Telling your girl about lift and carry

buryZenek · May 5th, 2021, 10:58

It is always better to say about that directly but it's not always that simple like it seems supposed to be. It all depends on how direct and brave you are.

For me I was close to heart attack when I was talking my girlfriend about that. I couldn't get my words across - but I hope in your case It might be easier.

How girl will react ? It depends on her personality.
Each one of my ex girlfriends (except the first one) found it very cool, unique and interesting at the same time.
They even felt involved to try it themself and my second ex girlfriend - who was the strongest - was able to carry my in various ways. I was 190-200 lbs in that time We even posted YT clip, but we took it down due to break up.

But the first girlfriend was like "No, that is fu***d up. The man supposed to carry woman, not the other way around".

Maybe it depends on the way you say it. When you'll be too pushy, you could discourage her.
If you'll do it kindly It might work.

anonim · June 26th, 2021, 22:02

I didn't tell anyone I had lift and carry fetish. But some of my other friends have foot fetish and I hear stories of telling them to their girlfriends. Frankly, the results are often negative and can affect their relationships badly. If I tell my girlfriend about this l&c situation, she will want to get ideas from other friends and I think everyone will know that I have this fetish and in this case I'm afraid of being called the guy with the weird fetish. But compared to a foot fetish, some people will find this fetish interesting or strange rather than disgusting.I know I couldn't answer your question but I wanted to write my thoughts.

May 5th, 2021, 10:58	#1
buryZenek STANDARD Join Date: Feb 2021 Posts: 27 : 0 For This Post 11 Total	It is always better to say about that directly but it's not always that simple like it seems supposed to be. It all depends on how direct and brave you are. For me I was close to heart attack when I was talking my girlfriend about that. I couldn't get my words across - but I hope in your case It might be easier. How girl will react ? It depends on her personality. Each one of my ex girlfriends (except the first one) found it very cool, unique and interesting at the same time. They even felt involved to try it themself and my second ex girlfriend - who was the strongest - was able to carry my in various ways. I was 190-200 lbs in that time We even posted YT clip, but we took it down due to break up. But the first girlfriend was like "No, that is fu***d up. The man supposed to carry woman, not the other way around". Maybe it depends on the way you say it. When you'll be too pushy, you could discourage her. If you'll do it kindly It might work.

June 26th, 2021, 22:02	#2
anonim STANDARD Join Date: Jun 2021 Posts: 15 : 0 For This Post 11 Total	I didn't tell anyone I had lift and carry fetish. But some of my other friends have foot fetish and I hear stories of telling them to their girlfriends. Frankly, the results are often negative and can affect their relationships badly. If I tell my girlfriend about this l&c situation, she will want to get ideas from other friends and I think everyone will know that I have this fetish and in this case I'm afraid of being called the guy with the weird fetish. But compared to a foot fetish, some people will find this fetish interesting or strange rather than disgusting.I know I couldn't answer your question but I wanted to write my thoughts.