It is always better to say about that directly but it's not always that simple like it seems supposed to be. It all depends on how direct and brave you are.
For me I was close to heart attack when I was talking my girlfriend about that. I couldn't get my words across - but I hope in your case It might be easier.
How girl will react ? It depends on her personality.
Each one of my ex girlfriends (except the first one) found it very cool, unique and interesting at the same time.
They even felt involved to try it themself and my second ex girlfriend - who was the strongest - was able to carry my in various ways. I was 190-200 lbs in that time We even posted YT clip, but we took it down due to break up.
But the first girlfriend was like "No, that is fu***d up. The man supposed to carry woman, not the other way around".
Maybe it depends on the way you say it. When you'll be too pushy, you could discourage her.
If you'll do it kindly It might work.
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