posted by K4C3

I don't really think I would have been embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than me. It has never happend to me actually and I don't want to brag or something but I am a bit of a athletic type. Not really strong, but better than the average man of my size (I'm approximately 5 ft 11 and now weight 175 lbs). So I'm pretty confident with strength and so, and if a girl would overpower me, I would know that she is really strong (for a girl). I've had many armwrestling contests with a lot of women (for fun) and always won, I've also met some girls at wrestling (I did practise a lot of martial arts before) and honestly I felt that there was a huge difference in strength. But of course there are a lot of women stronger than me. Haven't yet interacted with one though.

I also want to add that I'm not really attracted to strong women (the strength itself), I just get aroused by being carried by women.

That is an interesting comment. You are aroused by being carried by women, but not really attracted to strong women. I do not agree or disagree, I just find it an interesting observation. Maybe others have thoughts on this.

[K4C3]

Originally Posted by phoneman

That is an interesting comment. You are aroused by being carried by women, but not really attracted to strong women. I do not agree or disagree, I just find it an interesting observation. Maybe others have thoughts on this.

Yes I agree actually. There is some kind of paradox in this. Of course there must be some strength in a woman if she is able to carry me, but I want a woman to be feminine in the first place. The strength itself is not the most important for me. If I saw a woman carrying a heavy load which is not another person I wouldn't find it arousing at all.

[ramonra]

I agree with you, K4C3, more or less.
What I like is to be carried, I don't particularly like strong women, just hot women who carry me :P

However, when I know a girl is strong, I like that because there are higher chances that she will be able to carry me. I do get somewhat aroused if I see a hot girl doing squats with some heavy weight (like hey, she could carry me easily!)

I like when the lift is easy for them but at the same time I don't like very muscled girls (like bodybuilders) or big girls.

[Muscle_Chick_Fan]

I like women who are stronger than me, but I would not tell the Whole Wide World about it though.

[nostrength]

Originally Posted by Muscle_Chick_Fan

I like women who are stronger than me, but I would not tell the Whole Wide World about it though.

I agree. It's initially great the way a girl changes towards you when she finds out she's stronger. I've loved finding out girls I knew were stronger than me in the past, but when they say stuff in front of other people it's a little embarrassing, especially if they think they're making a joke that no one else understands, and they so do.

[TheWolfe]

Originally Posted by K4C3

I also want to add that I'm not really attracted to strong women (the strength itself), I just get aroused by being carried by women.

I don't think that's all that unusual. I think we find whatever type of women we like attractive and then want them to perform the L&C that pleases us.

I'm an F/F fan and don't care how strong a woman is; just how attractive I find her and my standards for that are very conventional (think Playboy Playmate-type as my ideal). To me the desire to carry is more the attraction in the lifter just like the desire to be lifted is the attraction in a liftee to me rather than how light she is. And yes, like you, when I see a girl who appears strong alongside a girl who appears light I identify that as a potential L&C scenario and pay attention. But bodybuilder type women are generally unattractive to me even though they're the most likely to L&C as a way to display their strength. I like L&C to be a more intimate interaction so a display of strength is a bit of a turn-off actually.

[badboy4375]

Haha, I have a friend, we are still very close & this was not too long ago. She is a wrestler, very strong & a bit of a tomboy... I don't know if she is stronger than me, but I sure know she believes she is. I've been wanting to test it out, but figured I'd be emberassed if she beat me in armwrestling and I'm not very strong. I did beat her in mercy but she said it's because my hands bigger than hers lol. She is extremely strong, I've seen pics where she beat 3 girls at once armwrestling and then a guy. She is about 5:5, she told me a few times that she could carry me, and that it was mostly technique. She's front lifted me a bunch of times, and cracked my back.
Anyways she is a university friend of mine & we lived in the same building, so one day, for some reason I started lifting her and her friend (firemans carry) and she was lifting her as well. We were just messing around. She then wanted to fireman's carry me, but I didn't think she could do it, so I let her try. To my surprised she lifted me up easily and then ran around for a few seconds even spinning me a few times. I felt pretty emberassed luckily nobody came & saw it 'cause I figured it would be extremely embarassing. She could easily have held me for longer. Later she wanted to take a picture of her lifting me to post on facebook, but I felt embarassed, so I declined...
I think about that regretfully now because I would like to have that pic ! I weighed about 180 at the time and she's about 140+ and built kind of muscular. Then my friend who's around 6ft 2 inches and 220 pounds came and was chilling with us, we were joking around and she wanted to try lift him. He did not want to be lifted & kept refusing though she kept asking. She really wanted to try. I was very disappointed she didnt get too lol.

[badboy4375]

Back in the day when me and my sister were very young. We were playing in the pool with another girl and my sisters friend. This girl named Josie was extremely strong. We were chicken fighting & I had my sister or her friend on my shoulder & she had the other one and we were alternating. Funnily enough, whoever she had on her shoulders won and who I had on my shoulders lost. Nobody said anything about it, but it was pretty obvious that she must have been stronger than me at the time.

[zebra]

Originally Posted by TheWolfe

But bodybuilder type women are generally unattractive to me even though they're the most likely to L&C as a way to display their strength.

The lack of female bodybuilders, in F/F lifting material, is disappointing. It seems like they would be naturals for that kind of L&C, and it seems like they could easily do most kinds of lifts. I would buy that kind of material, but I find endless hours of flexing and posing to be about as interesting as watching paint dry (to each their own). BTW, you often see the best lifts performed by normal-sized women.