how to approach getting a girl to lift

hud01 · May 7th, 2010, 15:16

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Originally Posted by mark.johnson21

These all go for female friends and girlfriends:

1. Crack jokes about how she is weak - nothing too brutal of course, but just something tongue in cheek. Like if she's holding a back pack or trying to lift her books, or anything like that. If she's sensitive, she'll get offended. But if she's cool about it, she'll probably challenge you back that she's just as strong as you (assuming you and she are of similar height and proportions, or if she's bigger). Then you can say: "Oh you think you're stronger? Prove it! Lift me up."

2. Compliment her on her physique - particularly her muscles. Ask her how much she thinks she can lift. Then ask if she thinks she's strong enough to lift you up. Invariably she'll usually say yes. Then tell her to prove it because you want to see it.

3. Often it seems girls make jokes about beating up guys. You can easily turn those around and say: "Yeah right, I bet you're not even strong to pick me up." She'll take the bait.

4. Start by lifting her first. This might come out as creepy if you don't know her well, but if she's a friend, it shouldn't be a big deal. Can be done as easy as just looking her up and down until she says "What?" And you respond with: "I was just thinking if I'm strong enough to lift you onto my shoulders or not. Do you mind if I try?" She'll probably be cool with it in which case after you do it you say with a smile: "Haha, that was fun! Alright, my turn!" She won't necessarily take the bait, but she might.

5. You can make up a fake story like you saw a girl lifting a guy earlier and it blew your mind - "you didn't think girls had any muscle or strength at all." The girl might say: "Oh really?" At which point you say: "Yeah, must have been a fluke. Why, you think you're just as strong?" Again, easy to get her to take the bait.

6. You can ask her when the last time she had a piggyback ride was. Chances are she'll say it's been ages. So you respond with: "I kinda miss them - it's been awhile since I had one or gave one, but I always thought they were fun. You want one?" And then after she does say: "Okay, my turn!"

7. If somehow you get into a playful test of strength, start with an armwrestling match - then move onto lifting each other.

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I dunno - there's tons of ways and lots of variations of the above.

I like these. Almost every girl I have dated has at one point or another wanted to show off how strong she was. I have received piggie back rides from many of them.

mark.johnson21 · May 7th, 2010, 19:06

Agreed - if a girl does not know her own strength and is too afraid to try, then she's not going to lift you no matter what you do, in which case it makes no difference how you try. Not every girl wants to lift a guy even for fun once in awhile.

As for creepy - I don't think most of the suggestions come out as creepy - more just playful and fun. I think if your eyes bug out and a bulge forms in your shorts then yeah, it'll be creepy.

I think a more legitimate fear is hoping you don't get hard when she lifts you up. Especially if it's a piggyback ride because she'll know instantly.

aloknath · May 8th, 2010, 03:58

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Originally Posted by mark.johnson21

I think a more legitimate fear is hoping you don't get hard when she lifts you up. Especially if it's a piggyback ride because she'll know instantly.

If handled properly, the suggestions you made would probably not come off creepy. I just mean that generally speaking a guy asking a girl to lift him up might come off creepy.

And even worse than piggyback would probably be the OTS where the crotch is buried right into the lifter's shoulder!

mark.johnson21 · May 8th, 2010, 04:08

Haha! Well, I would say a crotch lift would be worse, except she'd probably expect that given the contact.

Fireman's carries you basically have your crotch digging into her shoulder, and frontal straddles it's right in her bosom!

I think the absolute worst would be like a powerbomb thing where your crotch is basically right in her face. It would probably be more funny than anything, though.

Ninjabuddy · May 13th, 2010, 22:27

Your size also determines whether or not a girl will be willing to lift you. I'm a pretty small guy, so when I jokingly ask another girl for a piggy back ride, they usually oblige. As long as you play it off as a joke, the creepiness factor goes away and the girl will usually feel more comfortable. Also, don't expect a girl to give you anything else except a piggy back ride or a cradle. Cradles can be pulled off quite easily actually: all you have to do is start taking a few pictures with them, and then jokingly ask if you can take a picture with you in her arms. The more comfortable YOU make them feel about the situation, the more likely they are to lift you. That comfort can be obtained by playing everything off with good humor. It takes a little practice, but it's not too hard.

winniethebeer · May 14th, 2010, 01:05

thats quit believable Ninjabuddy

faceplant53 · May 3rd, 2011, 15:55

Getting a lift is pretty easy. The hard part, of course, is not getting a b*n*r when it happens. If it wasn't for this, we'd probably all be asking women for lifts all the time!

tallgirlfan · May 11th, 2011, 09:39

I wanted to know if any of you guys ever had a random girl on you met for a few moments at a bar, or school or walking on the street lift you?

To be honest i tried something of that sort with a stranger but would find it pretty hard convincing them to lift me, then i just jokingly changed the subject. From what i know its pretty hard to get a stranger to lift you, i can convince girls i know as friends but not hot girls i might pass by in the street without going through whole the tedious process of getting to know them then the lift. You have to get to know them first for them to even think about lifting you but still i fantasize about a day where i can get a lift from a girl who is total stranger

Dylan91 · July 13th, 2023, 11:00

I need help with that too. I'm about to try something. And I' not sure if I should
Maybe some of you guys could help me.

In a few weeks I will visit my cousin. She is somehow a longterm crush of mine.
Even when I was much younger I started fantasizing about her. I know she's daughter of friend of my family. To speak clear. She has to me the perfect shapes to be a girl to get a piggyback ride from. Naturally broader shoulders, nice brownie teint, not small,.. And somehow I imagine it could look like a quite innocent thing when I have good plan / context in which it would happen:
Ok my plan is... I made a card game with challenges. A lot of different, funny challenges to laugh. And one is to give a piggyback ride. If she pulls the card
she has to do it. That's the rule. Of course when I see she doesn't pull the card will sabotage the game and do cheating so she has definitely to do it.

Do you think this would be be too weird? Do you think I better let it be cause it comes off too weird / creepy / inappropriate?
Or do you think I should add or remove anything so it would appear more innocent? I'm grateful for any ideas. What do you think of the approach? If you guys say I shouldn't do it I won't do it. I guess then it's a bad idea.

May 11th, 2011, 09:39	#8
tallgirlfan STANDARD Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 211 : 0 For This Post 80 Total	I wanted to know if any of you guys ever had a random girl on you met for a few moments at a bar, or school or walking on the street lift you? To be honest i tried something of that sort with a stranger but would find it pretty hard convincing them to lift me, then i just jokingly changed the subject. From what i know its pretty hard to get a stranger to lift you, i can convince girls i know as friends but not hot girls i might pass by in the street without going through whole the tedious process of getting to know them then the lift. You have to get to know them first for them to even think about lifting you but still i fantasize about a day where i can get a lift from a girl who is total stranger Last edited by tallgirlfan; May 17th, 2011 at 07:38.

May 7th, 2010, 19:06	#2
mark.johnson21 VIP Honored Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 325 : 0 For This Post 164 Total	Agreed - if a girl does not know her own strength and is too afraid to try, then she's not going to lift you no matter what you do, in which case it makes no difference how you try. Not every girl wants to lift a guy even for fun once in awhile. As for creepy - I don't think most of the suggestions come out as creepy - more just playful and fun. I think if your eyes bug out and a bulge forms in your shorts then yeah, it'll be creepy. I think a more legitimate fear is hoping you don't get hard when she lifts you up. Especially if it's a piggyback ride because she'll know instantly.

May 8th, 2010, 04:08	#4
mark.johnson21 VIP Honored Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 325 : 0 For This Post 164 Total	Haha! Well, I would say a crotch lift would be worse, except she'd probably expect that given the contact. Fireman's carries you basically have your crotch digging into her shoulder, and frontal straddles it's right in her bosom! I think the absolute worst would be like a powerbomb thing where your crotch is basically right in her face. It would probably be more funny than anything, though.

May 13th, 2010, 22:27	#5
Ninjabuddy VIP Honored Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 170 : 0 For This Post 211 Total	Your size also determines whether or not a girl will be willing to lift you. I'm a pretty small guy, so when I jokingly ask another girl for a piggy back ride, they usually oblige. As long as you play it off as a joke, the creepiness factor goes away and the girl will usually feel more comfortable. Also, don't expect a girl to give you anything else except a piggy back ride or a cradle. Cradles can be pulled off quite easily actually: all you have to do is start taking a few pictures with them, and then jokingly ask if you can take a picture with you in her arms. The more comfortable YOU make them feel about the situation, the more likely they are to lift you. That comfort can be obtained by playing everything off with good humor. It takes a little practice, but it's not too hard.

May 14th, 2010, 01:05	#6
winniethebeer VIP Honored Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 1,238 : 0 For This Post 8,929 Total	thats quit believable Ninjabuddy

May 3rd, 2011, 15:55	#7
faceplant53 STANDARD Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 2 : 0 For This Post 0 Total	Getting a lift is pretty easy. The hard part, of course, is not getting a bnr when it happens. If it wasn't for this, we'd probably all be asking women for lifts all the time!

July 13th, 2023, 11:00	#9
Dylan91 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2023 Posts: 13 : 0 For This Post 8 Total	I need help with that too. I'm about to try something. And I' not sure if I should Maybe some of you guys could help me. In a few weeks I will visit my cousin. She is somehow a longterm crush of mine. Even when I was much younger I started fantasizing about her. I know she's daughter of friend of my family. To speak clear. She has to me the perfect shapes to be a girl to get a piggyback ride from. Naturally broader shoulders, nice brownie teint, not small,.. And somehow I imagine it could look like a quite innocent thing when I have good plan / context in which it would happen: Ok my plan is... I made a card game with challenges. A lot of different, funny challenges to laugh. And one is to give a piggyback ride. If she pulls the card she has to do it. That's the rule. Of course when I see she doesn't pull the card will sabotage the game and do cheating so she has definitely to do it. Do you think this would be be too weird? Do you think I better let it be cause it comes off too weird / creepy / inappropriate? Or do you think I should add or remove anything so it would appear more innocent? I'm grateful for any ideas. What do you think of the approach? If you guys say I shouldn't do it I won't do it. I guess then it's a bad idea.