Embarrassed to discover that a girl is stronger than you

Mike · January 27th, 2012, 17:00

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Originally Posted by rickishi

Dont worry, you will get over it .. On the positive side, she might feel you are weak and maybe try to show her strength trying to carry you and all... I mean look at the bright side. Be positive

Maybe if you feel you are too weak for an average guy, you could try some strength training program

BTW. I am Just 5.5 and weight 74 kg , In fact many chinese girls are taller than me these days ( I observed that in my last trip) so Imagine my state

In fact I'm not sad, but happy about this. I love to be the inferior part against a beautiful girl.
I dont write my previoust post to tell that I'm with problem now because this thing

In fact I hope to do more armwrestling, maybe a lift (I hope in the future!) if she want. Now she know that she's stronger than me.
I write my post to make understand to all that girls are stronger than man now, not in general of course, but is possible to a girl to beat a man.
I also love to be a dominant part in a relationship, but many times I also love to be the weakest part. Like many guy of this forum what I think... or I'm wrong?
I'm a little bit under 5'8 and now I think that if I meet a girl taller than me she can probably beat me like nothing

I'm still thinking about her long fingers almost breaking my hand

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Originally Posted by rickishi

BTW. I am Just 5.5 and weight 74 kg , In fact many chinese girls are taller than me these days ( I observed that in my last trip)

Many girls can lift you with no problem, you weight 4-5 kilos more than me. If you lose some kilos, women can throw you in the air like nothing
If you want read my two real l&c experience in the apposite thread and my two l&c session in the other apposite thread

thestrongerthebetter · January 30th, 2012, 09:06

A few years ago I went out with a girl who played rugby to quite a high level. I always knew she was quite strong, but one day at a party she wrapped one arm round a guy's waist and the other arm around another guy's waist and lifted them both up....

She could quite easily get me into a fireman's lift and then do squats with me. At the time I was 80kg. I once went to the gym with her and challenged her to do seated leg presses: she put the pin straight in the bottom of the stack of weights and lifted the stack up without too much effort!

I blame this lass for my love of strong women.

I'm not a weakling myself- I'm a rugby player too (second row- for those not familiar with the game, that's the powerhouse of the scrum).

I did challenge her to an armwrestle a few times- I always won, but I can't help thinking that she *might* have let me win just to save me the embarrassment

I did used to love f***ing her whilst grabbing her biceps though. Used to get me off in no time at all!

luff(arungen) · February 5th, 2012, 17:48

I've always looked really good and I've known this ever since I was a teenager (i.e. I've used it to my advantage many times). Knowing this I never felt the need to build my muscles up and get a shapely body, because I knew I could get most chicks I wanted.

This of course led to me dating or encountering many women who were stronger than me down the years as I was only normally built (in my late teens I wasnt even that, but i was more to the skinny side).

BUT, I've never been affected by this because I acquired a black belt in Jeet-Kun-Do when I was young which always made me feel like "Yes, she is stronger than me but if it were a fight I would win"....also most people I dated knew of my black-belt so they likely knew this too). So I was never feeling humiliated.

Later on in life I finally got into building my body up and gained weight as well as strength. Doesnt mean there arent any women stronger than me. I only go to the gym occasionally (not a gym rat) so women who are very fit might very well be stronger than me.
I wonder sometimes though how I would have felt about women being stronger than me if I didnt have my black belt. Would it bother me a lot? Would it embarrass me? I think it would

Lucky Luke · February 26th, 2024, 15:56

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Originally Posted by thestrongerthebetter

A few years ago I went out with a girl who played rugby to quite a high level. I always knew she was quite strong, but one day at a party she wrapped one arm round a guy's waist and the other arm around another guy's waist and lifted them both up....

She could quite easily get me into a fireman's lift and then do squats with me. At the time I was 80kg. I once went to the gym with her and challenged her to do seated leg presses: she put the pin straight in the bottom of the stack of weights and lifted the stack up without too much effort!

I blame this lass for my love of strong women.

I'm not a weakling myself- I'm a rugby player too (second row- for those not familiar with the game, that's the powerhouse of the scrum).

I did challenge her to an armwrestle a few times- I always won, but I can't help thinking that she *might* have let me win just to save me the embarrassment

I did used to love f***ing her whilst grabbing her biceps though. Used to get me off in no time at all!

I actually have a very similar story. Wonder if we even dated the same girl (did she go to Leicester Uni back in the day?!). Her "party trick" was to wrap one arm round a guy on one side and another guy on the other side and lift them both up at once. Never saw her doing leg presses in the gym but it wouldn't surprise me if she just lifted the whole stack.... Easily.

February 5th, 2012, 17:48	#3
luff(arungen) Administrator Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: USA Posts: 1,088 : 0 For This Post 625 Total	I've always looked really good and I've known this ever since I was a teenager (i.e. I've used it to my advantage many times). Knowing this I never felt the need to build my muscles up and get a shapely body, because I knew I could get most chicks I wanted. This of course led to me dating or encountering many women who were stronger than me down the years as I was only normally built (in my late teens I wasnt even that, but i was more to the skinny side). BUT, I've never been affected by this because I acquired a black belt in Jeet-Kun-Do when I was young which always made me feel like "Yes, she is stronger than me but if it were a fight I would win"....also most people I dated knew of my black-belt so they likely knew this too). So I was never feeling humiliated. Later on in life I finally got into building my body up and gained weight as well as strength. Doesnt mean there arent any women stronger than me. I only go to the gym occasionally (not a gym rat) so women who are very fit might very well be stronger than me. I wonder sometimes though how I would have felt about women being stronger than me if I didnt have my black belt. Would it bother me a lot? Would it embarrass me? I think it would __________________ Luffarungen, the one and only

January 30th, 2012, 09:06	#2
thestrongerthebetter STANDARD Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: UK Posts: 4 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	A few years ago I went out with a girl who played rugby to quite a high level. I always knew she was quite strong, but one day at a party she wrapped one arm round a guy's waist and the other arm around another guy's waist and lifted them both up.... She could quite easily get me into a fireman's lift and then do squats with me. At the time I was 80kg. I once went to the gym with her and challenged her to do seated leg presses: she put the pin straight in the bottom of the stack of weights and lifted the stack up without too much effort! I blame this lass for my love of strong women. I'm not a weakling myself- I'm a rugby player too (second row- for those not familiar with the game, that's the powerhouse of the scrum). I did challenge her to an armwrestle a few times- I always won, but I can't help thinking that she might have let me win just to save me the embarrassment I did used to love f***ing her whilst grabbing her biceps though. Used to get me off in no time at all!